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Archived questions from: November, 2016 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

Should I ask her to study with me .... I really like her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2913 days ago

29 November 2016 (M) - So in my Art History class there is this girl I find very attractive. Before class we usually have good small talk. Now the semester is coming close to an end and our final exam is coming up. I was thinking of asking her to study so I can spend more ...

I'd like to ask her out, should I text her again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2913 days ago

29 November 2016 (M) - Looking for advice on a woman I just met recently and really like. Text her last night and she replied a few times but didn't reply since last night then. How long should I wait to text her again or should I not text her at all if she doesn't text ...

Is it a bad idea to hook up with a single mother?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2915 days ago

27 November 2016 (M) - Recently I broke up with my girlfriend and now I'm single. I know it's too early to hang out with other women but there is this girl she's 09/10 rating hot brunette, younger, she used to be my coworker but she got pregnant, got married and now she's ...

Is she jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

27 November 2016 (F) - Hello. First of all, I have a friend and she is a lesbian. We still hang out with each other. I kind of like her but I didn't show it to her cause I don't want to break our friendship. One day, when she surprisingly visited me in my house, we hang ...

Should I just be brave and go for it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

27 November 2016 (F) - I really like this guy. We've only met twice but we speak practically every day. Lately, he's not spoken as much and I feel we are drifting apart. He knows how I feel and he says he likes me too. I don't want to rush things but I feel I'm pu...

I'm too shy to get close to him. How do I get him to notice me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2916 days ago

26 November 2016 (F) - I have a crush on a guy a year older than me but I can't get his attention, so I found out a lot of info about him like his full name, birthday, classes, siblings, previous schools and his Facebook, despite the fact that we've only talked once. I ...

Being an Indian how do you send subtle indications to a White guy that you are interested in him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

26 November 2016 (F) - How to make a white guy understand you are interested in him? Asking him out surely didn't help. We Indians are so culturally different from the west I wonder what would be the right way to send some cues for the guy that I want us to be more tha...

Is this guy intimidated?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2911 days ago

25 November 2016 (F) - Hi I'm Rach, 19. This post is probably one of the most cliché crush circumstances ever and it's SUPER long, but I've been struggling with it since June so here goes -- I've (sort of? Maybe just a little bit) been into this particular guy, B, for ...

My crush. He's 20, I'm 17. Should I wait 2-3 years for him or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2916 days ago

23 November 2016 (F) - I'm a 17-year-old Asian international student. And I'm having a crush on a guy for a few months who is 20 right now. Actually he already had done some sexual stuffs with me although we're not in a relationship. Days ago I confessed to him...

Am I falling for the same type of man all over again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2918 days ago

23 November 2016 (F) - So I've been single for over a year, not been near anyone since and have been working on myself. My last breakup I realised was an entire lie... A lie which ended in a court case for me ex for assault... He should of got ABH if not attempted murder ...

Why would he? Potential date seems too much in a hurry to meet

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

22 November 2016 (F) - Hey all . Ive started online dating a month ago and been talking to a guy at the beginning he took his time getting to know me but suddenly he seems to want to meet fast like the world is going to end and he has to cram it in . Im careful and take...

He's so confusing and I don't know what to do..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2920 days ago

20 November 2016 (F) - I am very confused; this is going to sound like a film but im in love with my best friend and I don't know what to do! So we've been friends since January and we've spoken everyday for the past nine/ten months but in September I told him how I f...

Am I his re-bound girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2920 days ago

20 November 2016 (F) - He was in a long term relationship which broke down maybe 4-5 months ago. we have started talking online these past few weeks, but have been on each others social media pages since before the break-up ( just as friends or support) He knows i am her...

How do I get this girl back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2922 days ago

20 November 2016 (M) - Dear All, First time writer and I'm really needing some desperate help. My story. About 6 years ago I met a girl. We went out and nothing ever come of it. I guess I wasn't really in that place at that time. But she held a candle for me...

I'm having a hard time getting over her

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2919 days ago

20 November 2016 (M) - I've posted about this female in questions a few times before. Basically I'm having a really hard time getting over her and I'm questioning my sanity and what else I can do to get over how I'm feeling. To cut a long story short, a FWB that didn't ...

Did she just want to sleep with me? Or could she really 'like' me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2921 days ago

19 November 2016 (M) - To cut a long story short, I had sex with my female housemate. I am not super attracted to her but yeah, it happened. I suspect she has been trying to seduce me for a while because she has asked to 'spoon' a couple of times after a night out. After ...

He lives in a different city and I really like him. How can I get him more interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2921 days ago

19 November 2016 (F) - Hello! In a complicated situation. Help me out ! I really like this friend who lives in a different city. We have been on a couple of dates but we don't get to meet because of distance. I asked him out on a date recently but his response was " I ...

I really like him but I fear rejection. What can I do? What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2920 days ago

18 November 2016 (F) - Modnote: two almost identical questions combined. ................................... dear cupid, ok so there is this guy that I really like he is a grade bigger than me, he used to like me at the beginning of the year (I could tell from the cle...

I am infactuated with this single dad!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2925 days ago

17 November 2016 (F) - So there is this man at my church and he is a single dad. We've started to casually talk here and there. Two weeks ago he was saying to me how he would love to have more kids. Then last week he asks he personally if I ever wanted kids. This might ...

My currrent crush is pushing for information on a previous crush.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2925 days ago

16 November 2016 (M) - Me and this girl in my class have been friends. I have always liked her but never told her. A few days ago we decided to go for a movie. I wanted to go out with her a few times before I told her. Yesterday she read my status which was "Sometimes I ...

Why do I have mixed feelings about my friend of 20 plus years who wants a relationship with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2927 days ago

15 November 2016 (F) - My friend of 20 plus years has a plan to come and visit me. We have been crushing on each other for years now that we have come in contact with one another on Facebook we really want to see each other. We talked about being in a relationship but...

Did indulging in a little hot texting make him reluctant to see me? He didn't show up for a date. Didn't text me to say why, either

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2927 days ago

15 November 2016 (F) - Dear cupid I was talking on text. we were getting along good and we were planning to go out our first date But he had work over time so when we start text again. So yet it again another date we set place to meet and this time he didn't sho...

Whirlwind love ? Have we only bonded due to our circumstances? Her ex still constantly sends her texts

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2927 days ago

15 November 2016 (M) - Ok so let me start from the beginning. About four months ago I separated from a 10 year marriage where it was not a good place and my ex was not a nice person to be around. Then about a month later I started with online dating apps and met a f...

I’m not exactly sure if he likes me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

14 November 2016 (F) - You heard of the phrase "If a guy likes a girl, he'll go out of his way to be mean to her", but I'm not sure if that's all that true. I'm having an experience with a guy who I personally am torn with what he thinks of me. I'll call him Jay for priv...

I'm trying to act like his actions didn't bother me but I just can't get over him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

13 November 2016 (F) - At the moment, I have feelings for someone who has basically led me on a bit and messed me about and obviously doesn't reciprocate. I have to see him every day at work and I am trying to simultaneously stay away from him and act civilly if I have ...

What do I do about this crush on my neighbor?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

13 November 2016 (F) - I moved into my new house in March on a new-build park. On the day of moving in a guy walked past with his dog and stopped to chat to my Dad who was stood outside at the time. My dad called me from the house to come and say hello. I said Hi and ...

I really want this girl. How can I get her interested in me? What do I need to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

13 November 2016 (M) - Alright there's the same girl from my last question and I've been chasing her for the past two months now. I asked her if she liked me the same way I liked her or not because I couldn't tell and not even her friends at school knew if she liked me...

Crush of 7 years is ignoring my hints. Should I confess my feelings to him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

12 November 2016 (F) - I've liked a guy for 7 years but I don't know how he feels. We used to be classmates but now we live in different cities so we can't meet. We communicate via text. I have kinda dropped hints but I don't know if he knowingly ignores or just doesn't ...

I want to tell my crush how I feel, but I'm afraid of losing his friendship. Do I speak up or let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

12 November 2016 (F) - so ive been friends with this guy for about 4 years now and we were kind of interested in each other at the start but i started dating his friend and since then we've both been in and out of relationships but we've become best friends. i guess i...

I'm very attracted to my therapist! Should I just stop with the therapy and ask her out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2924 days ago

12 November 2016 (M) - I suffer from severe depression and anxiety and I started seeing a therapist yesterday. And she's absolutely beautiful. I would've found it a little easier to talk to some middle aged woman or even an old person, but she's the same age as me, and ...

I'm a 19 year old girl and I'm in love with my stepmom!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2907 days ago

7 November 2016 (F) - Should I tell her or Not? I'm 19, and it's sad to say, but I'm in love with my step mom. It's a bad thing because I'm also a female. Every time that I'm around her, I stutter, smile a lot,etc. It's getting to the point to where I can't even hug...

How can I tell my wife that her sister has started to appear in my fantasies?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2935 days ago

4 November 2016 (M) - My wife and I are generally very open with eachother about our fantasies. They usually just come out during intimacy. Lately, however, I've been having a fantasy that I want to be a bit more subtle when I tell her about it. My new fantasies have ...

Three boys to choose from!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2939 days ago

3 November 2016 (F) - Hello im a freshman in high school and I am having some problems with 3 guys... I know it seems like a lot but I really need help because it is taking over my head every single day. (Ill use Boy A, B, and C for their names). Boy A is a sophomore...

How do I move on from these feelings I have for my brother in law?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2939 days ago

2 November 2016 (F) - Hey, I'm 20 years old and have a sister that is nine years older than me. We both have the same mother but different father's. We didn't really grow up together because my mother had her so young so essentially she was raised by my grandma. We've ...

Should I tell him I'm thinking of changing jobs?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2938 days ago

1 November 2016 (F) - Dear Aunts/Unclesr Cutting a long story short. I met a guy at work. He started flirting. It was a while before I noticed him. I started flirting back then he went cold. I think because I was coming on to him too quickly as I was starting to fanc...

How do I keep my feelings for him from distracting me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2939 days ago

1 November 2016 (F) - I know this guy who studies in another university in the same country. I met him on a casual occation when i went to visit my friend in that city. We did not talk a lot. I do not even have his phone number. He never showed any flirty moves on me and ...