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Archived questions from: 27 July, 2009 (see latest in Cheating category)

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Cheating: Help and advice

Will he wait for me while I'm in another country?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4437 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had been together for about6 months, but we were seeing eachother for about 6 months before we made it official. We both loved each other deeply and everything was going fine until I recently cheated on my boyfriend by kissing ...

When does friendship become more than friends?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - Okay, I have a question. Say a woman is married and she has a good male friend (we'll call him Mr. X) that is also friends with her husband. Mr. X and the woman are pretty good friends, closer friends than he is with her husband, but she and Mr. X ...

What would you do if you found your 40 husband in bed with a girl age 18-21? Help me

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - What would you do if you found your husband who's 40 in bed with a girl between the ages of 18-21? The girls blonde, young everything he would like and i even found texts on his phone where he told her she was hotter than me, and would prefer h...

I fear my husband isn't attracted to me anymore and is having an affair! Is anyone like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I'm a housewife since our son was born 5 years ago. Taking meds to get preg for 2nd baby.I'm tired most of the time(due to medicines i think)I'm overweight and I know my husband is not attracted to me though we have sex twice a week. I'm scared o...

What do you think about this player... does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5635 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - Hello. Well I need help here....to know where I'm standing...I met this guy on a bar (he works there) and ask me for my cellphone. He works close to my house and I always see him and chat. Anyway, last thursday he came home after work to have a ...

I'm the Other Woman...How do I break away from this man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I need help! Help me get over this mm, I don’t like this relationship that I’m in, as good, great and as much as I love it.. I don’t want to be the other woman.. it hurts.. hurts like hell!!! So help me… how do I break away from this man! I’m ...

I have been cheated on before and now I think my new boyfriend is cheating too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - Boyfriend trouble..... Not sure what to do/think....................? I have known this guy that I am now seeing for almost a year. We just recently started dating almost 2 weeks now. I am 28 years old and have a 9 year old daughter. He is ...

I made a mistake last year but my fiance cant seem to move on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5635 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I m 18 year old, My fiance and I together for 6 months. He thinks that I'm not show him for enough love with him. I told him many time I do fall in love with him, He is blind and wont be remember this my word. He cant move on for last year, I did ...

In material terms I have everything I want, so why do I feel so dissatisfied with my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - Hi All I am desperate and could really do with some advice. I am 41 year old male, married with two beautiful children aged 7 and 9. I met by partner some 20 years ago and we have now been married for 12 years. I am successful in business and ...

My wife went into the gents with another guy but claims she cant remember what happened in there!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - When a girl drinks a lot and she kisses another man and he takes her in the gents loo for some more action, will she be able to stop going all the way and will she remember everything what happened in there? she remembers what they were talking ...

I've been married 15 years and am having an affair

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I thought maybe it could have been just a one time incident, but now we have had sex three times sneaking away about once ever three weeks. I have been married for 15 years and never thought I would do this. I have always had men find me ...

Do I tell my wife I haven't really ended the affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I have recently separated from my wife after I had an affair, I told my wife that I was no longer seeing the other woman, to save her any further upset, but I am still seeing her and want to be with her, my wife sends me malicious emails, texts and ...

He says he wants to be with his family but calls his mistress every chance he has!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - help me! i was with my ex husband for 37 years and during that marriage he had a mistress for 30 years . when he left me the last time i got the divore . he had left me 3 times before! i believed the words of god (only on to him) and look what ...

Should I ask her if she slept with the other guy when drunk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - Right, this is my "dilemma" I basically met a girl about 5 weeks ago at a party. From day one we've got on unbelievably well, to the point where we've never felt uncomfortable with eachother in anyway at all. We've been seeing eachother 3 or 4...

He has a girlfriend, so I'm trying to see him as just a friend...but I REALLY like him. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5635 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - There is a guy I've recently met that I REALLY like. We are very similar, we get on so well together etc etc and the chemistry is amazing. The only problem is, he has a girlfriend. When I first met him, it was online and he was ambiguous about his ...

Having her cake and eating it too...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - my wife works at a small buisness run bye a close friend of the family. i think she is having her cake and eating it with the bosses son who is working with my wife she comes home from work and does not shut up about this person when i ask her about ...

Great marriage so what's my problem?!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - The first time I wrote my long, drawnout alcohol-induced (couldn't sleep) description of my problem, it didn't post, so I'm going to give the Clifs Notes version now (just looking for general advice/words of wisdom): *Married, happily, for over 5 y...

He whispered another woman's name during sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - My husband had been sleeping soundly for several hours when I came to bed late. He initiated sex and during the course of having sex he whispered another woman's name. I think he was having an erotic dream. I didn't recognize the name, when I a...

Life has too many curve balls...so unsure of what to do!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - Oh where to start with my ordeal. About 8 months ago I split up with my Ex Fiance. For about 6 months before we broke up I had a suspicion that her and a co-worker had something going on. Between the constant phone calls daily and the texts between ...

My wife is cheating but I love her and don't want to lose her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5636 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - Hey .. my name is iyad I be married for over 3 years ... I am 26 .. my wife kerri she is 22 years .. she work 2 jobs and hard jobs she is a manger for store and scond job is delivery news pepars .. so from frist of july she change her life with me ...

Husband wants to stay in the family home while continuing his affair

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - Hi there I would really appreciate people's perspective on my situation. I'm dealing with a lot of emotional pain having learnt that my husband of nearly 21 years has been seeing another woman. Admittedly our marriage was a struggle wi...

Very complicated....Two men in my life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I have been sleeping with my oldest child's father for the last 2 1/2 years....However I have been married for 12 1/2. My husband and I have definitely had major hurdles in our marriage and I feel very unappreciated and he takes me for granted,I had ...

She wants to carry on living as "friends" but act as a couple in all but name!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - My relationship with my ex was not without problems, mainly caused by her having OCD and depression while I was struggling with the pressure of having to fight my ex-wife to get to see my kids. It wasn't working out and we decided to split. Howeve...

I found my 40 year old husband in bed with a blonde 20 year old!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - What would you do if you found your husband who's 40 in bed with a girl between the ages of 18-21? The girl being young, blonde everything he would like, he gets paid about 4K a month and his credit card bill was higher than usual so i dont kno...