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Archived questions from: September, 2014 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

2 years of talking and now he's pressuring to meet. I've gained weight and don't want to tell him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3710 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - So I have been talking to a guy I met online who lives across the country. We talk everyday for 2 years but we haven't met yet. We've talked on the phone and cammed before and sent each other a lot of pictures. I really like him even though I think ...

My Bf of 3 years still sees the friends he mixed with back when he did take illicit drugs. Is it wrong to expect him to cut ties with them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - Here's the situation: I'm very anti-drug and when I met my bf of 3 years, he told me that he was a recovering addict, clean for the last 7 years and that he was over it. So I was fine with it. The problem is that he still hangs out with frien...

Clean now and sober for 23 months. How can I show these people that I've changed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3709 days ago

29 September 2014 (M) - When I was in my early 20's I began a bad habit that got me hooked on drugs (pills) and alcohol. I was able to hide it from almost everyone I knew. I met an amazing girl “T”, who had no idea what she was getting into and I thought I could ju...

No second date after 3-4 weeks of texting and talking...should I give up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3704 days ago

29 September 2014 (F) - Last month, I met this guy online and we hit it off really well. I gave him my number, and we have been texting every day since … We went on one date, 3 weeks ago and it went great! All kinds of sparks, and he was very romantic and attentiv...

Can this be fixed? Broke up. Reconnected for 1 night. But says we're done as he can't trust me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

29 September 2014 (F) - I need advice. I split with my boyfriend of a year a couple of months ago and flitted between getting back together and then not doing so. (I was going through a big depressive episode a and he was finding me difficult.) I also kissed someone whil...

Is there any other way to handle the situation considering how strict my parents are?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

29 September 2014 (F) - Hello :) This guy really likes me and he even said "I love you" to me and I'm actually really into this guy. We started off really good friends and we found that we have a lot in common. We actually tried dating and it lasted for 7 months but a...

I'm just having a really hard time dealing with my uncle's death and the guilt is pretty overwhelming at the moment

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

29 September 2014 (F) - Hey everyone, this isn't a relationship question but I've been using this site for over a year now and love the advice and help people give on here and thought you guys could give me some for my current situation. Unfortunately my uncle passed ...

I have a higher libido than my husband does, and it's starting to frustrate me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3712 days ago

28 September 2014 (F) - I have been married for about five years. I seem to have a higher libido than my husband does. I am really beginning to feel the frustration of him not being in the mood as much as I am. Of course I can please myself and often do, but it is so ...

Is this rare that I love a set of feet? I'm fixated about my Aunt's feet.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3712 days ago

28 September 2014 (M) - I love a set a feet. I have never heard of a person loving a set of feet. My question is I love my aunt's feet. Is this rare to love feet? Has anyone ever heard of a person really fixated on a particular part of the anatomy such as feet? What c...

What is appropriate? What type of support would be suitable to offer to a friend who has been diagnosed with oral cancer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3713 days ago

27 September 2014 (F) - Someone i know has recently been diagnosed with oral cancer, can you offer advice?. This is difficult for me to talk about. A man i know was diagnosed with oral cancer three weeks ago. The tumour is near his jaw. I am friends with this man, but ...

I think our sex life is great! How can I show him that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3714 days ago

26 September 2014 (F) - Hi guys ive been with my partner for 6 years and we have a great sex life. We have sex about 9 times a week depending on how often we meet. He has a problem with premature ejaculation. However this doesnt mean he cannot satisfy me and he does almost ...

He's moving to another country. How do I handle losing the love of my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3714 days ago

26 September 2014 (F) - So this is a really heartbreaking time for me. My OH and I have been together for almost 3 years. It was an epic love affair like in the movies, we really "get" one another and we have been through hell and back many times but we survived it all.We ...

The girl I'm dating lost weight and now I don't find her as attractive!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3714 days ago

26 September 2014 (M) - Dear Agony Aunt, I am writing to ask your advice on a difficult situation. I have recently begun a new relationship and we have been going out for about 2 months. When I first started seeing this girl, she was quite chubby and curvaceous, ...

He hasn't taken responsibility for his actions but did stop talking to her. And what do I do about my so-called friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

24 September 2014 (F) - Hi everyone I'm a female seeking advise on whether it's ok my husband and my best friend have been texting anywhere from 5 to 30x a day while I only get 3 texts a day from both of them over the past couple months.during which time I found out my ...

Is this an addiction of some kind?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

23 September 2014 (M) - I am an average 15 year old freshman in high school, with a regular range of problems. But we've all been in that position. Although I've noticed something a bit different. I absolutely LOVE the music I listen to (techno/electron...

This friend won't give me the support I need, how do I deal with it when I'm alone with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

23 September 2014 (F) - Hi Agony people, My problem involves a good friend of mine. A few months ago I was abused and cut up by so called friends. Other friends of mine had been told lies about me also and some of them turned on me and gave out to me for everythi...

I enjoy my life but want to feel important to someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

21 September 2014 (F) - I'm confused about why I want things/ people in my life... I have a group of friends who are quite loud and chatty and funny. I'm fairly quiet. If I speak up in the group - nobody hears me, and nobody ever responds to me. When we use Whatsapp to ...

My Gf has refused to see me for 7 months and despite the fact she is pregnant. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

21 September 2014 (M) - Hi! I haven't seen my girlfriend in over 7 months.. she has autism, bipolar and also cancer so she is pretty sick at most of the times, we also have a baby on the way and I love her but I don't know what to do as I'm always worried about he...

Unhappy and depressed -- how do I help myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3720 days ago

20 September 2014 (F) - I have never felt this way before until now. I'm 21 and l have a 3 year old daughter. For the past few months I have been very unhappy with my llife. I have no friends at all my life consists of going to school or staying home. I have no one to talk ...

I love him but not his tattoo! How can I convince him to erase it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3714 days ago

19 September 2014 (F) - l been with my boyfriend for 5 years and our relationship was great. We are both 25. He loves me so much and serious about our relationship. He would do anything to make me happy. But now he has changed. Its because of me too. Its my fault. I've ...

I heard a man I like has cancer. Should I go see him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3721 days ago

19 September 2014 (F) - A man I like has cancer, should I go and see him? I haven't seen or heard from him for a while. We have liked each other for a while, but we haven't been in a relationship. I am devastated. I was out in a pub last night ,and his friend told me that ...

Will it help bring us closer and stop us fighting if I become more accepting about his pot use? I don't want to lose him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3722 days ago

18 September 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. He smokes pot everyday, all day. I hate it, but I'll do it every once in a while. I was sober from it for 2 years, up until June, then I smoked with him, towards mid/end of July, I smok...

What advice can you offer? The love of my life is depressed about his career

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3723 days ago

16 September 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been long distance (10 hours distance) dating for almost two years, but have been friends for about 8 years. He recently (last December) sunk into a deep, deep depression, so much he just wanted to stay at home and sulk. It ...

I go out with people because I'm supposed to but I never get butterflies

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3723 days ago

16 September 2014 (F) - My problem is that I never have feelings for anyone, but i have in the past, and I want to know if anyone feels the same? I was a really emotional child and had very strong crushes on guys, the weird thing is I could never really imagine going out ...

Hard as I try, I can't see my way to forgive him for his past behaviors

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3723 days ago

16 September 2014 (F) - You know, make a list and list the good and bad. The bad. My boyfriend of 4 years has stared at women in front of me, given them the elevator look--up and down, turned around and looked at them or one if we leave an establishment, with me ...

We are in an affectionless marriage! Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3724 days ago

16 September 2014 (F) - Hi I am new to the board and am in an affectionless marriage. We have been married 14 years, 3 kids. We met, moved in together and got married within a year. We used to not be able to get enough of each other, now it feels like we are nothing more ...

I committed the ultimate sin of friendship and I slept with one of my bestest, oldest friends.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3722 days ago

16 September 2014 (F) - The other night I committed the ultimate sin of friendship and I slept with one of my bestest, oldest friends. I was the one who suggested it on a night out that ended up just us two - proposing we try a FWB type relationship. He was surprisi...

Is the older guy I've been seeing really even into me? (a little explicit)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3724 days ago

16 September 2014 (F) - Hi everyone! So I have been seeing a new guy for about two months that I met online. He is pretty awesome, has a great personality, and is very handsome. He is about 15 years my senior (I am of legal age, 21), never married and has no kids. He ...

My B/f knows that I have a history of depression and yet he's broken up with me, blocked me in every form and now I cant move on

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3722 days ago

15 September 2014 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for two years until he decided that he couldn't be with me anymore. I have a history of depression and I think I was wearing him down. He said it's over and to him it's been over for ages before he actually said it was ...

I'm terrified of throwing away something which has been so great but I also don't want to cling on to something that is irreparable

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3725 days ago

15 September 2014 (F) - A quick summary of my relationship with my boyfriend: We've been together for 4 years since we were 17 (and were friends long before that). We live in the same area, have many similar friends, lots of shared interests, he feels like part of my famil...

My boyfriend calls me and rants about things, is this normal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3727 days ago

13 September 2014 (F) - Hi all, I'm dating a man who likes to/ needs to "vent". This is what he calls it anyway. To me, "venting" has always meant something like calling a friend (or even talking out loud to myself in the car) and just saying what's bugging me. Just ...

My friends are messed up with drugs -- is there anything I can do to help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3728 days ago

12 September 2014 (F) - ok.. so i have this friend of mine hes awesome we hangout like twenty times a week with my brother sometimes without him everything is alright but theres three problems his ex wife has a drug problem and he to has a drug problem i know its none o...

Do I need to tell guys that I don't shave down there?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

11 September 2014 (F) - Same person who just wrote in about starting over sexually I just thought this was different enough for a new entry--I don't like to shave or really even trim my bush, I do very minimal maintenance.Once you're at that crossroads, where you're ...

My girlfriend choked me in an argument and I'm extremely disturbed. What do I do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3730 days ago

9 September 2014 (M) - I got into a silly tussle/fight with my fiancé a few months ago. She had been moody and snappy with me and her parents all day. At the end of the night I got fed up with her horrible attitude and said I was leaving for the night. As I s...

Why can't he stay hard?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3730 days ago

9 September 2014 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now. At first I held off having sex with him because I wanted it to be "special" I guess. I wanted to see if he was in it for the long run. And he waited just like I asked. I love him and I know he loves ...

I've done everything to be romantic, so what's the problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3733 days ago

7 September 2014 (M) - I am 53 my fiance is 38 we used to make love everyday and most days 5 to 6 and as many a 10 times we used to have oral at least 2 times a week and I would love to be oral with her every time her had to have a his to hysterectomy and a back injury 3 ...

How do I deal with my hatred and bitterness towards women?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

6 September 2014 (M) - How do I remove my hatred and bitterness towards women for them expecting guys to make the first move? Doing the approaching and asking out, initiating/escalating, taking the lead? I hate this one sided dynamic with a huge passion, even though I am ...

He seemed to be the "one". But now I feel guilty. Does this mean my feelings have changed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3734 days ago

6 September 2014 (F) - I had a boy friend from two years ago. We had so much fun he was my soul mate he taught me the meaning of love. We broke up because of some issues he had. He promised me that he will propose to me and we would get married, when the issues is resolv...

A girl in my college class is being bullied. How can I help her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3734 days ago

6 September 2014 (F) - Can I ask a question? I am at college and really enjoying it, however there is a girl in my class who is being bullied, she isn't very bright but is stunningly beautiful, and the other girls in the class talk behind her back saying stuff like, "ugly ...

How can I create situations that might help me to get my wife back? I cheated and she cannot forgive me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

3 September 2014 (M) - I confessed that I cheated on my wife, but she wont forgive me. I've read a few web pages. I understand that in order for it to work, she must be willing to try too. This is not possible for her now. She wont talk to me. Please help me think of...

I hate the way he accuses me of being unfaithful.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3737 days ago

2 September 2014 (F) - Break up are so upsetting! My boyfriend and i have been dating for 4 years. We have broke up and got together loads of times. I hate the way he accuses me of being unfaithful. He is really unwell with mental health and im scared he will do harm him...

My Bf calls me insulting nasty names. I want to leave him. What can I do to ensure my future is happier?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3739 days ago

1 September 2014 (F) - My fiancé accuses me of cheating every single day. He heard me get raped. Ever since then he has accused me of cheating. He constantly calls me a "c**t, a stupid worthless piece of s**t" and all these other fowl things. He expects me to tell him...