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Archived questions from: April, 2017 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Is this something to stick with?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2789 days ago

30 April 2017 (F) - Now just so you know my partner does not want to leave me ....however should I leave him??? I have been through a lot in life I grew up with a compulsive liar for a mother (not spoke to parents for 2yrs)..I have also lost a child when he was 11yrs ...

Why won't he apologise?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2789 days ago

30 April 2017 (F) - I recently posted a question a few weeks ago. My bf and I both live in the UK and we had big argument on his birthday and he refused to accept my card and gifts for him and told me is done. I saw on his Facebook he had been sexting and ...

I've been with my boyfriend 2.5 years and never had sex. I think he's in love with his ex

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2783 days ago

29 April 2017 (F) - Hi. I am 56years old and my boyfriend is 55. I have been with him for 2 1/2years. Lived with him for 14 months out of that time. He has never made love to me although he says he loves me. I also found out, reading his own words that right before ...

I need to forgive myself.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2789 days ago

29 April 2017 (F) - The guy I used to date for a short period of time, kind of dumped me in a very rude way. Well I wanted to dump him too, but I tried to do it in a decent way. He got angry and simply dissapeared, not before making me feel like crap. I wished I could ...

I wish I could get over the love of of my life.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2783 days ago

29 April 2017 (F) - Hi there. I was involved in a long distance relationship for about 4 and a half years and broke up almost 10 years ago. I feel foolish and dumb to say that to this day I cannot seem to get over her. She was my first kiss, my first love, and my ...

What is going on with his ex? What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2789 days ago

28 April 2017 (F) - Hi everyone, some of u may remember me from my past questions.. Ill give a little background info. Around october i was really active on this site, I'm 19 years old (now 20) and i was in a really toxic relationship with a 35 year old man.. It was...

On a break from boyfriend and have a job offer in another town

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2794 days ago

26 April 2017 (F) - My Bf and I are on a sort of break right now. We are still with each other but spending time with our own families to reassess what we both want. There is a job offer for Me far away from home but I won't be happy there (I will like the job just not ...

Time to break up? Has the love faded? We talk less now and have less sex now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2795 days ago

26 April 2017 (M) - Don't know if I should break up with my gf of 8 months. As the relationships progressed we've moved apart, we speak less, have sex a lot less, and don't get on aswell. The thing is, I know this is expected to some degree as a relationship goes on. ...

Was I harsh for just blocking him ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2797 days ago

26 April 2017 (F) - I had been talking to this guy for almost 2 weeks and we went on 3 dates. Up until now he has been extremely attentive, the dates were great and I actually walked into the 1st date expecting nothing to come of it. There has been 0 sex involved, so ...

My g/f hasn't changed her status on FB yet does that mean we are not broken up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2797 days ago

24 April 2017 (M) - My fiancé and I have been together for almost three years and engaged for 7 months. I wrongly accused her of having a 'thing' for her brother in law a few times which has led to us having a 'break' for a few weeks. We reconciled but it took some...

We broke up and we're not a couple any more. Should I be concerned that he's recently had a tattoo of my name inked on his neck?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2796 days ago

22 April 2017 (F) - I'm completely puzzled as to why but my ex boyfriend has just this week gone and got my name tattooed onto the back of his neck and I'm worried he now thinks we are back together after I have been talking to him about the reason I left him. We wer...

I want to help my boyfriend but I know I'll leave him eventually because my relationship is dead but I'm terribly attracted to his brother

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2795 days ago

21 April 2017 (F) - Hello there, So I have been in a relationship for 9 years. We started out as friends with benefits and then when I got into trouble financially I moved in with him. He's nice and we get along...we would be great friends. I have occasionally tri...

Is it wrong to tell someone who has depression that you can't be there for then anymore if they don't want to help the self?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2801 days ago

20 April 2017 (F) - Is it wrong to tell someone who has depression that you can't be there for then anymore if they don't want to help the self? My boyfriend has depression which is not diagnosed but I've had it previously and know he does now. I've done everything I ...

Is it wrong to end things with a good person when they are not your type?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

20 April 2017 (M) - Is it wrong to end things with someone cause they are not your type? they treat you wonderful,they come on really strong,you wish your ex would of treated you this way. the one who treated you bad you fell for,now I have someone who would do ...

I have trouble expressing my emotions and I don't know what to do about it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

19 April 2017 (F) - So I just broke up with my ex. He's really popular and all I've had for ages is people coming up to me and making me feel bad. After the breakup, I went to one of my best friends and started laughing even though I was upset. Looking back, that was ...

Is my ex girlfriend crazy and a hypocrite?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2803 days ago

15 April 2017 (M) - My ex girlfriend broke up with me a few days ago. Literally the day after my bday actually. On my actual bday she was giving me the cold shoulder all day. She was more concerned with watching shows on her laptop then spending time with me. We were ...

Can a relationship survive if there is no intellectual compatibility at all?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2807 days ago

15 April 2017 (F) - So I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months now, going on 8. It was really good in the beginning but now it feels like things changed, at least for me. He's one year younger than I am, and that didn't seem like a problem at first because I th...

Toxic, controlling, abusive and violent relationship. But I do love him. Plus I recently cheated. What should I do?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2679 days ago

13 April 2017 (F) - I met my current partner 3 years ago, we were dating and then I moved into his place and sub letted my place to my sister as she had moved to London. At the time, three years ago, when I met my partner, my grandad had just passed away and my dad w...

My husband and his co-worker have feelings for each other. What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2808 days ago

12 April 2017 (F) - Let me start from the beginning if I may. About 2 weeks ago my husband said one of his supervisors at the factory where he works 3rd shift came up to him while he was loading a truck and harassed him about being too close to a girl who has a bad re...

We've split up, yet he wants to stay friends? Should I wait for him? Help !

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2811 days ago

11 April 2017 (M) - Hi everyone, I am a 27 male, who was in a relationship with a 25 male. We have each had long term relationships in the past but this felt like something else! We had instant chemistry, a great connection. After a few months he started ...

Could his behaviour be the result of grieving for his mother and depression ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2811 days ago

10 April 2017 (F) - So I am in a eight year long relationship. About five years into the relationship my partner's mum died. It wasn't expected and was a shock. My partner had to deal a lot with her will and documents since then. Since then he had brief angry outbur...

Is it time to end this relationship? 2

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2810 days ago

10 April 2017 (F) - Hi hope someone can help. I've been with my fiance for over 3 years now lately my feelings for him have changed due to him almost cheating on me. He went to the pub with his mates and I was meeting him later in the same pub. I walked in and caught...

15 yr old Daughter completely cut me out of her life without even a hint why.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2483 days ago

10 April 2017 (M) - Need some advice from the aunts, I hate these problems that you have to try and squeeze into a box, cause there's so much more to it, but I couldn't possibly address it in its entirety but leaving anything out u may not get the whole gist of it, so ...

I want to hate him I need to move on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2811 days ago

10 April 2017 (F) - I'm going through a break up we were together for a long time I've been so hurt we go on and off but never more then two days without making it work , well this time we really out did him self he sort of started following all these girls who I once ...

My boyfriend left me at my lowest!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2811 days ago

9 April 2017 (F) - My boyfriend, now ex-boyfriend, and I were in a relationship for 4 years until we recently broke up about a week ago. Just a year ago our relationship turned long-distance when he moved six states away. I had no money to move with him so I had to s...

I can't seem to get over the fact that my ex didn't want commitment with me but has found it with someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2811 days ago

9 April 2017 (F) - I'm having trouble getting over my ex bf. Its been 7 months since we've seen each other, and its not getting any easier for me. We were on and off for about 6 years. He ended it always saying he wasn't ready to commit, but would always return to me. ...

How should I start the conversation with the baby's father?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2811 days ago

9 April 2017 (F) - The baby's father and I only knew each other 3 months prior to me getting pregnant. I am currently 29 weeks. He was 100% aware of the possiblity of me getting pregnant and we had even talked about it. He had said he wanted to have a kid with me ...

Why wouldn't he want an emotional attachment? I feel discarded, by him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2811 days ago

9 April 2017 (F) - Ive been seeing this guy for over a year and it has been a FWB situation due to our inability be together because of our jobs and his current relationship. (long story about that ) We deployed to 2 different locations in which he kept in contact ...

Was I justified in breaking up ?Should I seek professional counselling over my depression?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2812 days ago

9 April 2017 (F) - Aunts, I've had a break up 12 days ago. It was a relationship of 10 years. I've never seen this coming honestly. Things were not working out between us, we have changed as people (he was not giving me space, interfering on my job choices and comm...

I know our arrangement isn't right for me in the long run. Should I break things off even though we've made plans together?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2811 days ago

9 April 2017 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for about 6 months and its has gotten quite serious saying he loves me etc. He is 20 years older than me and married. We were talking for a while before hand and being flirtatious and we've had a couple of nights alone. He ...

I thought everything was OK. But ? I didn't do anything wrong, did I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2811 days ago

8 April 2017 (F) - I've recently moved house after breaking up with my ex boyfriend. I thought it was perfect, lovely little house well within my means and close to the town centre of where I live. I moved in and found that I was living next to a recently div...

He still ignores me but I love him! Advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2812 days ago

7 April 2017 (F) - Actually I had a boyfriend with whom I broke up 10months ago.the reason for our breakup is he ignores me. He is not behaving as we are before the relationship. He was not at all bothered about my feelings and more over his girl best friend told him ...

My husband wants us to stays friends with the woman he cheated with!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2812 days ago

7 April 2017 (F) - My husband cheated on me years ago. He hid it and never told me. When I found out he lied and said it was before we met and I should have asked him about her. But it wasn't. So he lied about his lie. He kept her as part of our friendship circle, but ...

Is the breakup real this time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2815 days ago

5 April 2017 (M) - Is this a real break-up or a stalemate? I have been in a relationship for 6 years with a woman that I'm inexplicably just drawn to. I love her and I believe we have always had a mutual attraction. We've been content not getting married until ki...

Do I stand a chance of things working out for us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2815 days ago

5 April 2017 (M) - Dear agony aunts and uncles, Can you give me some advice? I'd appreciate any thoughts on this. I have been seeing a great girl for about 4 months. She and I have had a passionate and very lovely time together, I would say we were a great team i...

Should I write another letter to my ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2815 days ago

5 April 2017 (F) - We were together for 2 years. He was very special to me. He was my first everything. Our breakup happened in very complicated situation , i went through a miscarriage. I thought he was not giving me the support i needed . He thought i was very ...

Should I stay? Am I ready to move on? Please help me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2815 days ago

5 April 2017 (F) - I have a boyfriend who I have been with for about a year and three months, I can honestly say I am so in love with him it's hard because he is 5 hours away because he is in the navy. He is from where I live, since he came into my life he because so ...

I still think of my ex all the time. Does that suggest that I should break up with the new lady, who I am currently dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2815 days ago

4 April 2017 (M) - Am seeing some one new, for the last couple months, so my question is, what does it mean when I say, ''I wish my ex would of treated me this good''. Does it mean I should break up with the new one? I still think of my ex all the time, over a year ...

Are there any signs that he still loves me? I caught him cheating

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2815 days ago

4 April 2017 (F) - i recently broke with my ex. he was having an affair with another girl and when i asked he denied it. we broke up and he said he is not a suitable guy for me and my family. but we still do video calls and talk for the whole night. actually we talk ...

How do I end things without hurting him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2815 days ago

4 April 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a 45 year old woman married for 18 years . The marriage has been more of a business relation tand there has been no sex or romance...there were a lot of family issues....i never thought of a divorce since i had basically accepted...

Is it possible that he's the one that got away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2815 days ago

3 April 2017 (F) - I been having thoughts that i want my ex boyfriend back, it is impossible because he's already engaged for a year now. What makes it even weirder is that we broke up 4 years ago. So i was dating with my ex for couple of months, we broke up because i ...

Mr E makes me feel like a woman. Yet my unsatisfactory boyfriend does make time for me. Which one will be the best choice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2819 days ago

3 April 2017 (F) - Hello aunts, I am in a bit of a mix here and I know I have complicated everything so much and would appreciate your candid advice. The issue is between my ex boyfriend who I refuse to let go and who loves me, refuses to let me go and an old acqu...

I don't trust him and I'm worried he'll give me a STD. Is it time to break up with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2804 days ago

1 April 2017 (F) - Should I end this relationship? Me and B we were friends for years and I had my boyfriend who I was stable for 4 years and we have a kid, me and him and B lived together for 9 months. One year ago he kissed me and we made love. Before letting ...