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Archived questions from: 13 July, 2009 (see latest in Cheating category)

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Cheating: Help and advice

My life is like hell

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Hi I just want 2 ask that if u were a woman and u were married and your husband mistreated and did not talk 2 u while u were married and goed out every day and cumz home late and cheats on u and says that u have 6 months in this house and then u r ...

Long and complicated affair with my bro-in-laws wife has left me so confused..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - I am a sad old man, please help me to solve my problems. I have sex with the wife of my brother in law,we have sex at her age of 36 and me 40yrs old,in year 2000.we have sex in the time when my wife and kids back home to my mother in law at 300km aw...

My wife cheated while I was away. Everyone knew but me! How do we get past this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - My wife cheated on me with a friend that I engaged to do some work for me while I was away from home. He had to keep contact with her to ensure work is completed and he even visited my home in my absence. He spilled the beans to someone close to...

23 year old son sleeping with male prostitutes for the "kick". Should I tell his fiancee?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - My 23-year-old son is in university, and lives with us at home (purely for financial reasons - he is otherwise independent). He said to me the other night "Mum, I've got something to confess..." I was expecting it to be something academic-rela...

He left his girlfriend but seems more distant to me now..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - In May, I asked the following question on this site http://www.dearcupid.org/question/hes-sweet-and-lovely-and-caring-and-cheating.html. After people's advice the man I asked the question about dumped his girlfriend...was a real suprise to me asw...

Does the girl I had an affair with want me back?

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13 July 2009 (M) - Hi, Last August i started cheating on my girlfriend (C****) with another girl i met online (J***). Me and J*** really hit it off and I ended up breaking up with C**** in order to get into a relationship with j***. J*** wanted to take thing...

He cheated, will these feelings go away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Dear cupid.... I have been with my partner for 5 years. About two years ago I found out that he had had phone sex with another girl, I found out by snooping (not by him telling me). When he was confronted he was extremely upset, all tears and sai...

Is he trying to put space between us to stop any feelings developing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Very confused. In a very close friendship with a married man whose marriage has collapsed, or so he tells me. About two weeks ago we met up and discussed feelings for one another. however we decided (mainly his decision) to just try and remain...

I had sex with my boyfriend's best friend!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Heyyah Every1 I dont no what to do it was my party on sataday and me and my boyfriend had an arguement and 1 of his best friends jordan, told me to come up stairs so he could talk to me ( we were both drunk ) and he were telling me to talk to da...

Is this just a phase or have I gone too far?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - I have a problem and it's quite weird so I don't quite know who else to talk to. Background: I've been going out with this lovely man for 2 years now. He is 28 and I'm 22. I've always received a lot of male attention but I never met the person I ...

How does anybody forgive someone that has cheated on them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - I found out that my boyfriend of 8 months cheated on me. The girl he cheated on me with is suppose to be one of my good friends, and her boyfriend told me. I didn't talk for like twenty minutes, because I just sat there in shock. Apparently thus ...

I just found out my boyfriend cheated on me....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - I just found out my boyfriend cheated on me, and I feel like going to his house right now and just wailing on him. I feel so hurt as I have been played for a fool for these last couple of weeks and everybody knew and didn't tell me!!! I feel so...

My girlfriend says she loves me, I think she's cheating and I'm insecure, any suggestions to help us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - two days before me and my gf started dateing she was talking dirty to another guy through internet on myspace and i think she lies to me alot i love her and she says she loves me but i think she cheats on me and talks to other guys she dnt want me ...