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writes:i have been hanging out with a guy who's normally used to casual relationships. i told him from the start that im not the type of girl that is okay with casual sex, but yet he still asks to see me almost every weekend. when we hang out we talk most of the time, ad the most we have done is make out. i'm confused as to his true intentions. is he just hoping i will somehow change my mind, does he actually enjoy my company or is he just playing games? Reply to this Question
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (28 October 2011):
 He's hoping that you'll change your mind and put out. We guys can be astonishingly patient when we think we have a chance for that......
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reader, ShiShisAdvice +, writes (27 October 2011):
 Playing games. You SAY you are "not that type of girl", yet you do those things. If he is not taking you around family and friends, then he is playing you. So stop the game. If he is "showing you off" then you are fine. Remember, a guy that truly likes you wants to show you to the world! Never forget that, and you will be alright.
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reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx  +, writes (27 October 2011):
 Really do agree with So_Very_Confused.
One more thing, if you are against casual things like sex and kissing etc. Then you can simply tell him unless your going out you don't want to do anything like that. He could then ask you out which ovbs can point towards him liking you (not always though) Stop talking to you completely which points in the direction he just wanted wham bham thank you mam.
Or still come round to talk but without any kissing ext, which could mean he enjoys your company.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (27 October 2011):
 Deep sigh... I wish I had the answer I'd be rich... I could tell everyone what everyone else is thinking.
Maybe he really likes you and is just hanging out with you
Maybe he's biding his time till you spread your legs for him and then he will use you and dump you
maybe he's just having fun and hanging with you till something better comes along.
If you are having a good time with him, and he seems to be having a good time with you, stop worrying about what he wants and just continue to have a good time and see where it goes. Just make your choices carefully based on knowledge and your gut feelings.
If you think asking him will help you can ask him.. but if he's a player, he will have a set line for this..... and may or may not be trustworthy... ONLY YOU can decide what to do....
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