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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey everybody!so i am studying/working abroad right now (still got 3 months to go), and a month ago i went bk home for a holiday. on my holiday i met up with this guy i had been chatting on fb with, and we really clicked. he said that if i promise not to break his heart he'll wait for me until i come bk home for good.now that we've been almost a month apart, he says he misses me and i miss him too. we don't text everyday, cause either he's busy or i'm busy, but we text or chat about 2/3 times a week. he worries about me alot, and said that i should be careful not to get hurt, as he can't bear the thought of something happening to me and not getting to see me again. he says that i'm special for him, and he hasn't had these feelings for someone in a long time. he says i'm his precious jewel, and can't wait to enjoy summer with me.so what do you guys think, are we in a serious relationship? ..i mean are we bf/gf? or not yet? what do u call this please?i don't know why, but i'm really curious of what's going on between us! i mean i really really miss him, but its like we've only met for 4 dates, but still, i'm seeing these months away from him as a living hell!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2012): Here's what I think:
Other people may say the you are not in a serious relationship because, lets be honest, you have only been on "4 dates." However, I believe that it is this kind of emotion that starts a relationship. You find yourself missing your partner and craving the presence of that person. I think you should follow your heart, if it doesn't work out, than it doesn't work out, but you should at the very least give him a shot and hope for the best.
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