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writes: Over the holidays I became closer to a girl at school who is in a couple of my classes but apart from that I have never really talked to her. I had suspicions that she liked me as I would often catch her glancing over at me then when I turned round she would quickly look away. So in half term we hung out a bit with a large mutual group of friends and we really clicked. So I got the impression she liked me. When we got back for some reason I still don't understand I thought she would like me even more if I played hard to get. I didn't do it well and just ended up ignoring her and talking to other girls instead. I knew it was good so this week I wanted to try again and was up for being social with her. When I got into class she wouldn't look at me and won't talk to me. She doesn't seem down in fact she seems happy as ever. Have I ruined things and does she want nothing to do with me or is she also playing hard to get ? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2011): Well you said you were ignoring her to play hard to get.
Thats playing games! Most girls will get tired of this eventually and move on. Talking things out is far better and doesn't mess with peoples heads in the process.
She might be playing you at your own game, or she may think you're a player and no longer be interested or she may think you're just not that into her. I bet she's very confused anyway as to what you want.
Maybe approach her and strike up a conversation, its the only way she will see that you actually are interested.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2011): She just probably just playing hard to get...most girls do that; I know I do and usually it works. So don't get down on yourself, just play along and you'll get her.
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