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Archived questions from: May, 2007 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Why would she jump the gun like that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6382 days ago

31 May 2007 (M) - hi, i was recently broken up with. we went out for 10 months. arguing was happening, we had problems. i wanted to sit down, relax, and talk about our issues and feelings with each other. most of the time in the past she would think problems would ...

He broke it off but we still have sex! It's raising my hopes, so how do I stop since we live together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6383 days ago

31 May 2007 (M) - My partner and I have been together for a long time. For the last 3 months tho, we have been living in different states, with plans for me to move in with him when I had found a job, the week before I was due to move down, he broke it off... This ...

I just broke up completely with my boyfriend and I wanted to know if I did the right thing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6374 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - ok well I just broke up completely with my boyfriend and I wanted to know if I did the right thing. we have been going on and off for about 9 months and i do love him but he does not know how to treet a girl thinking that hes all that and that he ...

Do you think I should drive to his home and confront him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6384 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - I was in a relationship for four years (2 hours distance). I'm forty years of age but have never adored a man as much as this guy, who was 8 years younger. For me it was a wonderful relationship and felt as though I would've spent the rest of my ...

He dumped me and I was getting over it and then...he texts me saying he misses me! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6384 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - he dumped me last week monday. i was devastated. i was then convinced that it was over until he sms, then later called, to tell that he had made a mistake and that he misses me. i was on the process of getting over him and i was doing well until he ...

I have decided to break up with my bf! Am I making the right choice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6384 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - I want to break-up with me boyfriend. We have been together a year and a half and I put up with a lot of crap in the begining of our relationship (him getting drunk and taking it out on me) Although we have resolved this problem now (and for the ...

Has this relationship gone as far as it can? Any views?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6384 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - Hi Guys - My partner and I had been together nearly 4 years when things started to go wrong. That was last summer and since then I'd had mixed feelings about the relationship. He has two sons aged 13 and 17 and my son is 11. I started looking ...

I'm leaving my bf of 5 years. I feel ready, but need to hear inspirational love stories please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6383 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - I NEED to hear some inspitational stories. I have decided to leave my bf of nearly 5 years. things have never really been good and after alot of recent soul searching I realise I have no future with him. This is a decision I have put off for...

She called me weak and said I grovelled. Then she said she was joking! I broke up w/ her - is this what she really wanted?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

30 May 2007 (M) - Sorry for posting this again but I'd hoped to get a better response. I'm struggling to get over this and maybe someone out there can help me out. I need to know if I was wrong here. I went out with a girl for 6 months, during the first 3-4, s...

Invited to the ex's house to visit. She spent the whole time flirting with her new bf-was she playing a cruel game with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6384 days ago

30 May 2007 (M) - Ok, i'm confused and need an unbiased response. My now ex-fiance and i split a year ago. Shortly after that i asked that i still see her 3yr old daughter to whom i became very attached and the child to me. She advised that wouldnt be appropriate and ...

I got treated bad by him and now I cry almost everyday!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6382 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - I need help Im a teenager and almost eveyday i cry and get upset about someone who i really like who ive done things with in the past he says he likes me on the day but he just f*cks me off the next day and hes admitted he has used me. Were really ...

Had a threesome with my bf and his best friend. Trouble is-I've fallen for the best friend! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6385 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have had a 3sum i am a nymphomaniac and have had many so its not the first time we have currently had a bunch with his best friend who i dated for 1 month over the phone when i was away me and my boyfriend have been together ...

Off to college next year! I want to be single..how do I break off with my bf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6384 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - Hey im 17 and I have a boyfriend that is really great, he's sweet, smart and very good looking. Im going to college next year but i don't want a boyfriend in college just because i don't want to be so committed and obligate to one person just yet. ...

Can two people who genuinely care and love each other make their relationship work even if they are living two seperate lives?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6385 days ago

29 May 2007 (M) - My girlfriend of three years and I have recently split. It has completely devasted me as I thought of her as my future wife. After putting the pieces together, I have come to the conclusion that the biggest reason for the break-up was because we are ...

How do I really know that I made the right decision?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - Hi Everyone - your help is needed! I split up with my partner of 4 years over two months ago now. I had been feeling confused over my feelings for him for a good few months before finally ending things. I think I have changed over time and don't ...

He finished with me, saying we were just "plodding along"!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6381 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - I'm 43, divorced and have 1 child. I have been seeing a man who is going through a divorce for 1yr 9mths. I love him 100% and want to be with him forever. He dumped me last week saying he thought we were just plodding along but he did love me and ...

We broke up but I love him so much and I KNOW he still loves me. What shall I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - I am 14 and my boyfriend is 15 in we have ben to gether for at least 6 months and last night he told me we have been together too long and i ask him so what's that suppose to mean he said nothing. But before last night he told me we are going be ...

Not sure if he's the one I want..however, a new guy looks interesting! Should I go on a 'break'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6385 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two and a half years, and things have been great. but recently they have faded pretty badly. I know i love him and i want to be with him but i think things are going to burn out. There is another guy i know ...

What is she really saying? Do I just walk way and let it go?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6385 days ago

29 May 2007 (M) - Hi, Okay, help please. I just broke up w/ my gf of 5 years. She and I had a talk the other night, and she told me she still loves me, but because of earlier times, she doesn't trust me. I haven't cheated, but when we met, i was with someone els...

I'm married but was seeing a guy at work, now he's blocked me and I don't know how to handle being around him in the workplace.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6185 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - im married but got involved with a guy i met through work, the only thing i ask was that he would be honest with me and if he wanted to call it a day just say so, that way we could stay friends and when we did meet through work there wouldnt be a ...

Her guilt is eating me alive but I DON'T want to get back with her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6384 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - Hello! I asked a question a while back: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-22-lesbian-and-in-a-relationship-with.html Anyway. Here's a followup, and a new problem. I managed to leave my girlfriend, but now she won't stop calling me and sending m...

How do I know my boyfriend doesn't want to break up for good?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 6111 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and a half. We have lived together for about 7 months and now my boyfriend has asked for a break. He says he just needs a week to clear his head. We've had issues in the past - I, personally, ...

What's the best way to tell my boyfriend I don't want to be with him anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - me and my boyfriend used to date a couple of years back and we have just recently got back together and he has changed too much, it was fine for the first two weeks of us getting together but now its all changed he always wants sex and i dont enjoy ...

I love him more than my boyfriend but he's married but only for a visa, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - i have been going out with a guy for about a year and a half now, suddenly an old friend of mine and i get back in contact but it turns out he is married and we fell in love with each other knowing we always had a special feeling from before.he told ...

How do you pick yourself up after the rejection of being left for another woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - How do you pick yourself up after the rejection of being left for another woman when you actually havent done anything wrong but because the other woman is having his baby? Why do i feel like it was all my fault and i should have been a better ...

I left my troubled relationship..for him! Now he has left me for a pregnant ex girlfriend! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - Just to recap on my earlier questions: I left my troubled relationship..for him! Now he has left me for a pregnant ex gf! What can I do? He still wants to be friends...should I or shouldn't I? From these questions i have received many hel...

I would really appreciate some advice on how to move on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) - hello all, I would really appreciate some advice on how to move on! dont get me wrong i've had break-ups before but this time i'm finding it difficult. i'll try to keep this brief... i'm almost 50 i've been married twice, the first lasted 15 year...

Do we have a chance at getting back together? I really thought he was the love of my life and I don't want to let go.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6385 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) - I can send you the whole story if it will help to give better advice. This past week my bf of 2 1/2 years broke up w/ me. He said he was bored although I had no indication anything was wrong. I was never given any info about how he was feeling and ...

My ex girlfriend of one week has just asked me over to her house for "some fun"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

27 May 2007 (M) - Hey, I've posted a couple of times now, you might recognize part of the story. Basically my gf dumped me last weekend, and in favor of some guy online. Shes meeting him this friday. But the friday thats just been, she started emailing me abou...

My bf was on the phone with a friend for 3 hours and I'm worried! Will he dump me for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

26 May 2007 (F) - this is a bit of a boy question but i really want some one to help me. i am going out with a boy. lets say he is called andy. and i have a best m8 lest say she is called jen. i have been going out with andy for about 4 months now but i am worried...

He goes to uni in 3 months! Should we break up and should I just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 May 2007 (F) - Me and a boy went out 2 years ago, and became very serious, but called it off because my mum wasn't well and I needed time away from everything. He totally understood, but we lost contact soon afterwards, because I was so down and depressed. ...

We broke up! And I am thinking terrible thoughts about what she's doing now. How do I cope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6378 days ago

26 May 2007 (M) - Hi, I am in need of some relationship advice!! I broke up from my girlfriend approximately 1 and a half months ago. My relationship with her lasted just short of two years, which for both of us was the longest time we had committed to anyone ...

My ex is seeing someone else! Why do I feel so gutted?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

26 May 2007 (F) - I split up with my lover a while back because we had issues that couldn't be resolved,we were together 3 years and it was me who decided to end it.Anyway i found out that he has been seeing someone else and for some reason i felt gutted and very ...

I am finally happy after a cheating ex bf and 2 abortions! Now I find out the ex is having regrets? I am confused..help??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 May 2007 (F) - I'm a 25 yr old girl in a relationship with a boy almost 4 yrs younger. While this relationship is working out well, the one before this was terrible. The guy I had known since forever (since I was 10 actually) but he kept cheating on me and we kept ...

Scared to break it off... I know she loves me but she never, ever shows it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 May 2007 (M) - I am with my first girlfriend ever in my life. I am 20 and she is 18. Every other weekend we see each other, (because we don't drive), she doesn't french me anymore, and we don't even make out anymore. She spends most of her time on my computer ...

How long do I wait until I tell him I've made up my mind, and want to break it off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 May 2007 (F) - I recently told my bf of almost 9yrs I wanted to separated for a while. We started dating when I was 16, and I feel I have changed. He wants to marry and I don't. I told him that and I needed time to figure out what I want. He said it breaks his ...

He found a new gf after first giving me an STI ...so why can't I get over him after all this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 May 2007 (F) - Hiya everyone ive got a really embarrasing problem but the thing is it hurts too n just wanted some help plz!! well the thing is i was seeing this lad 4 bout 3 months n we got on really well. we both liked the same music n had a really gud laugh but ...

Gf is finished with me! How can I get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

25 May 2007 (M) - my girlfriend finished with me because she doesnt want a boyfriend nomore,what can i do to get her back...

I called my bf while I was on holiday and he told me to"f**k off!" Should I go back to him or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6380 days ago

25 May 2007 (F) - I am visitng my family for 3 weeks, and away from my boyfriend of 4 years. I have called him today on his cellphone and he was getting ready to visit his dad at the hospital and was in a hurry. While talking to me, he said that "im bugging his ...

She told my mate on msn she loved me--so why didn't she just tell me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 May 2007 (M) - Hiya there been a development i fill you in on the details, A few days ago my mate on msn said that he had spoken to my ex-girlfreind on msn and she told him that she loves me this was about 2 weeks ago, so why not tell me this,since them about...

She cheated on me and left me for a player! I'm still in love with her. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

25 May 2007 (M) - Hi, Please help me, i was seeing a girl and we had some really special times together we really made a connection, i fell in love with her. However from word go there was another guy constantly on her case, he's the local desperado, he's ...

Breaking up with my boyfriend will probably cause me to fail the exams. What shall I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6380 days ago

25 May 2007 (F) - I've been really hurt. I had to split up with my first proper boyfriend 2 days ago. We were together for a year and had all our 'firsts' together. During the last month of our relationship, he had started be really rude to me, saying stuff like 'I'm ...

How can I break up with my married lover?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6020 days ago

25 May 2007 (F) - what do i do? I am 25 and I love a married man that is 52, I know this situation is awful, but i love him so much, everytime i yell and fight with him saying its over and i cant do it anymore, within a few hours we are talking again, I know it is ...

He broke up with me because he said I bring him down. How do I stop the pain I am feeling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6390 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - I know my partner and i are over, although we are still in the same house,with him arranging to work away some nights through the week and go away at weekends. He wants me out and I will go once i have my own place again (or move in with relatives ...

I am so scared of my parents violent arguments. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - my parents have always argued but just recently they have got worse. I reali think it wud b betta for all of us if they spilt up. they argue violenlty up to 4 times a week. its very hard to write down in words how terrified and scaryed i am as a 15 ...

I'm still in love with him and not moving on. Is it because he was my first?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - my ex boyfriend and i split up a just over a year ago. our relationship had been very serious and we were both deeply in love with each other. he ended it because he felt too young to be so serious, but left the option open for the future. there has ...

He still wants to be friends...should I or shouldn't I?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6172 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - "I left my troubled relationship for him. Now he has left me for pregnant ex girlfriend" He now says he would still want us to be friends. Do you think its wise for me to be friends with this guy or should i just forget he ever existed in my li...

Decided I am moving to another country to start over! Is this a good idea?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - ("I fell in love with someone while i was in a troubled relationship.I decided to end the troubled relationship so i could go and start a new one with this guy i fell in love with and he was thrilled and said he was in love with me too. After a ...

The girl I really want to be with keeps changing her mind about me! Do I go back to my ex gf who wants me back? Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

24 May 2007 (M) - I've been seeing a girl for six months, but much of that time have secretly pined for another a girl, a shared friend. A month ago this friend told me she had feelings for me, and it was obvious to her I did as well. Shortly afterwards I broke up ...

I left my husband a year ago because I knew I no longer loved him the way a wife should... but I'm worried he'll talk me into staying

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - I left my husband a year ago because I knew I no longer loved him the way a wife should. We had grown apart, and I felt no physical attraction for him anymore. But I didn't rush into divorce either because my husband insisted that I wait, hoping ...