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Archived questions from: 15 October, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Lost, confused, and no back-up plan. How do I change courses at uni and not feel I've failed everyone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

15 October 2011 (?) - Hey, I'm three weeks into a six year vet course but hate university. I desperately want to leave, but not just due to homesickness. I do miss home, but I've made some friends and I love my accomodation. I think I've picked the wrong course, an...

To me he is disrespectful. Why mess me around? Is this how men act when they mess up?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4786 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I were supposed to go to Jamaica yesterday. I booked the ticket for us back in April. He left to his home country in August and the first thing I said was remember our October trip. Anyhow three days ago, I kept asking if he had b...

He says he loves me, does not want to break up, but has no feelings for me, what do I do?/

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for just about eight years now, and until recently have been very happy. After a few months of feeling like he didnt want me around him, I asked if he was mad and had i done anything to upset him. He told me ...

Is he worth obsessing over for two years??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - so..currently i am living abroad for a 1 year school internship, and yesterday i was talking to this guy who i have had a crush on for 2 years now, and he asked me an akward question. i had just posted a new photo of mine on f.b and he said he ...

Not sure of my sexuality, can you help me??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

15 October 2011 (?) - Im 17 years old and i don't know if im lesbian or not. I really really like guys but i think i might also be attracted to girls. i don't know if this would be the best thing or not for me Please Help!!!...

He doesn't seem as interested as I am, what can I do to pull him closer??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4790 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - there is this guy like his single when i met him and like its being 2 months now he still don't want to start a relationship but the EMBARRASSING thing is that im in love with him and im afraid to tell him cause every time we talk on those things he ...

My sister, who irritates me tremendously, heard me call her a bitch, should I apologize??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - Im 20 and my sister is 26 im the youngest and they have always treated me like a baby and since ive started growing up its been hell!! My sister and my mom are overbearing they come in my room telling me to go to bed,yell at me for being on the ...

His contacts with his ex's make me uncomfortable, should I be??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4790 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - Right so 2years ago my bf met up with his ex behind my back and said he hadn't and saved some half naked photos of her on his computer from her facebook. We had a big row and made up. We've been good since then but he still texts other ex's and I ...

I think I was wrong about him, what do you think??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - Why is this guy behaving like that? should I be offended? So I've been getting to know this guy. He loves himself and you can tell is all about him cos I ask a lot of questions trying to get him and he never asks me anything about me. He ...

Is it selfish, to want to spend time with her??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

15 October 2011 (M) - I am 23 and have been with my girlfriend who is 21 for 5months now with one break up during that time. i have graduated college and she is in her senior year and goes to school which is two hours away from me. we fell in love over the summer where ...

3 Ways To Recession-Proof Your Relationship

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15 October 2011 (M) - Are you feeling the effects of the current economy? Is your relationship suffering because of it? Well don't despair....there are things that you can do. 1. Be creative. Think of some low cost (or no cost) ways to put a smile on your partner's f...

Being Able To Change: Breaking Old Habits In Relationships

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4767 days ago

15 October 2011 (M) - Sometimes it’s hard to break old habits. If you’re used to acting a certain way in a relationship (or life in general), changing your ways may seem difficult. However, if you’ve noticed that things aren’t going so well in your relationship, you may ...

Mini-makeout session? girls 18-19: how far would you expect the guy to go on your first date with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

15 October 2011 (M) - I am going to get mixed answers here, no doubt. This is aimed at the girls. As an 18 or 19 year old, how far would you expect a guy to go on a first date? Would a mini make out session be too much? How come in the movies couples seem to sleep with ...

My mother calls him a waste of space. Why can't my parents accept him, despite all the good things?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - My parents dislike (and I suspect possibly even hate) my boyfriend. Why? I'm 19, and he's 21, he's got a job in IT / computer maintenance, went to uni and is qualified, doesn't drink (except as a social drinker) and spends most of his time outside...

Party? what Party? What does it mean when my boyfriend does not invite me to go to a party with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - I just found out my boyfriend is going to a party and he didn't invite me. It's not the first time this has happened, really. We have been together for over a year and I think we should go to parties together! (I ALWAYS invite him to my parties ...

Did I over-react? my husband defended his friend. Ignored my feelings. The sexual joke was about me

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - Tell me if I'm over reacting or if I took this the wrong way. My husband has a male friend who I think has really disrespected me. They were talking online with a bunch of people. My husband's friend said: "We should get you a webcam and have ...

I don't want to be gay. My old friend and I started doing gay things with each other. How do I stop feeling this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

15 October 2011 (M) - I am 20 years old, My old friend and I started doing gay things with each other, we were at first just trying then it turned into anytime we saw each other. we couldn't stop now I cant even get hard looking at girls. I realize I am probably gay, but...

I want to be the man she wants. How can I make things more interesting betwen us so I don't lose her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4791 days ago

15 October 2011 (M) - Please help me out.I have been a relationship for two years, and something happend to me lately. I called my girl with a new phone and sim,claiming to be someone else entirely,(i claimed to be john), i changed my voice for 2 weeks towards her and ...

They are 'taken' So Why do people see married men/women in the first place?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - Note: if you honestly didn't know he/she was with someone, i undertand completely. I have seen so many questions on here about people being broken hearted about their lovers leaving them and all I can think is, what did you expect? I keep t...

Teething problems with domestic bliss? How do we get the Loving Bliss back into our relationship now we have moved in together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - I've just moved in with my boyfriend of many years. We're renting an apartment together. It seems since we've gotten our own place, all our time is taken up with housework! We both work fulltime (and he works TWO jobs, so starts his second one a...

Nine pm curfew still at almost 19! Is this reasonable? the restrictions are stifling me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - So, I'm 18 going on 19 and still living at home, trying to finish my freshman year of college and I have a 9'o clock curfew still. I don't know what to do. I can't even use my vehicle without their permission which means I can't go out with my ...

We are virtual friends and Sext. Should I tell his new girlfriend about us? He says we do the things his Gf is too shy to do.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

15 October 2011 (?) - dear cupid, soo, there's this guy that i met in college back in december of last year. for most of that time, me and him have kind of been...well, i guess a good term for it would be "virtual friends with benefits." basically, we sext (without pi...

Should I be worried? Her reasons are my snoring? my sadness is no intimacy. My wife and I haven't shared a bed in six years.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

15 October 2011 (M) - My wife and I sleep in separate bedrooms. We have been married for 19 years and this started about 6 years ago. Before that time, we always spent the night together. In fact, I can remember once when my wife was away at her mom's in another ...

Aunts and Uncles help me please on your marriage statistics? I want to ensure my marriage succeeds.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - This is a question for the aunts (male and female) who are currently, or have been, married. How long before marriage did you know your spouse? How long were the two of you a couple? Are you happy with how long you waited to take that step, sorry...

My younger wife is having sexual problems. How can I help her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

15 October 2011 (M) - I am a 53 year old male married to a 25 year old and we are having sexual problems not by me but her. we also have 4 children. Can you give me some advice? ...