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writes: My boyfriend just decided finally that he is going to go away for a year, basically to find himself. It's a facility that is going to help him and stuff, but i dont know what to do.. We've been together for almost 4 months, i know its not long but i truly do love him and he loves me.. I just dont know what to do. I dont know how to deal with it when he leaves, or even when he's gone... Please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, jaime +, writes (15 September 2005):
When a guy goes away for a while to "find himself" he is not sure about some things, This is very awkward and theres nothing you can do. When he comes back he will have made his mind up. If he leaves then im sorry but he isnt going to change his mind. But if he comes back and stays, just be careful with your relationship because he will be very sensative with you. Hope everything works out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2005): pops is right
hes being very selfish in going away and leaving you behind
it sounds like the trying to find himself excuse is a lie
chances are he wants to end the relationship but is to coward to admit it.
unfortunatly this is how some men think
stuart farmer
london england
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reader, pops +, writes (15 September 2005):
Wish him the best. Hope he finds himself, and date other men. You only have 4 months invested and many of us have invested far more time. Move on.
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