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Archived questions from: March, 2012 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

I feel trapped in a faux relationship! She broke up with me but still expects me to fund her!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

30 March 2012 (M) - Hello people I wonder if you can help me I am in a big big dilemna in my life at the moment, 8 months ago while I was travelling around in north america, I hooked up with my 'girlfriend' who i stayed with for 3 1/2 months to cut a long story ...

How can I convince my long distance girlfriend to stay longer when she visits so I can spend quality time with her and hopefully get laid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

30 March 2012 (M) - There's this girl who lives in Durban, appearantly she is kinda like my long distance girlfriend, she lives a far from where I am of which I leave in Johannesburg, she going to come in couple of days to company her friend to visit her boyfriend of ...

Online g/f said she'd be back and that was 3 weeks ago. Do I let go now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

28 March 2012 (M) - So ive been in this long distance online relationship, everything seemed like all was going good. We would sit on skype talk to each other all day, sometimes fall asleep talking to each other and just leave skype on all night. Then after about three ...

I want to get married and live together and now we're going to be in a 2 year LDR??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - I can't wait to get married and live together with my fiancee! He's 29 and I'm 23, and we've been together for 2 years, engaged for 1. We decided on a long engagement because we're both still in school, and he feels he should have his degree first ...

My LDR met an old friend and now it's bothering me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship ,about 3 hours away . Last week my boyfriend told me he met an old female friend at the gym ,he told her she looked well and she looked nice . She knew he had a girlfriend and asked him for his mobile number ,my ...

I am in a LDR- how do I stop feeling jealous?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years and we have been in a long distance relationship for exactly a month now. The first two weeks going really good, he would even stay friday nights in his home to Skype with me! I thought ''wow, this ...

My LDR is filling me with jealousy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

26 March 2012 (F) - hi im a gay female new to the site and question is about long distance relationships; we been seeing eachother once a month for 6 months, been on holiday together and both say 'i love you' however i feel too lonely and pushed aside as her life...

How much time does a man need to commit?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

26 March 2012 (F) - "Please babe just give me some time" I don't even know where to begin. I met his guy a year and a half ago and we hit it off right away even though its long distance. All my friends and families and his know that we are serious about each other and ...

I told her how I felt and she has not spoke to me since! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

26 March 2012 (M) - actually i don't know what to say or ask, i really need some help or advices maybe because this thing just make me really stressed. and here's my situation. i met this girl a year ago from facebook, I met her family year earlier from facebook...

How do I get my boyfriend to start showing other people we are together so they know not to mess with our relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

26 March 2012 (F) - Hello guys I need a mature advice of dealing with this situation. I am in a LDR. There seem to be a trust issue that I have gotten over after I did all my homework and realize that my man is not physically cheating. Hey I have friends too in my area ...

I told the guy I'm dating I want to be with him and no response yet.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

25 March 2012 (F) - Guys or ladies, I would loooove some advice please! I have been casually dating a guy long distance now for bout 5 minths now known him for a year. He lives in kentucky I stay in california. Seeing each other is never a problem we take turns flying ...

Is looseness a sign of cheating?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

23 March 2012 (M) - Okay I'm a young male around 18-21. My girlfriend lately has been very distance and when.we do have sex she feels loser. Is this a sign she is cheating?...

We were talking daily, he asked me to be his girlfriend twice, but now I've not heard from him since Wednesday! What is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

23 March 2012 (F) - I am very nervous. I met someone from online in february..we have been texting/talking every day/night..basically always some form of communication. He always reaches out to me in the morning. It is a little long distance-we are few hours apart but ...

Fallen in love with someone who is 9000 miles away....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

22 March 2012 (M) - it all started when I saw her blog link on a website, and you can call it a love at first click. 'you just fall for her look, you will get over it soon.'; 'tumblr is not a social network for you to find a date!' etc... I'm tired of hearing these...

I told him I wanted to break up but I didnt really mean it, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (F) - I am having troubles with my boyfriend of 3.5 years. We have our ups and downs(kind of a long distance relationship)... yesterday we got into a fight over a stupid thing, that turned into something huge... i told him i wanted to break up, but deep ...

Eight years later and I am still confused about what he wants!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

20 March 2012 (F) - I want to know if I am in love and what the hell is going on? I have known this man for 8 years, we went on a couple of dates 6 years ago, then he moved away for college, then we started up a long distance relationship for five months 4 years ago ...

We brole up because neither was willing to move, should I visit him although there's no hope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4628 days ago

20 March 2012 (F) - I want to visit my Ex-boyfriend in NYC. We broke up while in an LDR because neither one of us are willing to move. That remains our 'reason' for breaking up, though we also had a very volatile relationship while physically together so I'm not sure ...

I stopped anything from happening because I was worried about being too wet, is he going to be pissed off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

20 March 2012 (F) - hello everyone, im with a long distance relationship with my boyfriend now hes back in my country to spend holiday with me. i love him and he loves me too. he said that he likes me so much. lie evrytime i touch him. theres a connection. the spark ...

Distance is taking its toll on our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

19 March 2012 (M) - So the distance is slowly getting to my girlfriend during our 7 and a half month relationship together. What should I do...I don't want her to be unhappy or hurt, please help. ...

Relationship at a cross roads, should I move to another country to be with him, or just let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

19 March 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly five years. I am 29, he is 26. We were friends before we started dating for two years. After three years of living together, my boyfriend got an offer to finish his PhD in another country. At firs...

Are we in a serious relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4630 days ago

18 March 2012 (F) - hey everybody! so i am studying/working abroad right now (still got 3 months to go), and a month ago i went bk home for a holiday. on my holiday i met up with this guy i had been chatting on fb with, and we really clicked. he said that if i promise ...

My boyfriend is upset that I lost my virginity to another during our break up

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

18 March 2012 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship because he is goes to college in washington and i live in florida. So we live on oppsite sides of the country. He is turning 20 this year and im 18. We were together for over a year when we broke up. He just sto...

Here's my advise: Don't send money to people you meet on the Internet!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

17 March 2012 (M) - Hi everyone. It's been two years since I have written anything on Dear Cupid, so please bear with me since I have been on a two-year hiatus. Well... I'm still single since I'm not involved with anyone else, aside from the fact that I have ...

Unsure if my long distance relationship is going to work

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

15 March 2012 (F) - I am currently in a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend (we've been together for one year, seven months). He lives in Mexico City and I moved to Florida three weeks ago with my mother to finish school and get my U.S. Citizenship. We ...

I don't see how this is going to work long term for me, should I bring it up now? Or wait until we have been together longer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 March 2012 (F) - I met someone from online in PERSON who lives about 3 hours away. We both seem to like each other and have been in contact everyday now whether it's through text or phone conversations. He already said he wants us to be boyfriend/girlfr...

I think my best friend went through my phone and sent out naked photos of my boyfriend to others! Should I confront her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

14 March 2012 (F) - Im 26 and am currently in a LDR with a lovely guy. He works away for 2 months at a time so we keep the relationship going by sending sexy photos to each other. Anyway, i saved the photos onto my phone and thought no more about it but then i just ...

We live 2 hours apart, should I break it off because of the distance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

14 March 2012 (F) - Hi I have been talking to this guy I met on an online dating site, and I really like him. But I'm concerned about the distance between us. I mean its not that far really, but its far enough to make it difficult to see each other (about 2 hours ) ...

How do I stop comparing this new guy to my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

14 March 2012 (F) - I had a very intense year long LDR with a guy in the army and I finished it at christmas time. I was totally head over heels for him but I couldnt trust him and he was always messing me about. Now someone else has walked into my life and Im thin...

Pictures of my boyfriend with girls on his lap, trips to strip clubs and hanging out with wild girls.....I'm not happy about this, but he says I'm taking away his freedom!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

14 March 2012 (F) - Hello everyone, i am facing an issue and i cant figure exactly whats the underlying cause. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years.And right now we are doing longdistance due to college.I love him a lot and he loves me too;however we are having s...

Was this Band member being sincere? Did he mean it when he said contact him again? Should I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4636 days ago

12 March 2012 (F) - The other night I went to see one of my favorite bands play in a tiny bar in a tiny town, so there really wasnt anyone there. I'm only visiting here so I went alone. I ended up talking to one of the members at the bar, and we totally hit it off....

Should I write him? Would he really call me a drama queen if I told my real feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4637 days ago

11 March 2012 (F) - my ex(x) and I broke up nearly 3 years ago we were only 16 and I was always jealous and he got drunk one night and kissed another chick and broke up. I wanted him back but the following months he just used me to make out but he wanted another chic...

Why do people think my relationship will end? She is my first and last love!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

11 March 2012 (M) - Hi everyone, I wanted to know about love. Why does everyone say its my first love so I am very passionate about her(by the way her name is may). I love her very deeply from my heart and will do anything for her. I would give my life if I have to ...

Should I tell my LDR boyfriend that I don't like what he gets me? He doesn't know what I like

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

11 March 2012 (F) - im in a ldr. we always communinicate and have ups and down but this valentines day he send flowers and cake, but he forget my bday, and he didnt give me pressies. which is ok.but it really upset me.. and this next month, his comming over but i ...

What steps do I take to get back and be happy by myself ,knowing that I'm not single

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

11 March 2012 (F) - for the first time in our relationship..which is long distance from a while, my boyfirnd of two years ,who is too bust ,stressed and burdened with work and responsibilities in his life ..is asking me for "space" he also said that i give less ...

Should I go out with the guy that I broke up with my boyfriend for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

11 March 2012 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend because I fell in love with another guy..is that bad...? Me and my bf had a long dist relationship for 8 months but we wre together for A year before that...the problem is that when I moved I fell in love with anothe...

My parents do not approve of my LD online boyfriend and want me to break up with him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

11 March 2012 (F) - Dear Aunts, I met my boyfriend on facebook like 2 years ago. We have developed feeling to each other since then and we started dating. It didnt take long for us to develop such feeling coz we have the similar interests. We live in 2 different cont...

I'm afraid my urges may ruin everything!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

10 March 2012 (F) - In my country, relationships are really hard to be understood by foreign people. And that is because of our religion, culture and education. it's just full of weirdness lol. I won't tell you about how it became so complicated but just try to ...

I am hungry for her love and care.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 March 2012 (M) - Its regarding my girlfriend and me. we are having long distance relation since a year. she used to be so caring and loving. we used to call each other,chat three to four hours daily,share voice recordings and photos via email.. but nowadays,its not ...

Is it wrong for me to ask boyfriend what he was doing when he asks if he can call me back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

9 March 2012 (F) - This is a small thing, but it's driving me crazy and I need some outside perspective. I am in an LDR and we talk on the phone every night before bed usually for about a half hour to an hour, sometimes longer. We both sometimes have to hang up for ...

I snoop on my boyfriend but that's because he gives me reasons to snoop!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

8 March 2012 (F) - Folks, I got caught snooping this weekend while visiting my boyfriend. He looked at me shook his head and walked off to the bathroom. I went in there to beg him to forgive me. He said he did not want to talk about it and he is not mad. The next day...

Those who were successful in LDR, how did you convince your partner to move closer to you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

8 March 2012 (F) - I am in a LDR of 11/2 years. I developed a habit of snooping very early in the relationship which I think is really bad. I have already fallen in love with the guy so it was hard to get rid of him. He does this thing that I have never seen with any ...

How often should your LDR boyfriend ring you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

7 March 2012 (F) - dear all i need your advice. I met a muslim guy online and we have been chatting for nearly 4 month. He is a greatguy but i just find him too controlling. He wants to know my every move. last night i was chatting to a friend on skype and he we ...

Does anyone have experience with moving away for work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

6 March 2012 (F) - I'd love to work away somewhere, either in another part of the UK, or abroad, but i feel scared about doing it, as i have never lived away from home before. Should i go for it, or should i just try to find a job close to home since i am nervous ...

Overdosing on contact!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

6 March 2012 (F) - I know this is a somewhat odd question, but here goes: I'm in a long distance relationship and it's all going great. We send emails to one another every day, we send text messages by the dozen and we talk on the phone every single day. Now that last ...

Can anybody read this man's mind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

6 March 2012 (F) - I was going out with my partner for a year and a half. He always travelled with work and we always managed to make things work. But after xmas he said he wasn't sure if he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. When I challeneged him and said ...

Dont want another LDR but full of doubts in case our situation changes....should I leave or stick with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

6 March 2012 (F) - I got out of a 6 year long distance relationship because it went absolutely nowhere a few years ago and then met my current partner. We moved in together, lived together 2 years and it was great. I had no doubts, we had a great time together. He ...

Why does it seem that less and less people use personal restraint in relationships today?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

6 March 2012 (F) - How come less and less people have self restraint these days? There are so many instances about people cheating on their bf/gf, students sleeping with teachers and most recently an acquaintance of mine who slept with her sister's husband. Why does ...

How can I protect my girl friend from the psychological abuse her foster parents are imposing on her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

5 March 2012 (M) - Hey – So long story semi-short. My girl and I have been together for 9 months. She’s 16, I’m 18. We’ve been together since she was 15 and a freshman in high school, and I 17 and a senior. She’s adopted, been with that family for 4 years now...

Great dates, some affectionate passion, but now he's disappeared!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

4 March 2012 (F) - I went on 2 wonderful dates with someone who isn't even from my area, he lives in another state. He was around for business. We both had such a great time together and there was a lot of passionate affection involved in that little time. He kept in ...

My ldr bf what his intentions to me. and where do we stand now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

4 March 2012 (F) - im in a ldr and my boyfriend is 15 years older than me his nice guy we had ups and down to be in this hard long distance relationship,before we been together as bf/gf we started we talk to regularly on skype everyday we have different time so ...