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writes:I'm going through a break up we were together for a long time I've been so hurt we go on and off but never more then two days without making it work , well this time we really out did him self he sort of started following all these girls who I once was concerned about he acts like I don't matter he does it to hurt me but the moment I do something like add someone he calls like I tried to be distant from all the hurt he just blames me and I blame him he just really hurt me right now he said my pussy wasn't shit and that why do I think non of my ex's have given me a ring I'm just so hurt by that comment ..
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (11 April 2017):
 Wow what a charming guy you have. Delete him from your life. Honestly a break up is difficult but you need to cut contact so you don't keep getting hurt. Block and delete him off everything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2017): It's all the pain and grief from the breakup. Go no-contact and you don't have to care what he says. Keep chasing him around and you deserve to hear whatever mean things he has to say to you.
Instead of wasting energy on hatred; try using it to grow-up and behave like an adult. How do you know what he's doing unless you're keeping tabs on him?
Focus on yourself. A breakup gives you downtime that should be used for self-improvement and personal-growth. Focus on your career, or discover your potential. Use your new-found independence! Travel and do things you've always wanted to do. Do something for yourself other than man-hunting. Date for fun and socializing. If you "need" a boyfriend; you're weak as a woman. So build some strength and self-confidence.
If you've got a trail of bad relationships behind you; your boyfriend was right. Something is wrong. It's not always the guy's fault.
Don't be empty-headed and focus all your life around a relationship and looking for guys. Find a purpose and pursue your own happiness.
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