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Not sure of my sexuality, can you help me??

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Question - (15 October 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 16 October 2011)
A age 30-35, * writes:

Im 17 years old and i don't know if im lesbian or not. I really really like guys but i think i might also be attracted to girls. i don't know if this would be the best thing or not for me Please Help!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2011):

the surest way of finding out is to try a girl. you will like it or you wont.

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A female reader, thinkb4 Papua New Guinea +, writes (16 October 2011):

You could be bi or bi curious.

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A female reader, AuntyAlexxmo United Kingdom +, writes (16 October 2011):

AuntyAlexxmo agony auntWhat you feel right now is very normal and loads of people especially your age, feel the same.

What I would say is important for you right now is not to worry about labels such as lesbian or bisexual and just spend some learn who you actually are. You may find you become more attracted to one sex than the other or you may stay liking both ( which would make you bisexual, but you wont find this out by slapping a label on yourself, you'll learn who you are through dating and meeting people and seeing what you do and dont enjoy.

Hope this helps.

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A female reader, shrodingerscat United States +, writes (16 October 2011):

shrodingerscat agony auntYou're either bisexual, heteroflexible or pansexual.

If you are equally attracted to men and women, you are bisexual.

If you are more attracted to men, you are heteroflexible.

If you are equally attracted to ALL permutations of gender including transsexuals, genderqueer/genderfluid people, then you are pansexual.

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A male reader, Confused2218 United Kingdom +, writes (15 October 2011):

possibly bi sexual?

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