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Archived questions from: 2 July, 2009 (see latest in Cheating category)

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Cheating: Help and advice

He's now dating BOTH of us! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - I started dating my boyfriend 2 years ago and he told me he has a girlfriend but based on the girl's attitude he wants to breakup the relationship but all those times they had a quarell and i thought it will soon be over but the girl kept calling ...

Can someone that cheats change their ways?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles, I'd like your advice/to hear from your experiences about whether someone who cheats can change their ways. My bf and I have been together 5 years, and I recently found out he's been texting random women explicit pics/messages ...

Should I satisfy my desires or should I finally tell my husband about my cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - I have been in a realationship for almost 8 yrs, I got married to this person just this yr and have been ok untill now. We have had our up's and down's throughout the relationship,my husband is a very possesive person and he is jealous of just about ...

How can I make the most out of this LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

2 July 2009 (M) - Dear Agony Aunts, Thank you for all the help you've given me for the past year or so, i truly thank you for reading and understanding. The situation is i'm currently with my girlfriend for almost 1 and a half years now. Something un...

My wife is having an affair, she refuses to attend counselling...help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

2 July 2009 (M) - About a week ago I found out my wife was having an affair. We had been married for 24 years and had lived together prior to this for a further 3 years since we were 19. I found out from txts on her phone, she admitted it straight away but said she ...

I really love him even though he's been really mean to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

2 July 2009 (M) - First of all I'd like to say that I'm gay, so my boyfriend and I we had a fight a few weeks ago when we hung out to a club, he behaved really rude and he admitted that he hooked up with another guy, we argued a lot that night and he said we were ...

Should I follow my heart and try to rescue what me and this woman had or try to work it out with my wife?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

2 July 2009 (M) - hello all, need ur help. About 3 months ago I left my wife cause of infedality issues with her (not me). I work at a hospital and there was this one woman who i had taken a liking to. We started seeing eachother and it turned into more than I had ...

What made my b/f think he had the RIGHT to cheat on ME? Why do cheaters think they can get away with it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - What I would like to know is what makes people think they have the right to cheat on their partners and think they can get away with it...i mean where the hell do they get off!!!! My boyfriend of 8 years cheated on me and gave me an STD the dirty, r...

He says he loves me but I don't know because he cheated on his girlfriend with me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - Okay so I don't know what to do, this guy I'm in love with(lets call him ed) is always texting me and he says he loves me too but I don't know because he had a girlfriend and cheated on her with me. and they broke up and he promised we would be ...

Is he telling the truth about this trip? Does he really HAVE to go with her or is he just using me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - Ok I have had a crush on this guy I have worked with for 8 years. I was married and he was in a long term relationship for those 8 years but I always had these feelings I couldn't ignore, but being married, I did ignore them and quite honestly I ...

I'm wondering if my boyfriend is having an emotional affair.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

2 July 2009 (F) - I've been in a relationship for 12 years. I'm wondering if my boyfriend is having an emotional affair. he has a friend of the opposite sex. he tells me about her. i've met her but, she won't speak to me. she said she gets along better with guys. he ...