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Archived questions from: July, 2018 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

I was insensitive and hurt my g/f. She broke up with me and I don't know how to make it up to her

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2331 days ago

31 July 2018 (M) - My ex broke up with me yesterday. She was my first relationship after 4 years. I was her first boyfriend. Weve been together for 3 months and in that time span ive already made her cry 5 times.She's such a sweet and pure girl. She gave me all her ...

I rejected my ideal guy years ago, and now he's with someone else and it's driving me crazy. Help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2331 days ago

30 July 2018 (F) - Hey, I'm writing this partly to get it off my chest and partly because I need to change something about this situation, even if it's just my way of thinking about it. 5 years ago I was single, much more stupid than I am now, and met a brillia...

My ex alienated me from my friends but I'd like to re-establish contact with them but how?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2335 days ago

30 July 2018 (F) - Ok so as a bit of background, I was in a relationship for almost 6 years that ended a couple of years ago now. The relationship was a controlling one, and without going into too much detail, he basically manipulated me into giving up many of my ...

My relationship was perfect for 4 years, now its constant drama? I blame TV. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2327 days ago

29 July 2018 (M) - I feel like Im a very simple creature. I just want sex, food, affection, and some nice things said to me every once in a while. My gf, she's more complicated. I literally don't know what she wants. One moment she's happy, the next she's sad, and ...

How to tell and convince my parents that I don’t want to get married?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2334 days ago

29 July 2018 (F) - I am from India. Female aged 23 and financially stable. I was in relationship with a guy for 6 years . He broke up all of sudden last year . He didn't give me closure or any upfront reason. It was painful and I had no choice but to move on. I won't ...

Not sure what to do as I am in a long term relationship but developed feelings for another!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2332 days ago

29 July 2018 (M) - Hey Dear Cupid, I am confused and conflicted. I am in a long term relationship and have developed feelings for a work colleague. This is my first crush in a long time and this colleague is definitely my type, introverted, intelligent and ...

He ghosted me after we had sex, how do I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2336 days ago

29 July 2018 (F) - I have a bit of an issue. I met this guy about 4 - 5 years ago. We connected instantly, spoke daily and he went out of his way to talk to me. 4 or 5 years into this friendship, feeling developed. We spoke more and more and even met up a few tim...

Any good tips on moving on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2336 days ago

28 July 2018 (F) - Me and my boyfriend broke up about 2 months ago now and I still think about it every single day. It ended really badly where I knew there were issues I was willing to work on and he wasn't ready to take any blame on his side. He was happy to say it ...

How do I keep my ex out of my house?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2338 days ago

25 July 2018 (F) - My 11yrs old son became very upset today because he thought my ex-husband and I were arguing. This is what happend: my ex brought my son to the doctors to get his annual check up today at 1:00pm. He planned to drop my son off at my house at around 3...

Has anyone ever had a break with their partner and what was the outcome?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2340 days ago

25 July 2018 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half and last night he told me he wasn’t feeling the same. We had a talk about this a few weeks ago and had planned to work it out. But he had told me last night that he didn’t want to keep it ...

Why did my ex send me flowers? We broke up 6 months ago

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2344 days ago

21 July 2018 (F) - Why did my ex send me flowers we broke up 6 months ago I blocked his number and we both agreed to no contact. He moved to another county. We dated for 1.5+ I did not say thank you or anything when he sent the flowers. I know I should of that’s...

My ex brings his new girlfriend(who he cheated on me with) when he comes to babysit our kids in my absence

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2344 days ago

21 July 2018 (F) - My ex and I share 4 year twin girls and although he cheated on me and is now with the person he cheated on me with, we have a reasonable relationship. Recently he has started bringing his new girlfriend round to my house when he looks after them whe...

How do I tell my boyfriend that I'm done with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2344 days ago

21 July 2018 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 1 year. Everything was great at the beginning, however, the past few months I've been feeling very turned off and disappointed by him. He had always claimed he's the good guy, until he was out with his ...

Help me deal with my provoking ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2346 days ago

18 July 2018 (M) - My ex broke up with me a few months ago and we were together for almost 3 years, but since she broke up with me she has been trying to make me jealous or intentionally hurt and/or provoke me. I dont know what to do, I know she is into me but she ...

I met him 2 weeks ago and am wondering is this a friendship or a rebound?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2347 days ago

17 July 2018 (F) - I am 25 and have been single for a year now. Two weeks ago, I met a guy at a party who works with a friend of mine. We hit it off and talked nonstop. Later that week we ended up going to another group event together and staying after everyone ...

How do I close out this sad chapter in my life and start anew?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2349 days ago

17 July 2018 (F) - Hi all I am from conservative indian family. I am 24 and financially independent. I met my ex 6 years back on school. We fell in love . The relationship was intense and serious. All my school and college friends knew we were together. His pa...

I don’t know how to move on! Advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2348 days ago

17 July 2018 (F) - I still love him and can’t move on.? We broke up after almost 2 years because I tolerated his abusive behaviour, emotionally and verbally. I broke up because I couldn’t take the nasty words and he said he wished I died. A week later he texts me...

Why did my married ex boyfriend snap just like that? I desperately want him back in my life!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 2346 days ago

17 July 2018 (F) - I met a guy at work 9 years ago. We flirted and had fun but he was married. We worked together and once we kissed in his office and ended up having sex. I have never done anything like this before. I was madly in love with him from this first kiss. ...

I'm sitting here alone and pregnant, can I get any advice?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2320 days ago

17 July 2018 (F) - I dated this guy for almost six months during the time I got pregnant.Issues between me and his mom became apparent when she and her daughter begin writting shady comments on my fb page I finally confront both of them and his mom end up call me a ...

How do I move on and am I to blame?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2350 days ago

16 July 2018 (F) - I'm just in despair right now. I absolutely love this site and it's helped me in times of need for so long now, so here goes. I've recently broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years. We lived together for two years in his family house (his famil...

Her depression is getting in the way of our love!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2347 days ago

15 July 2018 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for 9 years, and we are both in love with each others. We shared alot of great times together and i can't imagine my life without her. I was her first boyfriend, and she never dated anyone because she doesn't trust men, ...

I decided that I wouldn’t text him again but he keeps checking out my social media posts! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2349 days ago

15 July 2018 (F) - It's like a one sided love at 1st sight, but idk , am into someone , am obsessed with him as hell .. we were chatting for more than a year then we met , well he kissed me it was soft coz I didn't want to especially that was our 1st meeting then we ...

Why couldn’t he understand that I needed his emotional support that day?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2353 days ago

12 July 2018 (F) - Monday was a sad day for me. I lost my job and broke up with my boyfriend of 4 yrs. Although I'm not too worried about being able to find another job, it still is not a happy event to be let go... I called my boyfriend and he sounded shocked ...

How to save this marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2356 days ago

4 July 2018 (F) - Im currently 6 months pregnant and feel so lonely and depressed. I have a very weird relationship with my husband. We rarely spent time together because of our different schedule. I went to parents home in the morning while he still asleep and went ...

My husband is super clingy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2358 days ago

4 July 2018 (F) - Hello I have been married for 27 years. In those years I have left my husband twice. My husband is super clingy. If I enter a room in the house, he is behind me. If I want to take a bath, he comes into the washroom to talk. I don't seem t...

Should I move away and start a new life close to my daughter?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2356 days ago

4 July 2018 (F) - I split up with a long term ex (17 years) because he treated me so badly that it ruined my self esteem and this impacted on my career and relationship with my daughter. I realise now I put up with his behaviour because I grew up in a dysfunctional ...

My ex has I have slept together too many times!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2357 days ago

4 July 2018 (F) - My ex and I go to the same college. We see each other a lot considering we have many of the same friends. We broke up two months ago because I was stressed out a lot, and he was too about school and things happening with his family. But rece...

I cheated and want to fix my relationship, but how?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2360 days ago

3 July 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two and a half years, since I was 23. He is a wonderful person. I love him, he loves me, and we've always worked so well together. We've never had any problems beyond whose turn it is to do the dishes. ...

I am starting to lose my feelings for him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2363 days ago

3 July 2018 (F) - My partner (of two years) and I are separated due to his new location of work place. He has been stationed in a far distance island since March 2018 where his ex-wife lives now. He is a dedicated medical practitioner undoubtedly. This time in his ...

I need help in letting him go!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2333 days ago

2 July 2018 (F) - We met online, he is kind, sweet, committed and just a good soul. I wasnt awfully attracted to him physically but he is the kindest man on this planet so I decided to meet him anyway. I was still not attracted to him but felt because he is such a ...

It’s been 6 months, how long does it take before the hurt stops?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2364 days ago

1 July 2018 (F) - I met this guy in school and we were together for 6 years . I am 24 now and working . We were pretty much immature then learnt by passage of time. We had all ups and down in the relationship. Since we are indians we stayed in limits with regard to ...