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writes:Dear Cupid, Thanks for taking the time to read this, here it goes! So I'm a 119 year old girl, and I've really fancied this girl who's 21 for around 2 years, on and off but I've always thought about her. It started on a weekend away two years ago and after this we were texting non stop, we even went out to eat, and it was like a date, the way she acted, staring at me etc.. However she dropped me home after the 'date' and we never spoke again hardly.. She still commented on a lot of posts on Facebook and things but never just texting like we used to. We used to text really late at night, and if she fell asleep she would text me the next day, I never had this with another girl, it was just like how a guy who would be romantically interested in me would act.. So.. I do have a boyfriend and I wonder if this is what steered her off me. She then got a boyfriend too.. And a year later, a group of us (girls) went on another weekend away.. We got drunk, dancing really close and stayed out late just me and her and both slept on the sofa, cuddling a bit.. Even on the way home everyone was saying you two are like sisters... And then nothing.. Communication completely gone again. She has split with her boyfriend now, and I have noticed she hangs out with a lot of lesbians now (not saying that necessarily makes her gay) but I just want to know is it more than friends? If so, do I try and talk to her? It's been about 9 months since I've spoken to her, and I miss her a lot ...Thanks, x
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2014): Maybe you should resolve your feelings about your boyfriend before looking for other people romantically.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2014): Just friends. It was nothing. She was just nice to you.
If you want her then tell her.
Make effort. Show how you feel for her.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (27 August 2014):
 I would seem to me that ifyou feelings for her you should at least attempt to see if she's interested. Why not call her and ask her to dinner sometime?
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