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writes:hi my girlfriend loves me but has no interest in sex what can i do to solve it Reply to this Question
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reader, Blue_Angel0316  +, writes (22 December 2008):
 If she has recently had a child this could explain it. Some women don't have sezual desires because they are often too tired or they just don't feel sexy anymore.She could be pregnant!This makes some women more sexual and some loose their natural interest. Hormonal problems or other female conditions can cause also be of concern. Old issues about abuse can cause someone not to be interested.(ex.rape, molestation,or incest, etc.)Sometimes the depression is the culprit. If someone has gained weight or lost weight they may not feel as attractive and have loss of desire for sex. Her lack of desire could be just a feeling of wanting to wait for the real intamacy until later in the relationship. This could be her way of hoping to base things upon love instead of the sexual aspect of the relationship.
I would suggest talking to her about the situation. If certain things can be discluded, then you should try conviencing her to get evaluated so that any health or mental health conditions can be dismissed also.
God bless,
Blue_Angel
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female
reader, Blue_Angel0316 +, writes (22 December 2008):
If she has recently had a child this could explain it. Some women don't have sezual desires because they are often too tired or they just don't feel sexy anymore.She could be pregnant!This makes some women more sexual and some loose their natural interest. Hormonal problems or other female conditions can cause also be of concern. Old issues about abuse can cause someone not to be interested.(ex.rape, molestation,or incest, etc.)Sometimes the depression is the culprit. If someone has gained weight or lost weight they may not feel as attractive and have loss of desire for sex. Her lack of desire could be just a feeling of wanting to wait for the real intamacy until later in the relationship. This could be her way of hoping to base things upon love instead of the sexual aspect of the relationship.
I would suggest talking to her about the situation. If certain things can be discluded, then you should try conviencing her to get evaluated so that any health or mental health conditions can be dismissed also.
God bless,
Blue_Angel
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008): May be she is saving herself for marriage.In that case you need to respect her wishes.
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female
reader, SoftlyCaress  +, writes (22 December 2008):
 You can Be patient some girls wish not to be sexual till they know its sure thing and some choose not to have sex until they are married And some just choose not to do it at all that is something that will work itself out but if you love her just be patient and dont pressure her
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reader, MetalMan  +, writes (22 December 2008):
 there's nothing to solve here mate if she doen't want to have sex she dosn't want to and there's nothing wrong with that! i'm giveing you the benifit of the doubt here but from this question you just sound insenseitive and you just want sex so i think you really ought to put more infomation up before you get tron to shreds for just wanting sex and not careing about anything else.
but i also want to help so i'm going to say that you ought to ask why she dosn't want to (if you haven't allready) and you may be able to work with her if it's a fear or if she just isn't ready be patient, dont be pushy and just let the relationship advance, get to know each other better etc if its a viable relationship than that level of intamacy will come with time.
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