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writes:I only have one testicle. I have had girlfriends in the past; but I was wondering how a girl would react if it were a more casual. If you don't already have an emotional attachment to him, how would you react if you found out a guy that you picked up only had one testicle? Reply to this Question
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reader, SoftlyCaress  +, writes (22 December 2008):
 Balls is just the things hanging there i could give a poop less about them as long as your stuff works good I think your safe
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008): First of all, I wouldn't care. Second of all, I wouldn't go down on or hook up with a guy I'd just met. Thirdly, one would hope you'd be interested in us enough to inform us first. Kind of like my bf informed me 'I'm a virgin' before we even thought of haivng sex.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (22 December 2008):
 My brother in law has only one testicle,he fathered 4 kids so what's the big deal? I think balls are rather goofy looking away so at least you are less so.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008): Your not asking about how a girl would feel in a relationship so I guess personality wouldn't come into play here. Casual, well. The girl may be a bit taken aback. But it really depends on the girl, you may pick up a bitchy girl but most will properly won't say anything or may ask curiously.
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (22 December 2008):
us girls dont care about your balls. some guys like to think we do, but really we dont.
as long as you are cute,sexy,friendly,funny and can get it up, then thats all we want. 2 balls, 1 ball, no balls ...who gives a bull!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (22 December 2008):
I don't tend to examine the testicular area too closely when I meet a guy so I very much doubt I would notice.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008): Sirena nailed this answer I think.
If I meet a guy I am not going to jump in bed with him.In my culture I wouldn't even have sex with him till I got married.
By the time the sex stage comes I would have known you a person.You win a girl over emotionally.Then She is not going to bother about your testicles.Its though our mind that you get into our heart.
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reader, sarcy24 +, writes (22 December 2008):
 I have had a boyfriend with one testicle and it didn't bother me at all. It made no difference to anything. He was born that way. He was a very sexual man and very loving and it never affected anything. Any woman who loves you wouldn't be fussed at all. Please don't worry about it.
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reader, starlight starbright +, writes (22 December 2008):
If it's a casual thing and sex is the only thing we're both wanting, then it wouldn't bother me. Testicles house sperm and isn't the source of pleasure to a woman so it shouldn't bother anyone. Not even you. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008): Guy is nice, kind and friendly, penis works.. don't see any problems.. If a woman has a problem with your body, then dump her....
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (22 December 2008):
 I don't think it would be a dealbreaker, per se, but I wonder: If it's a guy I picked up, how would I know that he had only one testicle? I wouldn't have relations with someone I had just picked up, and I'm not sure how it would come up in the conversation.
I sense that this is making you insecure... when we meet someone we like, it's normal to be apprehensive. No one is physically perfect, we all have our flaws. I think that the best relationships have a foundation of friendship, and when you meet someone you like, remember, she should be your friend before she becomes your girlfriend. Think of ways you can be a good friend to her.
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