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Why does he keep looking at me?

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Question - (20 August 2014) 6 Answers - (Newest, 23 August 2014)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I started my placement as part of my degree about 2 weeks ago. Yesterday I noticed that a guy who works there too but in a different office, possibly a different division, but I think on the same floor as me, looks at me when he walks by. My desk is the last on the row closest to the middle bit that you walk down. The first time I noticed him looking at me when he walks passed was yesterday when he was walking through the office I'm in with another male colleague. The way he was walking leads to the canteen and coffee place downstairs. On his way back he looked at me again. Then again around lunch time he looked at me when he was passing and about 15 minutes later when I went for lunch with some colleagues we happened to sit at a table next to his. I noticed that he turned his head a few times to look at me and then when he got up to few with his colleagues he looked at me again. Further in the same day he walked through my office again but this time I was sat next me someone else on my team as we were going through stuff and he still looked my way. On his way back, I happened to look behind me at the same time he was returning and he was looking at me. Today too he looked at me when he passed by but he only went through the office once.

I have the tendency to look away when I see him looking at me. I don't want him to think I hate him or anything. I'm just intrigued. I dont know who he is, ive only been there about 2 weeks and i think he must be in a different division as i dont remember seeing him when i was shown around my division.

What does this mean? Does he think I'm pretty? For what reasons do men do this?

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A female reader, Fari United Kingdom +, writes (23 August 2014):

Fari agony auntOmG he is married, Thats a definite NO-NO! Some times men like to have a fling to bring some excitement which they probably arent experiencing in their marriage . So you are wondering what the heck did they get married for? Just stay far far far away from him. Married men are trouble and someone always ends up hurt.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (22 August 2014):

CindyCares agony aunt Is he just looking for an office affair ?...

Well, if he is MARRIED, that's the most probable, isn't it ?..

T mean, I am sure you are attractive and all, but it sounds strange to me thet he gave you a few looks and decided : " YESS ! That's my 2nd wife. That's the woman for which I am going to divorce my wife, break my fanily and risk losing my child over ".

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2014):

Probably. Men cant help having illicit affair. Try to stay away from him with all your might. He is married. Taken.

So many men in available in this world, im sure theres one reserve for you. Who is single and a good person.

Someone whom u can trust. Just dont be desperate, the right will come along.

FOR SURE...But definitely Not Him. His married.

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A female reader, Fari United Kingdom +, writes (21 August 2014):

Fari agony auntHey honey, He is checking you out. He obviously likes you. I dont think he would think you hate him or anything, he may just think you are shy. if you like him you can show some interests. Maybe smile, flirt. When you are comfortable enough you guys can probably go on a lunch date. Dont take too long to talk to him though or he may think that you are not interested.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2014):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Hi, thanks for your reply. Last night he started talking to me on twitter after I followed him back, he must have searched for me. He gave me his number and we were talking at work, even played a game of darts at work. We left the building together at the end of the day and he mentioned he has to pick his daughter up from nursery who is nearly 2. And through some tactful questions I found out he is married. He went kind of quiet after saying he was married and made kind of a grunting sound.

Is he just looking for an office affair?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2014):

He likes you.

When a guy keeps looking at you for no reason and its like a habit for him to keep looking at you when you see each other. Bingo he likes you.

He appreciates what he see. So he cant help but stare. Since you dont know each other all he can do is just stare

Or you remind him of someone he knows.

I remember a workmate in the past keeps telling me i look like his ex gf. It could be it. Or maybe his a lost ghost. JOKE..

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