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writes:so..currently i am living abroad for a 1 year school internship, and yesterday i was talking to this guy who i have had a crush on for 2 years now, and he asked me an akward question. i had just posted a new photo of mine on f.b and he said he likes it. we kept talking and i told him that i was bored cause i was alone cause my friend (who's doing this internship with me) is on holiday with her boyfriend. then jokingly he asked ''and where's your boyfriend?'' and i kept playing along inventing a story about a non existing guy...but then after joking around he got serious and asked me ''why, really, don't you have a boyfriend?'' , i said'' well i don't know, i guess i'm not cut out for anyone!!'' and then he siad that that wasn't true, and that if i didin't have to go abroad, and him either (which will be next yr) he will go out me.well after saying this i felt the urge to go back and remind him of our past. i asked him if he remembers the day when he asked me out and i replied 'lool'. he said that yes he remembered and he thought that i didn't have feeling for him because of the way i answered. i told him no, i only said lool beacause i thought you were joking around, and i regret that. he then said that next time i should have told him the truth, and that when i get from abroad he will take me out for a drink to make it up to me. is he worth it? i just can't forget him! i've been obsessed for 2 years now, and telling him the truth yesterday just felt overwhelming...but still i feel like i'm wasting my time. his bestfriend, whom i talked to yesterday aswell and suspiciously mentioned him in our conersation, said that my crush still isn't mature enough,it's just not his time...i don't know i miss old times :(
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 October 2011):
 Only he can answer that, I understand that you are shy so you don't want to ask him out, but if he has asked you out for a drink then take him up on his offer and see what happens. It sounds like he makes you laugh and it is obvious you like him so give it a chance. It does sound like he is interested as well.
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reader, ...lb... +, writes (27 October 2011):
...lb... is verified as being by the original poster of the question hey guys thanks for answering my question!!
well ''moo's mum'' it isn't as easy as it seems, i can't just ask him out, i'm too shy. i'm just surprised with myself that i had the guts to tell him how i felt about what happened to us in the past.
..and ''aunt honesty'' i do sometimes feel like he's immature, but hey all guys act like that! i mean he's immature in a funny way, he makes you laugh! I'm just finding it really hard and i'm starting to blame myself for what happened. i'm going on holiday back home next week, and maybe i'll meet up with him, see what happens...
the more time passes, the more we talk, the more i fall in love with him, and the more i get hurt...cause that's what this is all about! i'm falling in love with a guy, and i don't know if he feels the same way! ughh my love life sucks :(
...P.S he mentioned going out for a drink one more time while we were chatting...and... when i once said that the guys i work with hate me he said ''just remember that i love you'' (but i guess that's just him fooling around...or is this the same trick as when he asked me out? making me think he's joking when he's really serious?)
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (16 October 2011):
Do you feel like he is immature? Don't let this friend influence you, you are old enough to make your own decisions and act on your own feelings and thoughts. If you feel he is immature and not worth it then cut all ties. But obviously you have saw something in him to make you obsess over him for two years. So why not give him a chance so that you know yourself what could be. Off course it won't be plain sailing because you are away now and then he is heading away for a year. So it would be difficult for you both to work things out but not impossible. So take him up on his offer and see what happens.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (16 October 2011):
 Instead of obsessing over him take the bull by the horns and ask him out. The you will know.
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