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writes:Hey, i started uni a few weeks ago and in my first week, met a really cute girl. We got talking and exchanged numbers and chatted with each other a few times a week in person and via text. I was thinking on asking her out – go for a walk and get a coffee, but in the last week she’s been very reserved. She doesn’t want to initiate conversation with me and if I do talk to her, she doesn’t seem interested. Also if she replies to a text message, she no longer sends ‘x’s’I haven’t said anything that would have upset her or done anything stupid, so I can’t understand why she is acting this way. Is there anything I should do to resolve this?
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (27 October 2011):
 Maybe it's nothing you did. Perhaps she just thinks it's a bit soon to get into any kind of relationship as she has just started uni (afterall there is all the studying and pressure to deal with firstly)
She may have just had a change of mind, it happens and is no reflection on you. Relax, be friendly if you see her around but maybe leave the texting for a while. You are going to meet a lot of girls at uni, so hang back a little and be cool...just see what happens.
Remember to have fun fun fun because it's one of the most wonderful experiences you will have.
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reader, Advice_man  +, writes (27 October 2011):
 Most probably she is not interested dude. As you get older you will see this happening often: You have great chats with a girl, she gives you the impression that she is interested and then when you show a little attention she pulls back. They ofter use us to cover their insecurities and also they seek for attention to feel more desirable. Don't get it personally, that's how they are. Over time try to spot those characters and avoid them. Also have this in mind: When a girl really likes you, she will NEVER risk loosing the oportunity to be with you. Best wishes!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (27 October 2011):
 you could ask her out and see what she says...
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