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writes:I was recently dumped by my fwb because he and his girlfriend is getting serious. i wanted to end things when i found out he got back with his girlfriend but i wasn't strong enough to leave. after a week he ended things he texted me something that sounded like he wanted to hook up. i was confused so replied i thought you were in a serious relationship. he then replied back "sorry i accidentally texted you" From my experience there are no accidents when it comes to texting an ex or someone you had a thing with but i let it go. then another week passed and he hmu again but this time it was meant for me. he told me that he missed me and missed sleeping with me. at this point i didn't know what to say and that is exactly what i told him. he then said that he doesn't want to sleep with me because we are not together? what does that even mean?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 May 2017):
 Delete and Block him. Believe me you don't want to be playing this game with someone who is in a relationship, its unfair to you and cruel to his girlfriend. He likes the attention nothing more. Take some time out and forget about him. You deserve better than him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2017): Cut-off all contact and disappear from social media. He's keeping a foot in the door; because he knows you still leave a candle burning in the window. If all he gets is crickets or dead air, you'll never hear from him gain. You don't want that, so you keep responding if he makes contact.
People give-up only when you go completely silent.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (8 May 2017):
 Honey, just block, delete and move on.
He doesn't CARE about you. His text was NOT a "whoops" mistake - it was him testing the waters to see if you were still willing to have some NSA sex with him.
Think about it? HOW would you feel if YOUR partner did what he is doing? Keeping a past sex partner around in the shadows?
In his eyes, you were GOOD enough to have sex with but he didn't want to date you, just use you when he needed a lay. Is that what you want?
So go ahead, WISH him well and BLOCK his ass. You don't need to waste any more time on this fella. And OP, if you WANT an ACTUAL relationship... don't settle for am FWB or F-buddy thing. A guy will NOT all of a sudden realize what a good great person you are and then want to date you.
Want more for yourself.
Also, What if this GF has STD's? He will then pass those on to you... Or who knows what OTHER girls this guy is sleeping with...
Be smart OP.
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reader, N91  +, writes (8 May 2017):
 It shouldn't matter what it means. This guy is clearly a dick, he has a gf and he's still trying to sleep with you.
Block, delete, move on. Find someone who respects you more than just wanting to have sex with you.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (8 May 2017):
 I think he said he didn't want to sleep with you because you are not together because he realised how obvious he was being. He doesn't want to lose his fxxk buddy.
Let's have a little recap'. He has a girlfriend with whom he is getting serious and he was still having sex with you?
Call me old fashioned but I don't think that sounds like anyone I would ever trust. You too. You are a part of this menage a trois.
What it means is what it is, a little sex circle with possibly one innocent party.
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