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Had a threesome with my bf and his best friend. Trouble is-I've fallen for the best friend! Help!

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Question - (30 May 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 May 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, *pbubblz writes:

Me and my boyfriend have had a 3sum i am a nymphomaniac and have had many so its not the first time we have currently had a bunch with his best friend who i dated for 1 month over the phone when i was away me and my boyfriend have been together almost 2 years and things haven't been going well .I am also falling for my boyfriends friend i think about him every damn day and he is always on my mind i really dont know what to do my relationship is on rocks and somewhat abusive at times I just really need some help i feel really alone

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A male reader, Yos Netherlands +, writes (30 May 2007):

Yos agony auntI'm afraid I agree with rhythmandblues. It sounds like you are using sex to compensate for deeper issues. The path you are on will not lead you to good places. I suggest you take her advice and seek professional therapy. The sooner the better. Best wishes to you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2007):

I think you are in a very unhealthy relationship for you...you are way too young to be engaging in threesomes and trying to describe yourself as a nympho.

You are feeling very alone because deep down you know you are doing wrong, you don't like yourself for it, and the trust and love are erroding from your primary relationship so you are aching for someone who will just love only you.

I think you should seek professional therapy to discuss why you are chosing such self destructive behaviors. This is not about your love of sex, it is about self love, and trust issues and setting appropriate boundsries in your relationships.

Please check with your doctor for a referal soon, and best of luck to you.

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