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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (14 November 2016):
What are you scared off? Rejection? Because I would rather be let down than go on another seven years hoping something will happen. I think you need to tell him for your own sanity and to help you move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2016): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, it's kinda hard to let go of someone you like very much but thanks for taking the time to read my question and answer it ^^
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2016): I think he is not interrested. Its 7 years such a long time period. I think better move on dear Find a nice guy. Dont waste your time.
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reader, N91 +, writes (13 November 2016):
If he's not taken the hint after 7 years then I don't think he's interested.
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (13 November 2016):
You said you can't meet !, what would the point be of a love declaration even in case he likes you back ? ( which does not sound too probable anyway, since he has been ignoring 7 years of hints ).
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2016): Since it's eating at you that much I would suggest just telling him. But be prepared to lose his friendship if he doesn't return your feelings.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (13 November 2016):
What would be the point? You live nowhere near each other and can't date in person, so why bother with this? To have a "text-relationship"?
He is either VERY dense to not pick up your hints or... more likely not wanting to hurt your feelings as he doesn't feel the same.
I'd let this sleeping dog lie.
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reader, indiansummer +, writes (12 November 2016):
if you don't say anything, you will spend your life thinking 'what if' and there's nothing worse,
at least this way you'll know you did all you could, definitely tell him!
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