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Archived questions from: March, 2020 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

I'm considering what I want for my wedding considering everything going on in the world

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1729 days ago

31 March 2020 (F) - Hello, Where to start? As we all know the world is in the middle of a crisis pandemic. It has really made me reconsider how much money we're spending on our wedding in 2022. We've only booked the hotel but this alone is £7000. This crisis has...

Are there any of you there that rekindled their motivation to do a job well inspite of it not necessarily being your passion or fulfilling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1733 days ago

30 March 2020 (M) - Hello, I need some advice about my career. I am experiencing burnout. The hours at my job are not stressful and the benefits are good. It's a creative job but I am an analytical person. I got into the industry through sheer chance. After co...

Should I answer this guy after promising my boyfriend I wouldnt have any further contact with him.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1732 days ago

27 March 2020 (F) - I met a guy two years ago who I started to fall for, despite me being in a relationship. I confessed to my boyfriend and he was very upset. He wanted me to stop contacting the other guy, so I did. I told him that I had chosen to stick with the life ...

My husband is cheating again but I don't know if I can be bothered losing my house and divorcing.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1722 days ago

26 March 2020 (F) - Married for almost 10 years and have 3 little kids. We have a nice house,comfortable lifestyle. Found out today he has been texting some girl from his work, apparently thats all. Just dont know whether its work continuing relationship ...

What is everyone doing with their free time being cooped up?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1737 days ago

25 March 2020 (F) - Hello again! I've posted several times and everyone's been very helpful and empathetic. Thank you! I hope all you aunts and uncles are safe and healthy (and your loved ones too)! I'm under the impression that at least one of the aunts here is ...

It seems this friendship has run its course.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1738 days ago

25 March 2020 (F) - Long read, thank you for reading Hi everyone, I’ve had a friend, Serena for a while. I noticed we definitely have grown apart but I thought it was normal until... I asked her to hang out and she told me she couldn’t that she promised a relative...

How can I work out what I am doing wrong on dates?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1739 days ago

23 March 2020 (F) - I haven’t been in a relationship for eight years, my last date was December and it was the only time I’d gone on a second date and I haven’t heard from him since. I’ve only been on a handful of dates on the past couple years, and I don’t get a lot ...

I don't want my partner back but he says he cant live without us.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1737 days ago

23 March 2020 (F) - I split up with my ex after discovering his infidelity. We have 3 children together who he still sees every other weekend and we have stayed amicable. 2 weeks ago he went silent for about a week. He told me yesterday he is struggling with his ment...

All my friends are getting married.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1737 days ago

23 March 2020 (F) - Welp, it happened. all my friends are engaged. not exaggerating, all of them. meanwhile, I’ve never been in an actual relationship. I just turned 27 two months ago and basically ready to join a nunnery because art least that would give me an excuse ...

I'm going through a rough phase at the moment.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1728 days ago

22 March 2020 (F) - Hi guys! ai am going through a rough phase. I will turn 40 next November and I feel my life is over. Despite having a wonderful husband, a great job, a nice home... I feel old and useless and worry about dying alone since ai have no children and no ...

I'm not sure if I should call her now, and let her know I like her, or wait for her to call me one day.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1740 days ago

21 March 2020 (M) - So this may sound corny, but i just dont want to mess things up. i began a job back in june delivering auto parts to a small chain of car shops. in one of the stores i began a friendly relationship with one of the counter girls. She knows that i ...

I apologised but customer wants me fired.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1741 days ago

20 March 2020 (F) - So I work in fast food and our drive-through is open. I work as a cashier and drive-through. I don't know how to make food here as I've only been here seven months. Anyway, I accidentally misgendered a customer and now he/she won't stop at anything ...

Wife asked best friend to help me recuperate at home. I enjoyed being naked in her care

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1744 days ago

20 March 2020 (M) - I came home from the hospital and needed help with bathing and dressing. My wife needed to work so her best friend Sue offered to help me shower and dress. . My wife agreed so Sue came and helped ungress and shower. She was professional about it...

I'm having therapy but feel I can't be fixed no matter what I try.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1742 days ago

18 March 2020 (F) - I was in a long-distance relationship for a year. I found out he had 4 other long term girlfriends. The whole process was very traumatic. I trusted him as years ago we were together for over 2 years. He was my first boyfriend. During this lon...

I kicked the cheater out, but miss what we once had.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1745 days ago

18 March 2020 (F) - I kicked my boyfriend of 10 years out 6 months ago because I found out he’d been having an affair with someone from work. It wasn’t just an affair. He had been leading a double life for the 5 months that the affair went on for. Everyone in their wo...

Have I missed my chance to talk to the cute girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1742 days ago

18 March 2020 (F) - I’m graduating high school in May. There’s this really cute junior who occasionally stops me to compliment my outfit, or in one case a presentation she’s watched me hold (I have social anxiety; that was not a good presentation). I know nothing about ...

How do I tell my boss I've changed my mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1689 days ago

18 March 2020 (F) - This is not exactly a relationship question but has raised through me trying to become independent after a relationship ending. I work several different jobs as a lecturer, all of which are on yearly or termly contracts. Recently here in the UK t...

A former friend has cancer, should I reach out to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1741 days ago

18 March 2020 (F) - Hello, I've just found out an old friend has terminal cancer at 41years old, however we haven't spoken in over 10 years. We didn't fall out but i just decided at the time that due to feeling like her and her boyfriend (now husband) regula...

How would I go about finding a lady to help me dress up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1746 days ago

15 March 2020 (M) - as a boy I was fond of silky dresses my mother wore. when I was 6 I dressed up in them and also my two sisters clothing.i loved the feel of smooth fabrics. I wore my sisters school knickers and the feelings as I pulled them up.as an elderly man I ...

Will this single dad ever be ready for a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1751 days ago

12 March 2020 (F) - I have been seeing this guy on and off for almost a year. He has a young son (4 years old) and when we were first starting to see each other and things were getting serious, he got scared and said he couldn't handle anything new because his previous ...

Can anyone from Texas recommend the best places to go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1754 days ago

9 March 2020 (F) - Me and my best friend are planning a trip to Texas this weekend for May. It’s always been a dream of my to visit Texas and now I finally have the time. However I’m having trouble deciding between Austin and Houston became Ive been hearing mixed ...

How can I get my insecure and paranoid mistress to trust me after almost 10 years together?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1754 days ago

8 March 2020 (M) - No harsh judgments. I am only looking for advice here. I am a married man having a relationship with another woman for close to 10 years. It's no longer an affair per se. We've grown to love each other yet I cannot leave my wife. I find ...

Help me decide... Were her actions innocent or was she flirting with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1755 days ago

7 March 2020 (M) - So, this is one of those 'what did this mean?' questions and I would appreciate your opinions. Went to a bar just chilling with a friend of mine (I've only known her for a few months) and I'd say we are very close but I'm not sure I think about her ...

Gay urges that won't stop

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1756 days ago

6 March 2020 (M) - I know that I love my girlfriend very much. But the older I get, the more I worry that I'm actually gay. So, I started off by watching gay porn, and being very aroused. Then being with my first man was I was 16. Ive always been harder during se...

8 years of being a stay at home mom. I want to work hubby doesn't want me to. I think I want out

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1756 days ago

3 March 2020 (F) - Hi, I’m hoping I can get a little advice here, I’m feeling slightly .. lost? Here’s a little background I hope it doesn’t bore you. Me and my partner have been together now for nearly 9 years, we have 3 beautiful children together. When I firs...