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*onelyguy28
writes:Dear Cupid.... I have met this girl in high school, and also in junior high, but I only had a small crush on her back then. But now, 10 years later, I typed her name on facebook..and she is there. Well, testing my courage, I typed her that I like her. Guess what? she asked me to call her and she gave me her phone number. Not long after that, I found out that she was a widow with 1 3 yrs old son, divorced after only 1 years of marriage. It's strange, cupid, I have grown a huge crush (do you want to know the symptoms? my heart hurts, I always think about her, well, my memories about her, and I suddenly think that she is the only one for me) and it has continued to happen for a month. I have read articles about infatuation, that the feeling will gone after 18 months, but this "love" feeling tortures me, but there is a problem. right now I am working on my final thesis on my bachelor, yup, 7 years in bachelor (there is really a problem with me right?) and my mother told me that I can't see this girl until I finished my thesis (if I do it right, then in November I will graduate), I typed her on fb that do you want to see the sunset together? and she replied that she would love too. But waiting that long, make me nuts, as you can see, I haven't met this girl for about 10 years, so.... what should I do? and how do I know if she loves me back or has a feeling for me? thank you for the answer.
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reader, lonelyguy28 +, writes (24 August 2009):
lonelyguy28 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell ladies, thank you so much for your answer, may God do kinds to you as well in paying for these answers, I hope we all can get what we need, thank you again.
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (23 August 2009):
 Your mum is only telling you what she feels is right for you.
I know you feel deeply attracted to this girl but even I think your studies should come first.
You've worked so hard thus far in your studies and if this girl truly likes you she will wait for you to complete your exams before you focus all your attention upon her.
You need to realise people change and you dont know how you will feel until you spend time with her and get to know her.
She might be or might not be what you expect.
Before you embark on this relationship focus on whats important and never changing, your exams. Everything else is secondary to this for now.
Good luck!
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