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*arianna
writes:so the day has come when I finally need help...though it might be too late but anyway...me and my bf...now ex...have recently broken up...he says i'm hard to talk to....I get it...but what I dont get is how cna he have started dating someone else even before we broke up...I feel this is an excuse...but I dont...I dont care....my tears feel like acid...my question is...how long does it take before the paain start to fade?....he was my first boyfriend....and my first real love....any advice?
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (25 July 2009):
 first of all, breaking up with someone u love is one of the hardest pains in life.
but you will get through this, millions of people have gotten thru this, and u will also.
u need to go through this grief, cry everyday if u have to, until u start to feel better.
it takes alot of time to get over a heartbreak and alot of patience and some good friends to talk to ;)
this bf was not worth u, if he was good he would never have run into the arms of another so quickly.
be thankful u found out his true nature and feel ur way better.
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2009): how long it lasts is up to you girl. Take time to be sad about it... but remember your young and i promise it does get better. I dont think the pain of losing that first love ever goes away, at least for me it didn't. For some of us that first love does not go well and its not fair, but we have to deal with it. For me it took about one year and 300 miles. Now four years later, i still really miss her and would love just to see her but i can deal with it and have moved on. hope this helps... you have to be tough when it comes to love
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reader, bohemiantrash  +, writes (25 July 2009):
 I know exactly how you feel I have the same problem my bf just broke up with me a few days ago and he was my very first love im so depressed but i get dressed in the morning looking this best i can and head out the door with my head high so its as if he never hurt me and hes starting to notice. your not alone sweety :)
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reader, alwaysreadyandwilling +, writes (25 July 2009):
 Babygirl cry more more,there is a cure for this. Go on a search engine and type free dating and get yourself a man. They have caribbean ones if you prefare that. This reminds me,i met a girl off a site,everything was ok ,i found out that she slept with two brothers one week after the other and had the cheek to keep contact and have secret smiles when we were out in a club. Of course she lied and lied,but caught in the end. It reminded me because it was a caribbean club in oldham where we was and she kept leaving me on my own. I got checked at the clinic and was ok.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2009): The pain will actually fade a little everyday. At first you might not notice it but it will. Prayer helps a lot. Just pray for peace and calmness in your heart. You will be
surprised how much better your heart will feel. It sound like your guy is going thru the old cow and new cow syndrome.
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