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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:he dumped me last week monday. i was devastated. i was then convinced that it was over until he sms, then later called, to tell that he had made a mistake and that he misses me. i was on the process of getting over him and i was doing well until he contacted me. i don't konw how to deal with it and i still love him.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (31 May 2007):
 i have to aggree with DV1 on this one if he is really serious he will take it at your pace, you could do with dating again properly and take it slow dont just fall back into old routines. good luck. xx
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reader, DV1  +, writes (30 May 2007):
 I know that it hurts. It's going to for a while, even if you get back together. You need to be able to be ok without him before you can be with him again... Don't rush back to him, because he'll feel like he has control over your feelings. Don't play any games, just tell him to wait a few weeks.
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reader, crazyclemens2005 +, writes (30 May 2007):
 i know what you are going through because my jst broke up with my bf and i still love him but you should give him the benefit of the doubt because i know that i dont know the whole situation but most people have a reason for coming back maybe you should ask him why he thinks it is a mistake and find out what he wants exactly like how he realized it was a misttake.. but dont take his answer the the heart people can lie togood luck
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reader, kenny +, writes (30 May 2007):
 Maybe on this occasion you should give him the benefit of the doubt. He could have genuinly regretted terminating your relationship, now realises it was a mistake.
But if you do get back with him and he does this again, don't even contemplate taking him back.
Good luck x
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