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Archived questions from: 18 October, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I like a girl, but her cousin is my friend. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4786 days ago

18 October 2011 (M) - Hi So im here to talk about my issue and i do know its not a huge problem but it does mean lots to me. So i'v seen this girl many times and iv always liked cute girls so anyway this girl lives in my neighborhood and when i mean with seen the gi...

Do you ever get over a first love?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

18 October 2011 (M) - Do women get over their first love that they had sex with for their first time, or even if it wasn't a first love that they had sex with the first time?nEven if it has been several years since it took place? I would like to hear views from the lady...

He's always so busy!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4787 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - My guy is a workaholic. We both go to a prestigious university so there is always a lot of schoolwork and he is an engineering major so his workload is heavier than mine. Not only that, he is involved in a bunch of organizations and is a member of ...

How do I tell him that I don't want a man in my life anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - I've divorced my husband. We've been married for 20 years. My husband is 10 years older than me is a selfish controlling and very mean with money. Even if needed he wont spend. I've met this man 16 years older have the same issue - money is ...

How can I incorporate psychology into my journalism career?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

18 October 2011 (?) - dear cupid, this isn't a relationship question, but i figured that it wouldn't hurt to take a chance on someone being able to provide me an answer here. anyways... my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend hurt him really badly--she cheated on him multip...

I feel no matter what I do I will never be able to pay my wife back after she did so much for me! How can I make sure she never has any complaints in life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

18 October 2011 (M) - In May 1996, while I was on visit visa to States to attend one of my cousins wedding there, I fell in love with 15 years old school going American girl and I was 18 then. Upon my return from there, we kept it going through phone and transferred it ...

Did my ex miss me? Does he still love me? Should we be friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4786 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - I want to know how to go about a situation. I used to date this gemini guy in high school, 9 years later we started talking again and we clicked from the start. he made me happy and I know I made him happy. everything was perfect we started getting ...

Is getting him back a realistic aim? My bf went back to his wife, will he ever come back to me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - I am 29, 5 months pregnant. My bf left me after I called him COWARD because he was too afraid to show his face to my parents and stand up for our baby. After a day, his sister told me that he's gone back to his wife. I am in so much pain right no...

Was I hoping for more than my FWB can give? Should I wait or contact him to ask about his "no show"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - Hi everyone my fwb was supposed to cook for me last night, and I was supposed to be staying at his. But I have not heard from him for over a week now, this is not unusual, though what should I do? should I text him? or should I wait for him to get ...

Struggling to get my 14 year old to open up about her first love and first break-up, any other moms going through this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - Hi...so, my 14 year old "little" girl has just experienced her first love and now it seems like her first breakup!..She is not allowed to go on dates yet, but the young boy often came to our house over weekends..and every now and then a group of ...

What do you think, is it over? What would you do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

18 October 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid My question links on from this previous question... http://www.dearcupid.org/question/our-relationship-was-amazing-and-now-i-need.html Basically I gave my gf space for five days. Come Saturday I left her a voicemail saying I ho...

After 10 years is a future with an ex worth hoping for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

18 October 2011 (M) - I have spent since February with out a woman. Dateless for the most part and am now wondering about getting back into the dating world. It's a funny thing that has happened to me. I am 33 years old now. I am told I have always gone for the woman who ...

He's been away for three months, now when he's finally coming back home-he tells me he's thinking of going back again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4784 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - My guy has been gone for three months because of a work project in Costa Rica and he's supposed to come back in early Nov. Today, he told me he might have to go back again but it's voluntary-he wants to go back. Ok. But then he says he's missed me ...

I'm so stuck - days just go by and life keeps ticking away and I just don't know what to do

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

18 October 2011 (M) - I am in a rut and have been for a long time (although I appreciate many people are!). The last 10 years in my head are nothing but a blurred montage of bad decisions, depression, regret, anxiety, ill health and lack of motivation. From about 16 ...