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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I know this is VERY general question but here goes anyway: ladies imagine or think of a gent you've known. The two of you were close, very close. Over time you began to believe he just wasn't happy being with you anymore and that in turn was making you unhappy. Eventually you decided to move on but the gent realizing his mistakes, tried to get you back. Over a number of weeks (and even months) he tells you he's gone about changing his life, trying to find the happiness that he lost and reassuring you that YOU were NOT the reason. My question, in that situation what, if anything, could the gent do to show (and prove) to you that he really has changed his ways for the better, that he could be happy around you again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2009): Well, I would go and show her a fun time. Go take her somewhere adventurous and exciting. Show her you really can have fun and be fun. And... dont try to like go down on her or anything or push kisses on her, let her be the one to kiss you first. show her a fun time :]
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reader, MonicaC +, writes (5 July 2009):
 That's a tough question, but I'll give it a go. To be honest, I think it's one of the hardest things in the world to prove you have changed to any other human being. The only way to do so is by your actions. Words are simply that: WORDS. And, as such, they mean very little. What matters is what you DO. If you want a woman to see that you are a different man, then it will take time. You will need to get her to give you the chance to be in her world again. Once you get to that point, you need to show through your deeds that you have changed. If you were flirtatious with other women, then show her that you aren't that way anymore. If you were less than attentive to her, then listen to her worries and show your concern for her well-being. If you didn't show her that you cared, then show her you love her by being there for her, by being consistent and by being loyal.
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