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Archived questions from: September, 2005 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Our relationship has always been long distance, so I don't have much experience in any of the usual things!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6982 days ago

30 September 2005 (F) - I am 27 and for the last 9 months I have had a long distance relationship with a guy I dated 10 months ago when I visited his country. At the time he had just ended a relationship with his girlfriend. I have pretty strong feelings for him. He always ...

When we're apart, I get worried that my boyfriend will leave me for someone new...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6677 days ago

30 September 2005 (F) - Hi, thanks for being willing to help me with this! What's going on is, I like his guy and he likes me, and we both live apart. Even though that kind of sucks because sometimes I fear he'll lose feelings for me from being away. I have trust in him, ...

Will we still be together when it's time for my boyfriend to leave for overseas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6983 days ago

29 September 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months - he is 23 and I'm 20, and I can honestly say I've never felt this strongly about anyone before, and he has all the qualities that I could want in a person to spend my future with. I'm pretty s...

My ex-girlfriend is a bit messed up, but she she says she still wants to be with me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

28 September 2005 (M) - I'm 16 I have been seeing this girl for a couple of months. She's great but she is really messed up. She does drugs and lots of other stuff. She has had lots of relationships over the last year, not all with blokes. We broke up befor the end of t...

The end is in sight for our relationship. Should we just break up now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6986 days ago

26 September 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I met at my Uni and have been together for 7 months. He was away for 4 months this summer visiting his parents in his home state, but we remained a couple. Now he's back, but says he will be leaving back to his home state in 3 ...

Is it fishy that my girlfriend, who cheated with her ex and lives 900 miles away is sleeping over at her male "friends" houses?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6964 days ago

24 September 2005 (M) - I have a long distance relationship that's been going on for over 3 years now. Most of my girlfriend's friends happen to be male. Being that we live so far apart (900 miles, to be exact), I don't see her but a weekend a month. My problem is, more...

This girl and I are practically best friends, but we've never met in person!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6969 days ago

21 September 2005 (M) - I've known a girl for four years, but I've never met her! We met via a friend of mine. He was on the phone to her and I snatched the phone off him, whilst drunk. Four years later and we are practically best friends. We speak every day. We spend ho...

I had to move quite a distance away, but I still think of her as the girl I want in my life...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6993 days ago

20 September 2005 (M) - I am an Asian male in my mid twenties. On one of my jobs, I had to live for almost one year out of my home. During that period, I was with a girl. We used to go out most of the time, but not as a couple. After more than a couple of months like t...

My guy is gone into the military, and he's just not a phone person so we never talk!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6489 days ago

20 September 2005 (F) - I have been talking to/dating this guy for about 4 months. I found out early on that he had just graduated from the same college that I still attend and was going into the military. I did not expect to get as close to him as I am now, but ...

I need to see the person I'm with, and my boyfriend doesn't seem to understand that!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6994 days ago

19 September 2005 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship for a year....he had flown down to see me about a month after meeting and we had a good time so we decided to try this as I had never tried being in a long distance relationship. He had been open to ...

He wants to stay in contact, in case we're free to pursue a relationship later, but I think we should move on.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6994 days ago

18 September 2005 (F) - I was dating a guy for nearly 4 months, we were very much in love, but had to go our separate ways for uni since he wasn't ready for a relationship. He wants to stay in contact, and one day meet up if there's still something between us. But I feel t...

I don't want an Open Relationship any more, because I can't bear to think of him with other girls...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6368 days ago

16 September 2005 (F) - My boyfriend recently just went off to college. We decided to have an "open relationship" while he was away, but to get back together whenever he returned home. I realize now that it's too hard for me to know he's getting with other girls and not be ...

We met at camp and things were incredible. But we had to break up because we live so far apart...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6997 days ago

16 September 2005 (M) - I went out with an amazing girl this summer at camp and now that we are apart I can't get over her. We broke up because she lives pretty far away and I will only be able to see her a handful of times during the year, but going from seeing her every ...

After a scare in Iraq, my boyfriend is rethinking our relationship...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

15 September 2005 (F) - My boyfriend is in Iraq. Things were going so good and then the other day he was hurt; not bad physicaly but emotionaly real shook up. Now he has started saying things like it's not fair for me to have to go through this and worry about him. I f...

I hate our long-distance relationship and the way my girlfriend behaves, but when we're together... things are great!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

15 September 2005 (M) - Do I end my long-distance relationship of 4 years because of our different views? First, I should provide some background. My girlfriend and I met via a website for people with contractable diseases. As such, we share something in common that I da...

What do I do with my life when my boyfriend leaves "to find himself"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6998 days ago

15 September 2005 (F) - My boyfriend just decided finally that he is going to go away for a year, basically to find himself. It's a facility that is going to help him and stuff, but i dont know what to do.. We've been together for almost 4 months, i know its not long but i ...

Should I take the risk and move interstate to be with my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6999 days ago

13 September 2005 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years was accepted to med school in the next state, 3 hours away. I am currently finishing my MA, so I will be done with school and looking for a new job about the time that he moves. Yes, we have discussed marriage. No, those ...

How do I balance my new life at uni and my time with my boyfriend... 70 miles away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7000 days ago

12 September 2005 (F) - I am starting University next month and am scared about how it's going to affect my relationship with my boyfriend. He will be starting his second year at a uni about 70 miles away from mine. In his first year I was still at school so he would co...

We were best friends, but the only guy I ever cared about was sent away. I just can't move on!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

12 September 2005 (F) - I'm 16 years old. The only guy I ever truly cared about my whole life got sent away. It has been a year since I have seen him, talked to him, or heard from him. I'm going crazy. Wwe were so close and we cared about each other so much. It was diff...

When we were forced apart, my girlfriend started becoming more distant...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6979 days ago

12 September 2005 (F) - I am a lesbian. My g/f and I are different nationalities. Because of visa difficulties we have had to be apart for the past 2 months. Communication has been difficult, but we spoke when we could on the net and we sms a lot. About six weeks ago the ...

All those gestures and kindnesses... don't they mean something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7002 days ago

11 September 2005 (F) - I was new in this country when I had this colleague who at first seemed to show interest in me. Being a foreigner who does not know anything on the people's attitude on this country, I am not sure if he's just being nice or he likes me. With doubt ...

Since I'm back at uni, we hardly see each other. Will our relationship stand the distrance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7006 days ago

7 September 2005 (F) - I am going out with a really great guy and we are talking about moving in together and having babies and getting married in the future. But since I have gone back to college he has had more work hours and we hardly see each other, and it's getting ...

I sent some SMSs in the heat of the moment. Now I'm sorry, but he won't listen!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7006 days ago

7 September 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other (long distance relationship of 600kms) for a year. We are both divorced mine being 3 years and his being 1 year. We met unexpectantly and we had feelings for each other right fr...

My dream guy is 19, and he lives on the other side of the world!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6826 days ago

6 September 2005 (F) - I am 15 years old and fell in love with a guy over the internet who's 19. I trust him and care about him a lot and couldn't imagine my life without him and he is in love with me. I would love to meet up with him but the problem is he lives in Austr...

My holiday romance could continue here at home, but I think he's protecting his feelings!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7008 days ago

4 September 2005 (F) - Hi, I met a really lovely guy on holiday. He pursued me, and I was completely swept off my feet. At first I never really thought it would be anything more than a holiday romance, but when we returned home we spoke on the phone every day, and have ...

Should I tell my friend about the way my feelings for her are developing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7003 days ago

4 September 2005 (F) - I'm 20 years old and I'm falling in love with my good friend. She is very nice, sweet and generous. We've been friends for several years. I first met her at an orientation camp before we went to the USA on an exchange programme. I like talking ...