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anonymous
writes:I met a guy at a club last night and we were interested in each other so we swapped names and numbers (I didn't kiss him or go back with him or anything, just talked). This morning he added me on facebook, has been texting me LONG texts all day, and even asked if I wanted to meet up with him and his friends tonight (which i didnt do as I already had plans). He is from a city around 3 hours away from mine as he is just up here visiting a friend- he goes back tomorrow. He has been talking about me and him meeting up when he next comes here and seems really enthusiastic about it.However looking at his facebook, there are many signs pointing to the fact that maybe he already has a girlfriend! His relationship status and friends are hidden, however on his profile pictures, there is picture after picture of him with the same girl, and "girlfriendy" comments on his page from said girl- most recent one being a couple of weeks ago. I also noticed that when I clicked on his profile pictures, at the top it said 'updated 6 hours ago' which is around the time he added me .. the first picture is him on his own, and the second one is of him and the girl meaning he changed the picture to him on his own when he added me! He seems really interested in me though with long texts and talking about ourselves and what we have in common, and it's not sexually suggestive or anything like that, so it's not like he's getting anything out of talking to me :S. I don't understand! Should I just keep talking to him and see where this goes?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (27 October 2011):
 sounds like she is more than a casual friend...
ask him. right now all you two are is friends... can't hurt. see what he says.. nice test of mettle and if he lies you you and you find out later on... well there you go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2011): I'd say he is most likely dating that girl. Can you see her profile? See if shes in a relationship.
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