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writes:I'm 16 I have been seeing this girl for a couple of months. She's great but she is really messed up. She does drugs and lots of other stuff. She has had lots of relationships over the last year, not all with blokes. We broke up befor the end of term and were going to get back together, but she thought the distance would put pressure on us (she lives on other side of country). Now she tells me she went out with someone the other day but she still wants me. What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2006):
Think of someone you love, like a brother or a sister. Now pretend they just told you everything you've said about your girlfriend and you. What would you tell them. Would you advise them to stay or to leave.
Your girlfriend is probably a great person. She almost may be lost and making bad choices with your heart. You deserve more than she may be able to give.
A sweeter love may be waiting; if you give it a chance.
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reader, MissMo +, writes (28 September 2005):
I think you know what you should do. You're young, and there are still plenty of people and experiences to look forward to. She doesn't seem committed to staying in the relationship if she broke up with you and went out with some other guy. She says she wants you, but she probably just likes the attention you give her. Everyone likes to have someone around to talk to and to make them feel special. Relationships are hard work - some people are worth the time and effort, and other people aren't. Whether this girl is worth your energy is up to you to decide.
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