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Archived questions from: August, 2014 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

I may have been friendzoned, so what's the best way to tell her I want more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3725 days ago

31 August 2014 (M) - This girl and I have been friends for quite a while (six months). I flirted with her in the beginning but she turned me down because she said that she couldn't date two people from the same company she worked at(she currently doesn't work there ...

How do I make a text conversation fun?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - How do you make a conversation fun over text message. When I text my crush I feel like I can't continue the conversation with anything interesting. Whenever I would ask a question he would usually say yes or no and he'll put lol in every message. I ...

I bought the ticket, now I am not sure if I should go or not!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3723 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - This isn't really a big relationship questions, but it's bothering me a lot. I met this guy from Germany last month, he was travelling around my country with his friends and we hung out a lot, eventually made out and had a really fun week togethe...

I think I like my BEStfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3727 days ago

30 August 2014 (M) - I think I might have a crush on my bestfriend, we flirt sometimes with each other But We never catch ourselves.. it just comes naturally, anyways we've been bestfriend for like 2 years And I think Im starting to Develope a crush on her, because I ...

Should I just brave it and try to approach girls. What are some good tips to connect with girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3725 days ago

30 August 2014 (M) - I am 15, tall, muscular, well featured, and intelligent. I never curse or swear and I would never insult anyone. I respect all girls but especially like brown haired, cute, and shy girls. I homeschool so therefore I don't socialise much but when...

It was nearly 8 years ago. We broke up due to his cheating. So why does he still have a hold over me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - My ex cheated on repeatedly and when I found out it broke my heart. We were in our late teens and it seemed like I would never get over it, as it does at that age. Time moved on and so did I, and after a year or so I felt ready to start meeting ...

Crush on my soon to be Ex boss. What's the best way to ask him out after I leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3727 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - I'm 43, divorced and my soon to be ex-boss is 65 , looks 50 and divorced. I've had a crush on him for the one year we worked together but I've handled it pretty well without showing it. I've found a new job and will be leaving in two weeks. Wh...

Could he like me? Or would he just use me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3728 days ago

29 August 2014 (F) - Hi So I liked someone for three years in college and never had to courage to tell him. But I'm pretty sure he knew and didn't act on it. Which is fine, I mean if he doesn't feel the same way. It took me a long time to get oer this passive rej...

Could this long distance guy be interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3724 days ago

29 August 2014 (F) - I'd like some insight into a crush I am visiting in a few months. We live in different countries and only met at a party last year. We just flirted and kissed a bit -- I didn't want to go any further because I was casually dating someone else at the ...

How can I reconnect when I don't know anything about him, not even his name!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3728 days ago

28 August 2014 (F) - So i met this guy and i just fell for him the moment i saw him. I was invited to do some work for the company where he works and we just hit it off. Then only thing is I want to ask him out but i have never asked a guy out before. And the problem is ...

I am still embaressed by my actions of two years ago.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3724 days ago

28 August 2014 (F) - I'm normally pretty good and forgetting and getting over embarrassing moments. I normally don't really care and laugh it off but for some reason this is different..probably because this is the most embarrassing thing that has happened (or at the ...

My feelings are all jumbled between ex boyfriend and current room mate.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3726 days ago

28 August 2014 (F) - Hi. I recebly move in a new house after a recent break up with my 2 years boyfriend. I noticedt hat one of my house mates started flirting with me.one day he suggested to watch a movie in his room. We made out twice it was leading to sex but I was ...

Am I overreacting about him not initiating any text for the last few days ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3729 days ago

28 August 2014 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 2 months over the summer and he had to move 6 hours away (driving) to finish his masters program for one year. Prior to his moving we had spent a month and half 24/7 together. We had gotten very close and decided ...

I haven't been able to stop thinking about her. Do I love her or is it just a crush?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

28 August 2014 (M) - I haven't been able to stop thinking about her since the day I first saw her. She is beautiful but so are many of the tens of thousands of girls on campus. Even though I was shy to even talk to her at first I got to know her and she is extremel...

Am I falling for my boss when I swore blind I never would?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3729 days ago

28 August 2014 (F) - Hi, Ive recently got a new job, my boss fancies me. I knew him before I got the job but not very well. Never have I looked at him like that never thought I would he's not what I look for In a man. Obviously since ive been in the job ive gotten t...

Conflicted. Do I stay with my new crush? Or try to resume with my former Bf?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3728 days ago

27 August 2014 (F) - Hello Everyone, I am in need of some help. I'm not quite sure where to start but I will try my best. I am starting my sophomore year of college on labor day, which is in less than a week. I'm excited, but I am also kinda dreading it. For ...

Are we friends? More than friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3730 days ago

27 August 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, Thanks for taking the time to read this, here it goes! So I'm a 1 19 year old girl, and I've really fancied this girl who's 21 for around 2 years, on and off but I've always thought about her. It started on a weekend away two years a...

Do I continue to like my crush or let it die out? He has a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3732 days ago

25 August 2014 (F) - hi everyone who wont judge me, im bestfriends with this guy and i've secretly liked him since the day we met and then i told him i like him and he likes me but the thing is he has a girlfriend and it's just been awkward since so what do i do stay ...

I regret letting the moment pass ......

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3732 days ago

24 August 2014 (M) - Hi Guys I like a girl at work. She is one of the girls there who is very pretty and most guys try to flirt with her. I however don't do that much cause I am much senior to her (11 years) but there is always teasing and some tension between us. Last...

I feel I deserve more attention from my married co worker.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

24 August 2014 (M) - Hi all, I cannot bear it anymore.. it has become obsessed and so engrossed.. i found one of my new comer office girl sad.. i did my best to make her happy and talking. i was patiently listening and made her talk and entertained her in various ways....

I told him I like him, his answer has me confused.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3720 days ago

24 August 2014 (F) - I finally told him I like him, I couldn't look at him straight in the eye because I was embarrassed to admit it first. And surprisingly, he said I like you too. But then when I asked what he meant in case I misinterpret it, he said I like you not as ...

Does him finding ME attractive mean he doesn't find his wife attractive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3733 days ago

24 August 2014 (F) - I wanted to know if I have done the right thing or was there a chance that he was sort of serious about that me? There was a mutual crush between us, however we are both committed. His wife works in the same place as he does so do I, however, t...

OK to appraoch a girl at work or try to get private time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3729 days ago

23 August 2014 (M) - Just a silly question really but basically I work in a parade of shops and there is a girl who has been working in one for about 6 months now. And well she is very attractive and I wouldn't mind to ask her out , she keeps going past the window ...

I cant talk or text the friend I love!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3734 days ago

23 August 2014 (F) - im in a friendship with a guy i love ever since we met and i dont know what to do because hes in a drug program that prevents me from talking to him and texsting him and i love him so much it hurts but my question is what should i do about this ...

Is it pathetic of me to have fallen for a girl I met on vacation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3735 days ago

22 August 2014 (M) - I've just come back from a holiday and I'm really depressed.im not bothered about coming home, but I met a girl there called Beth, she was absolutely stunning, she had a younger brother and sister and she was so good with them, adorably cute with ...

How can I feel better? I was led on for a year and a half.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

21 August 2014 (F) - Dear cupid i loved my crush for 1.5 yrs now.. he too lead me on.. one day he told me he has a gilfriend. i have no idea why i was so dumb. he did not have any such details on his facebook. he did not even have any close friends pics or anything...

Should I tell her how I feel? Should I ask her out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

21 August 2014 (M) - I wanna make plans to do something with this girl I like, I think She kinda likes me too but I'm not Sure yet.... Anyways I wanna ask her out but I'm afraid she'll say No or reject me, we remained friends for now, but I wanna change that... Should I ...

She told him she used to have a crush on him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

21 August 2014 (M) - Should i be worried that my girlfriend (and mother of my child) told her guy friend on Facebook that she used to have a crush on him in high school? Not sure why she would choose now of all times to admit that to him, but nevertheless its got me ...

Why does he keep looking at me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3734 days ago

20 August 2014 (F) - I started my placement as part of my degree about 2 weeks ago. Yesterday I noticed that a guy who works there too but in a different office, possibly a different division, but I think on the same floor as me, looks at me when he walks by. My desk is ...

How can I tell if he's humouring me or actually likes me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3738 days ago

19 August 2014 (F) - I've been seeing and texting a boy for about three months and think I really like him. We're both really busy on college internships and he spends weekends at home down the country while I spend them working a part-time job. I'm texting other lads ...

Just thinking about her gets me excited ....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3733 days ago

19 August 2014 (M) - I really fancy my neighbour and have been aroused by her for a long time now, she is single and is friendly to me. I've not asked her out but am falling in love with her, the problem is I get very stiff erections whenever I see her now and have eve...

I want to move on from my crush!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3739 days ago

18 August 2014 (F) - Hello everyone! Thank you for taking your time out to read this. I'm a 17 year old girl, and basically...I'm pretty sure I'm straight but there's this one girl in my entire social circle that I am madly in love with. I'm not interested in girls at...

The girl I like hardly replies to my texts, but once I stopped texting she wanted to know why I was ignoring her! What does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3739 days ago

18 August 2014 (M) - I Like this girl very much! and its been almost 3years i haven't admittd it....yet!I think she knows that i have a crush on her. we 'used' to chat a lot, but then after a while she hardly replies to my text! so, i stopped texting her for the past...

I really like him but I don't want to text him again because I don't want to look desperate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3739 days ago

18 August 2014 (F) - I saw this guy on my brothers engagement cause he was the photographer. He knew that day I was his sister and he is a really nice guy. He became my friend on Facebook after that but we never spoken. After 2 years he became friends on instagram and I ...

He never ever was my boyfriend but I want him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3740 days ago

17 August 2014 (F) - I had the biggest crush on a guy from my university for about a year. One day, I met with him at the library and he was sitting with some of his friends studying. I sat next to him and one of his friends stood up and started talking to me. I thought ...

Crushes on a friend and a cousin

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3741 days ago

16 August 2014 (F) - I am bisexual and have a very strong crush on one of my girl friends, S. However, if that isnt bad enough, I have recently developed a crush on my male cousin A. I know that S will hate me for loveing her, but i have reason to suspect that A reterns ...

We really get along well together -- am I reading too much into it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3741 days ago

16 August 2014 (M) - Hi, I'm 25 and male. Last November an amazing beautiful 22 year old girl started working in the same place as me. She got out of a 4 year relationship about a month ago and I've been taking her out as a friend trying to keep her happy and in the ...

I'm really attracted to him but he hasn't made a move

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3741 days ago

16 August 2014 (F) - I asked him to go on an errand with me but he said "we'll see". Should I ask him again or just let it go? we have great chemistry at work and I can tell from his body language that he's somewhat interested in me (being conservative in ...

I want to move on, but I keep dreaming about my crush!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3741 days ago

16 August 2014 (F) - Hi all! Some advice would be great! I've been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years, everything's great! However, my work means that I have to move around different departments in my local area and work there for 3 months! Before I move on...

I am totally in love with my second cousin, but what does he want? I'm confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3742 days ago

15 August 2014 (F) - I am totally in love with my second cousin. I have been in love with him since I was about 15 yrs old but he was older and had a girlfriend and I just figured he would shoot me down. I am 27 now and we lost touch for a while but recently got back ...

I want to leave my boyfriend because just now it's feeling like our relationship is more like a comfy convenient situation instead of a loving happy one. I want to open up to my friend and not feel guilty about hanging about with him. Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

15 August 2014 (F) - OK,so I'm needing some advice, not criticism buy good solid advice.Recently I have been up and down emotional, I have a lot to deal with just now but I was fine up until about six weeks ago. Six weeks ago my life changed and it's been tough, I have ...

I have a crush on my step cousin

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3743 days ago

15 August 2014 (M) - So I meet this girl that I kind of have a crush on. Well there is a couple of problems,she's my step-cousin, brother and mother are very over protective with her, we both are shy. Well my family and her have just got back from a trip and she came ...

How can I get him to approach me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3745 days ago

12 August 2014 (?) - There is a guy who works in the office above mine but for a different company that I am attracted to. I don't know anything about him and don't see him everyday. A few weeks ago in passing we locked eyes and smiled at each other, I was smitten. ...

How to get over a crush on someone online

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3747 days ago

10 August 2014 (M) - Hi all, I would be thankfull for any help here. Basically foe the past 2 weeks I have gotten close to this guy on a LGBT forum and we have both told each other how we feel. Unfortnetly we broke the site rules by flirting too much and suggesting to ...

I fell in love at first sight and I miss him, but he already has a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3749 days ago

9 August 2014 (F) - Hey, I met this guy at a 3 week group thing and there was over 50 teens there and there was this one guy there I really fell in love with my friends introduced me to him first and he was flirty and stuff, at the night time we had a dancing sechions...

How do I get the huge crush I have on an actor out of my head?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3749 days ago

6 August 2014 (F) - OK, I know this is stupid, and This is very embarassing... I have been watching a new TV series, and I have a HUGE crush on one of the actors, who is British and fairly famous. Problem is, I've let myself dream about this guy so much that my rea...

I have a crush on my friend and she will never love me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3750 days ago

5 August 2014 (F) - I have a crush on this girl who is my friend and it is killing me. I love Sam so much and she found out and hated me 4 it. She was awful tome 4 weeks. I had had a crush on her 4 at least 3 months befor she found out an it was so painful. ...

He's always observing me, what does this mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2704 days ago

5 August 2014 (F) - Anytime I'm around this certain guy, I noticed he's observing me quite often, watching things I do, like he's interested in how I do every little thing. Now it's not constantly, like creepy, but it's very often, I even feel his eyes watching me when ...

It's like I can't live without her texting me! Why am I feeling this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3753 days ago

4 August 2014 (M) - my best and are together for an year now. we dont live in same city so only had met like 2 times and mostly chat over the phone. it is really great and she made clear from the first day that she only likes me as a friend and doesnt want any ...

I'm a shy, inexperienced, guy.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3505 days ago

2 August 2014 (M) - So let me start off by saying that I am a 24-year-old virgin (sad I know). Anyway, there is this girl at my job that I'm really attracted to, sometimes I think I catch her looking at me (I could be wrong, but having been in a similar sitch before ...