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writes:Why does this guy want to bring a friend along when we meet ?. He wont meet me unless a friend goes with him. Do you think he wants them there as a bit of support, possibly because he is nervous, or do you think he just isn't interested in dating me ?. We've only met once, so i'm not sure where this is going to go yet. He gave me his number, and the first time we met, he told my friends that he thought i was beautiful and, he had seen me with another guy before he gave me his number, which was someone i used to be seeing, and he said " i wish i was him " !. So, it does seem like he is attracted to me . Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2011): Yes he might be shy.
Id agree to the mate comming along and bring a friend aswell.
He might just want to take things very very slowly with the hope of a relationship developing.
This is more likely to happen if it was more casual with friends around.
Good Luck.x
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reader, RedAthena  +, writes (13 June 2011):
 You met it person once before. Did he have a friend with him before?
How did it become decided he will not meet you AGAIN, unless the friend is there?
Does he seem shy?
IF this was a first meet in person, it would not be unusual for him to bring a friend, maybe he trusts this friends opinion of people he is considering to date?
Since you are NOT in a relationship,go and meet, in a public place.
Best Wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2011): Whether he is nervous or just a player this is rather immature so I'd give him a pass.
Save your time and energy for an adult, not someone who acts like a teenage girl.
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reader, polkadotkitty +, writes (13 June 2011):
I would say he is nervous and doesn't really realise that you are interested in him but is into you (unless he is a bit of a player and uses the word beautiful to get girls to feel dead flattered however that wouldn't correlate with him not having the confidence to meet you alone) becuase you have only met once in a friends context perhaps his friend is back up. I would pursue meeting up with him (and his friend) if you are comfortable with it and want him- the worst that happens is you make two new guy mates! perhaps he will gain the confidence to meet you alone after that! Good luck I hope he is lovely! X
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