A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I feel like I'm trapped. I met a man(call him x) through mutual friends. He was head over heels for my other female friend(call her y). That night she kept giving him grief though and even started yelling about a hook-up that happened with another boy while he was trying to cook dinner for everyone to impress her.They invited me over to watch a movie and y ran off, leaving X and I alone. We had a couple of drinks while waiting and he started venting about how he hated Y and was just looking for a fling.I kept trying to call Y and asking her where she was. She just said that she was busy and frankly she just wasn't interested in X.X and I wound up hooking up due to alcohol and just random venting.The next thing I know, X starts dropping the love bomb on me and keeps asking, "what if we were more than a fling" even though he said he only wanted one. I had only known him about a week. He also creepily told me that 'he wished I was pregnant' and about how we would be forever connected, etc.I realize I got myself into a mess. My consequences for my actions for drinking and being wreckless. What should I do?Now he's admitting to kissing another girl while chasing me and that he started talking to another girl because he wasn't sure if I would stay or not.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (13 June 2011):
 Yuck, he sounds rather nasty to be honest.
Ignore him, block his calls and pretend you don't know him. Everyone makes mistakes from time to time, HE is your mistake. Learn from this lesson. Don't drink and hang out with a man you hardly know. Specially if he is "supposedly" in love with a friend..
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (13 June 2011):
 He sounds like a mess and he is dragging you into his Drama.
Feel like being a bit player on his stage, then play the part!
Feel like being the star of your own life? Mark this for experience and make a wise choice. You had a one night stand with a "boy" who is unstable. "Y" got wise. Time for you to show some common sense and walk away from this player.
Best Wishes.
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