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writes:i've been dating this boy for quite a while now, almost nine months- and up until the other day we were quite happy together.. until we had a little arguement, i walked away with his phone because he walked away with my shoe.. and as i walked away rather angry i went through his sent messages, as he always does this to me anyway.but to my dismay- i found something i don't think i was supposed to.. it was a picture of his penis, i know for a fact it was, sent to another girl of whom he had told me was his 'sister'.. obviously without hessitation, i ran up to him and confronted him of what i'd just seen, first he made me out to be mental like there was nothing there.. so i threw his phone on the floor.. and broke it.then i told him to be grown up about the situation, because i didn't let him tell his side of the story.. so i sat and listened to him blabber on.. then it gets to oh my friend ***** sent it to my sister, but he didn't want to send a picture of his own.. but apparently jack knew nothing about this picture up until the moment i'd told him.i have no idea what to believe or what to do.please help me?! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2009): Are you certain it is HIS penis? Kid's do the darndest things:)
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reader, Starlights +, writes (6 July 2009):
 at the end of the day this bf of the user is still young, and i remmeber when i was that age, we was always used to do silly things to each other (like at school guys used to touch girls boobs for jokes) and other acts of randomness which made no sense.
(of course none of us had mobiles then).... but this boyfriend did have a picture of his penis on his fone
the question user needs to ask is why? and who sent the msg?
maybe he took it as a momento on his fone, and as for sending it we dont know if it was him or his friend doing it for kicks.
either way, its upto the asker to find out the truth and then deal with it from there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell. Today, I asked him out right wether he had really sent this message or not.. I have put a lot of trust and faith into me and his relationship, so I told him to promise me he didn't do it, and he swore blind he hadn't done anything, and that it wasn't anything to do with him, at first I still wanted to have a massive rave at him because I didn't know what to think.. But Starlights said I kept calm about the situation.. And handelled it maturly.. In the end I think he might actually be telling me the truth.. As crazy as it sounds, it might just be because I love him soo much I can't see a bad side to him, I hope that's not the case, thanks to every one of you.
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reader, r_a_w_r1645  +, writes (5 July 2009):
 omg dump him. hes trying to make u believe him, and hes probably cheating or cheated on u. sorrry :[ but guys r such a**'s. i feel bad for u. :[
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2009): I'm sure you know what to do. Other people can't tell you what to do, you found the picture and it's your relationship. If you're willing to stay with someone who you think has sent indecent pictures then it's up to you, but I personally think you should dump him. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2009): he obviously isnt going to send a picture of his penis to his so called sister or let any other friend of his do that!sorry sweetie but by the looks of it his been doing stuff behind your back, i think its time to let go and move on
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2009): if he is going to do things like that, he isnt worth it,do you really really like him?is he the one, because a boy who treats his girlfriend that way should definitely reconsider it i hope this helps x
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reader, Starlights +, writes (5 July 2009):
you have to stay calm.if your bf is lying (it sounds like he is as his friend says he wasnt aware the msg)then your have to ask him why he sent this msg to his sister/3rd person.he may have thought it was funny to do something like that but u have to tell him u feel hurt and discuss it with him and go from there.good luck!
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