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writes:Me and this girl in my class have been friends. I have always liked her but never told her. A few days ago we decided to go for a movie. I wanted to go out with her a few times before I told her. Yesterday she read my status which was "Sometimes I want to press rewind, just to see her face one more time". I told her it was a line from a song. She asked was it dedicated, to which I said 'kind of'. Now she became determined to dig it out. She asked me if it was about my crush two years ago (I had told her once), but I denied and said that its an old thing. She kept asking, saying that is it someone from class.This went on for some time after which I changed the topic. I don't know what to say and I can't lie to her cause someday I have to tell her. Previously there have been a few indications that she may like me but I am not clear. How can I answer her if it comes up again?
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reader, Eagle'sfan1986  +, writes (18 November 2016):
I will just be honest with her by telling her the truth that you want to go out with her. was the status from Facebook or another link you have? She might say she likes Liles you alot if you tell her you been wanting to go out with her a few times. Give her some hints when you do another song that is delicate to her. I wouldn't wait any longer if you really like her pull the band-aid off and tell her how you feel about her. Then u two can date one another also.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (17 November 2016):
 Tell her the truth, she might like you as well, it is worth the risk!
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (17 November 2016):
 Be honest. It's not the same thing, but it's similar: my boyfriend had a former friend I felt uneasy about. He told me he'd never been in a relationship before, like me, but it made me a bit paranoid and I Googled them. I found proof she had a crush on him and we almost broke up over it, but he came clean; she peer pressured him into trying to date, but he doesn't count it because he didn't want to. Had he been upfront from the beginning, we would have avoided that issue.
OP, in relationships, you have to be trustworthy and it's better to be truthful at the beginning. Just relax and be honest about it; she seems to like you and you don't want to make her feel you leave things out.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (17 November 2016):
 Just tell her the truth !. As you said... some day you've got to tell her,if you want to take things to the next level- so might as well now. See it like this : if she is interested ( I think she is , otherwise perhaps she would not even have accepted to come out with you one on one, and would not be so inquisitive about your love life ) she will be happy. And if, alas, she is not interested, - at least you'll know right away and will avoid to waste time on pipe dreams and to place yourself into an uncomfortable friend zone.
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