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writes:This is a long story but I'll try to be as succinct as possible. I hope you can bear with me.I recently went on a 2 month trip to Thailand, my main purpose being to teach English to the local schoolchildren there. I was staying at a resort for the entirety of these 2 months, and got quite familiar with the staff. Whilst in Thailand, I met this instructor who was living at the resort. I soon got to know him very well, as we went on numerous expeditions together with various school groups. It wasn't long before I started liking him more than a friend. I began to develop such intense feelings for him that it actually felt like I had fallen head over heels in love!Well, anyway, the time came when I had to leave, and leave I did. But I could not get him out of my mind! Life felt unreal and pointless without him... I felt both numb and heartbroken – a combination I had not previously thought possible! Eventually, after much deliberation and many a despairing tear, I decided to send him a short text asking for his email address so that we could keep in touch.A day passed. Then another.Soon, a whole week had gone by since I had sent that text. Why hadn’t he replied? I hadn’t hinted at my desire to become more than just friends at any point during my stay, nor in my text. I was just so confused and frustrated because there was no way for me to know why he hadn’t replied!Well, here I am now, a tangled turmoil of emotions. And all because of one guy! Please can you tell me what you think I should do? I don't want to seem desperate and insecure but, at the same time, I desperately want to stay in touch with him! Let me know what you think.Yours,A girl irrevocably in love. xo
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think I've finally moved on. Though it was a painful journey, I am certainly a stronger person for it.
Thank you for your advice; you helped me to come to terms with the fact that living in the past is not really living at all! Much better to live in the moment and let past hurts go.
Thank you again for your support and guidance.
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reader, Ich_liebe_dich  +, writes (24 September 2009):
 Hello Gina,
Dont get me wrong, Im here in Thailand for the last 16 years untill now and for that long time i already know how some thai. people react. I would suggest for you to let go.. unless you really insist to find him then you better come back here in Thailand and look for him. but as long that you are not here in Thailand. I think its better for you to start to let go.. good luck......
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think you're right, Gina. Thanks so much for your advice; I'm going to try to move on.
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