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writes:Im 20 and my sister is 26 im the youngest and they have always treated me like a baby and since ive started growing up its been hell!! My sister and my mom are overbearing they come in my room telling me to go to bed,yell at me for being on the phone after 12 at night and if I go on a date if im not home by 12am they constantly call my phone. my sis convinced my mother not to let me have men over past 10 pm which I think is so unfair because her current boyfriend and also her ex boyfriend(her babys father) are allowed to spend the night in her room without asking. So I started sneaking my boyfriend in the house and when my sis suspected I was she TOOK MY DOOR KNOB OFF MY DOOR AND HID IT THEN SHE WENT THROUGH MY DRAWERS AND BOARDED UP MY WINDOW!!! Now they come in my room late at night checking me and it makes me feel like a prisoner.So one night my boyfriend wanted to see me and it was kinda a emergency so I snuck him in and one thing led to another and we ended up having sex. And she walks in on us! now shes always calling me a hoe and judging me but ive been with the same guy for three years!! Last night she was eaves dropping on my conversation and overheard me saying what a bitch she was and now shes really hurt soooo what should I do now?? I feel kinda bad but shes Annoying!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2011): I wouldn't apologize at all. She is being a bitch and she should not be offended after calling you a hoe? Did she apologize? I don't think so. She sounds very jealous of you and seems to be going out of her way to ruin things for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2011): You are old enough to move out, you don't have to live in such conditions. They are treating you like a child. Don't apologize, she deserved it.
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reader, Rawrsie +, writes (16 October 2011):
 No, you absolutely shouldn't. She should learn she's taking things WAYYY to far. Boarding up your windows and taking off your doorknob. To me, it sounds like she has a jealousy issue. She has a baby now she has a New boyfriend. When she looks over at you, you have a good boyfriend for 3 years that doesn't seem like leaving you. She felt envious and is now making your life horrible because it seems really "perfect". So she felt hurt being called a bitch. She should know what YOU felt when she called you a HOE. Tell her to mind her own business and say things that aren't hurtful unless she wants the same treatment.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (16 October 2011):
 Where is your father in all this?? If you have an absent father, then I can see your sister trying to fill that role.
Like it or not, you are the baby of the family...really they're just trying to protect you, from making the mistakes they did.
I can see if your sister was with her ex and say they were engaged, then I can understand him spending the night. For men to spend the night in your room, that's encouraging sex underneath your mother's roof. So I think it's inappropriate for men to spend the night in your mother's home, period.
The 12 am curfew is reasonable, and getting off the phone at 12am is out of respect for those going to bed. Do you pay the phone bill? At the end of the day, you live under your mother's roof, so it's her rules. If you don't like them then you can try to talk to her about them like an adult. However, if she doesn't budge then you can move out and get your own place, with your rules.
Regarding calling your sister that choice word, it would be mature of you to apologize to her. She's your sister and even though you may think she's acting like one...it's because she's trying to protect you. Apologize and move on from this spat.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2011): No don't apologize she sounds like a bitch
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