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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have been married for about five years. I seem to have a higher libido than my husband does. I am really beginning to feel the frustration of him not being in the mood as much as I am. Of course I can please myself and often do, but it is so much better with a lover! I would be content with twice a week, but it is more once a week or even every two weeks. We used to get into disagreements about this; once, he even had the nerve to say that he felt pressured when I expressed desire to sleep with him! I said that I had never known a man who objected to that kind of pressure. In all other aspects, our relationship is fine. We are compatible in other ways, prefer the same things and usually have a great sense of humor together. It is just that our sex life is very unsatisfying. Any advice? Or anyone else similarly situated?
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (28 September 2014):
 Dora? Is that you?...Just joking, You could try some sex toys, they're all over the net. He might want to 'help you out' from time to time when he's down. Lots of Luck
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (28 September 2014):
 If'n there's nothing medically "wrong" with hubby... he just doesn't have the juice to satisfy you... then YOU need to make a tough decision.... EITHER you live with him and his lack of "ooomph"... or, you decide that you'd rather have a more active sex/love life... and trade him in for a model which is more in keeping what you want.
I've commented on this a number of times on this site... and believe that many people seem to agree with me about this....
Good luck....
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