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writes:Hey everyone. I have a problem. I am in a 2.5 year with my boyfriend, and we both love each other very much. We live together, and have for about 6 or 7 months. But today (and today only) we got in a few arguments, where he told me to "fuck off" and was being quite disrespectful. He has never been like this towards me before ever really, he would usually just ignore me or not say anything if we were really arguing badly. I am worried something is going on, or something I don't know about is happening. I did have trust issues with him, but have actually recently gotten over them and have really found myself again, and have learnt not to rely so heavily on him:). So what is going on here? Do you think by chance he is doing something deceitful behind my back by acting so disrespectful towards me? He did apologize afterwards, but I dunno. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008): I agree with the guys...You have given no evidence that he is up to something. That is probably your imagination running wild.
It sounds to me like he was really really pissed-off and he let you know it!
Relationships always have ups and downs...it can't all be hearts and flowers!
Wait till he has cooled down, and talk to him. Be good to eachother, and accept that there will be good days and bad days!
Good Luck & Happy Holidays!
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reader, babyminow  +, writes (22 December 2008):
 it sounds like you need to talk to him, and tell him you are still not comfortable with what happened. if yall talk it out maybe things will start gettin easier. if not maybe things will be rough for a bit. but a relationship can not be very good without trust.
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