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Archived questions from: May, 2017 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

I'm falling in love with a married woman who's in a bad marriage but will she ever leave her husband?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2724 days ago

30 May 2017 (M) - I recently moved to a new location about 6 months ago, I started going to bar to hang out. I started talked to the a Server while I was the bar and every time I go in she always made a point to go say hi. Now she was cute, so I went more often th...

He's unbalanced and often will not take his meds. I'm scared of making another mistake but I know I have to leave him. How can my children and I leave him safely?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2730 days ago

30 May 2017 (F) - I've decided to leave but I am scared. I've been married twice before. The first 14 years and two children and he cheated. The second was a rebound one child but he was abusive. I had 5 years on my own with my three children and we were happy...

Why didn't he tell his friends he had broken up with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2730 days ago

29 May 2017 (F) - The man I had been seeing for 14 months and I had an argument....almost. I asked him how he felt about me because I needed to know in order to decide where to take my life. Eight months ago he was gung ho about "US" and then he turned cold. He told ...

I found a phone he'd been using to text a woman for 4 years!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2672 days ago

27 May 2017 (F) - Hi I found a phone my husband had a few months ago he had been texting a woman for 4 years !! It was someone he had known 35 years ago and been out with a few times before he met me . He states that he thought they had slept together 35 years ago ...

Should we get back together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2732 days ago

26 May 2017 (F) - my ex broke up with me a month ago, and my feelings for him are still very strong. i could tell that he didn't want to break up with me he cried as he said that he had to leave me, and even heard his friends saying,"why is he crying today? did you ...

Why is it I feel I lost my soulmate? And could he really have moved on so fast?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2732 days ago

25 May 2017 (F) - Hello again DearCupid. As I look back, I realized I have been posting on here on and off for about 7 years! This has significance because I was just broken up with my boyfriend of 6 years over the phone, and the majority of my posts wer...

He broke up with me but keeps in contact. Is he trying to be a FWB?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2711 days ago

24 May 2017 (F) - I am 39 and my ex boyfriend is 38. We both have two teens apiece and are single parents. I'm divorced. We dated for 4 and a half months. Things were good but he broke up with me saying he didn't think things were going to work out and he didn't wa...

He said he needed time away from me but still texts every day.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2736 days ago

23 May 2017 (F) - So my boyfriend of a year and a half told me last week out of the blue that he needs time away from me. At first I thought he was joking and I said are you casually trying to break up with me and he said no that he stressed and that I've been mean ...

I am troubled and feel so down.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2729 days ago

23 May 2017 (F) - Just looking for advice. I'm 33 and separated from my husband due to domestic violence we separated in December having only been married 3 months. I wasn't happy for a long time and only married as we have 2 kids one is 2 1/2 and the other is 15 ...

She's broken up with her boyfriend, is it too early to ask her out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

23 May 2017 (M) - Hey there everyone! Hope you all are well! I'd like some advice of you could. So I'm a 30/male this girl I need advice about is 25 I believe. She moved in to the apartment next door to me about 6 months ago. I instantly thought she was one of the ...

I think I made a mistake in getting married to him as I don't think I can accept his culture and all the family involvement. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2735 days ago

23 May 2017 (F) - I am a vey independent woman who likes a lot of space and I do not like being told what to do. I rarely see my own family as I am busy with my life and they with theirs. My husband comes from Egypt and would like me to go and live there but I don'...

Does anyone act this way after a break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2739 days ago

22 May 2017 (F) - Does anyone have this pattern of having on to an ex until someone else comes along- I have never "truly" gotten over someone until I got someone else. Example - my ex and this wasn't a long relationship left me- he did it in a disrespectful way and ...

Why am I jealous that she's seeing other people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2739 days ago

22 May 2017 (F) - Hello everyone...I have a gf and we have been in a relationship for almost 3 years. She lied and cheated me last year but we managed to get back. Now she's doing the same thing again so i broke if off. She said she loved both of us but i cant let ...

What are the rules for family visiting when we are separated but still living under the same roof?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2737 days ago

22 May 2017 (F) - My husband has recently said he wants a divorce after I started sleeping in another bedroom for comfort reasons after my breast cancer and mastectomy last year. He says he is sick of being the provider and is angry that I haven't yet gone back to ...

How do I recover from this breakup?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2739 days ago

21 May 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up a few days ago. Neither one of us was expecting it, but it became clear that we loved each other but we weren't on the same page and wanted different things. Our maturity levels did not align. The hardest part for...

What do her words mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2739 days ago

20 May 2017 (M) - hello, I've been seeing this girl now for 6 months, but out of no where, she been acting moody and distant with me lately and I don't know why. So I confronted her about it and ask if I was us and she said yes. she went on to say "I don't know h...

Is my ex a manipulator?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2742 days ago

14 May 2017 (M) - Hi All, I would like some advice on a person I stopped seeing recently and whether she sounds like a manipulator or I am thinking too much into things. We split up after about 18 months and we went no contact, I was doing fine and then she deci...

My girlfriend left me to go back to her husband. She said she didn't love me enough

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2745 days ago

14 May 2017 (M) - My girlfriend recently broke up with me of 4.5 yrs to go back to her husband she left 8 yrs ago. She never stopped working for him and has been doing the same dead end job for 28 yrs. He is a grandiose type person, a bit of a show-off and loud. He ...

My boyfriend needs time to figure his life out!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2746 days ago

13 May 2017 (F) - I've written on here before about concerns with my boyfriend not saying I love you after about 5 months. However, we split up/decided to take a break yesterday although I'm unsure exactly which it was. Our relationship has been very happy...

We are two very different people. I feel stuck in this relationship. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2746 days ago

12 May 2017 (F) - Feeling stuck between a rock and a hard place. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 and a half years, and we have lived together for 2. He is an incredibly kind guy, he always means well, and is all around just a nice guy. However...

I obsess over him too much. What can I do to rid myself of dating anxiety?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2749 days ago

12 May 2017 (F) - I obsess over him too much. I have a terrible form of dating anxiety and even though I do look good, I never dated before because of fear. A few months ago I met a guy and dated him for a short period of time. He was my first everything. We par...

If a guy is happy with his Gf then why does he act uncomfortable and angry towards his ex-crush?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2749 days ago

11 May 2017 (F) - This guy, his girlfriend, and the girl he use to has a crush on, work at the same place. The "ex crush" is still friends with the guy's girlfriend and he doesn't reallly care for them to still be friends. He use to profess his love to the "ex ...

A long term friend dated my brother, treated him poorly, and now she wants to reconcile with me, without explaining. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2750 days ago

10 May 2017 (F) - Sorry this is so long! My best friend from grade school went overseas for college and upon returning started a relationship with my brother. I was living in a different state by now and she initially wanted him to keep the relationship a s...

She behaves so sweetly in public. But she cheated on me. What can I do to forget a crafty girlfriend, who I trusted and love?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2750 days ago

10 May 2017 (M) - My LDR girlfriend cheated on me. I found out and I told her about her cheating. She cried, she denied her cheating. I said to her that I would not sponsor her into U.S as the fiancee. She replied to me that she did not want to go to U.S. After...

Why would my ex male friend partially ghost me instead of going to complete NO Contact? How do I end this madness?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2749 days ago

10 May 2017 (F) - First he tried to ease me into a FWB, after agreeing to friendship. We spoke, text and video chatted practically everyday. We did have sex twice. He wanted to continue to have sex as an FWB. I informed him recently that I was not FWB material. I ...

What should I do? Four years after we broke up my ex still hangs around, tries to get my attention and stares at me whenever he sees me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2750 days ago

9 May 2017 (F) - Hi I split from my ex boyfriend 4 years ago, after I had a miscarriage. Neither of us wanted to split up but after the miscarriage he ended it with me i moved on met another man and had a baby girl. Yet my ex still hangs around and stares at me an...

Do you think he'll ever be open to friendship with me? Two weeks after dumping me he was back on dating sites.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2750 days ago

9 May 2017 (F) - Hello, I am hoping for some advice and help to make sense of a situation I am in. Was together with a man for 9 months. He lived about 90 minutes away, and for various work and child matters we saw each other from Friday through till Sunday ever ...

Feeling upset. Is this just natural or am I wrong? I love my fiance.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2750 days ago

9 May 2017 (F) - Well...not been on here for a while. I am engaged, pretty happy with my partner of 5 years then my mother goes and mentions my ex who split with me when times got hard on my family farm and I got very depressed and lost everything. Things got na...

I do have trust issues. How do I resolve this situation with my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2751 days ago

8 May 2017 (F) - Please no negative replies!!! I feel low enough!! I was seeing my boyfriend for over a year. I had known him for 2-3 years before that as a friend. We split about 4 months ago but have kept in touch. The reason for the split was because...

I don't trust him as he's still active on the dating site, but I really don't want to end the relationship!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 2746 days ago

8 May 2017 (F) - We met online dating site. Agreed to close accounts once established relationship. He agrees exclusively, yet is still active on dating site! He denies any chatting or meetingsd x but refuses to close the account. . I was with him when he recieved a ...

Why is my ex-fwb still contacting me after he ended things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2751 days ago

8 May 2017 (F) - I was recently dumped by my fwb because he and his girlfriend is getting serious. i wanted to end things when i found out he got back with his girlfriend but i wasn't strong enough to leave. after a week he ended things he texted me something that ...

How do I find out of this was just a holiday romance without making the wrong decision and hurting both myself and others in the process?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2752 days ago

6 May 2017 (F) - I am 19 and have recently been on holiday. There I met a boy who I kissed and got along with really well. Him being there made the holiday. On the third day of the holiday we had a chat and he told me he had a girlfriend and that he didn't know ...

Why is he so cruel after I did everything to be a good girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2752 days ago

5 May 2017 (F) - I was introduced to this guy but I didn't find him attractive so I told him I wasn't interested. He persuaded me for 2yrs and I agreed to get to know him, I began to like him my friends and my mum thought he's a nice guy and I should give him ...

We broke up because she's emotionally disturbed and would have sex with random people!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2760 days ago

1 May 2017 (M) - So i started this new relationship about 3 months ago with a girl. Things went fast between us, but at times she was still emotionally disturbed and attached to her ex who was a complete ass to her. But she had 2 kids together with him, so it was ...