New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

Being Able To Change: Breaking Old Habits In Relationships

Tagged as: Big Questions<< Previous question   Next question >>
Article - (15 October 2011) 1 Comments - (Newest, 7 November 2011)
A male United States age 36-40, Daniel the love doctor writes:

Sometimes it’s hard to break old habits. If you’re used to acting a certain way in a relationship (or life in general), changing your ways may seem difficult. However, if you’ve noticed that things aren’t going so well in your relationship, you may have to say or do things differently. That is of course you want the relationship to last.

Here are some things you can do:

1. Communicate. Knowing what your partner likes about you is great. However, if you want your relationship to progress and grow, it’s absolutely essential that you learn what he/she dislikes. Have a deep conversation with your partner…and take everything he/she says into serious consideration.

2. Check yourself. Ask yourself this question…”what can I do differently to make my partner happier in our relationship?” Or, take out a piece of paper and write “In order for my relationship to get better I need to…” and make a list of a few things that you need to do.

If there are things you need to change about yourself when it comes to your relationship, then you should change it. You have the power to end your relationship or make it better. If you make a decision to make it better, you’ll see great results and a more satisfied partner.

<-- Rate this Article

Reply to this Article


Share

You can add your comments or thoughts to this article

A male reader, Daniel the love doctor United States +, writes (7 November 2011):

Daniel the love doctor is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Daniel the love doctor agony auntYou're welcome Dark heart x. And thanks for your comment. :^)

<-- Rate this answer

Register or login to comment on this article...

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0312829000031343!