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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionA BIG thank u to all of u.I feel a whole lot better:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2010): I am 5ft 3 ins and have spent a lifetime dating tall men and was shallow enough to think that tall men were god's gift to women. When you are small and you date a tall man you spend your whole time looking up to him. My partner now is the same height as me and I absolutely love it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2010): Only for you apparently x
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reader, Anonny  +, writes (25 January 2010):
It's only a problem if you make it a problem! - I'm five foot five - but my boyfriend is only about five foot three - at the most!! - He has never mentioned it and even though I know he is small - I always look on him as cute!! - I couldn't imagine him any other way!!Being small can have its advantages in the bedroom too! - Not all women like "large" men!
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reader, Emaz help +, writes (25 January 2010):
 It shouldn't really be a 'problem' and if you love them then it shouldn't matter either. Personally i couldn't date anyone shorter than me but as long as they are slightly taller thats ok
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (25 January 2010):
 Think of it like this, you are both at the right height to kiss each other.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2010): Some wives are taller than their husbands. Stop thinking it's a bad thing and it wont be one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2010): im laughing because i have the same problem. i am 5'9" and my bubby is one inch taller. i have a bad habit of stooping a bit. happy to say it hasnt ever affected our relationship. although i would love for him to be taller...he's the man for me. we've been married for 27 years and it has honestly been the least of our problems. idont wear heels, but at 5'9" i dont need them anyway. :) mal
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (25 January 2010):
No, there's no problem here at all. So long as you love each other, there's no problem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2010): Height really isn't that big of a deal although it can seem like it to someone who prefers the man being taller. My boyfriend is my exact height or I might be a bit taller than him, just like your situation. Personally I have always preferred a taller man but when you really love someone like I love my boyfriend and I'm sure the way you love your husband it isn't a big deal at all. I promise no one cares or even thinks about it. No one's commenting on the height or you and your husband. It's not a big deal. Don't let it have any effect on your relationship. It's something that can't be controlled.
For me personally since my bf and I are the same height I just never wear high-heels and try to stick to flatter shoes. Just don't dwell on it.
One of the best relationships I've heard about came from a girl who was a model and was a lot taller than her bf. But they were a really great couple together and she never let it bother her. She even wore heels with him and it wasn't a problem for their relationship.
But think of it this way. If you are the same height you have easier access for kissing ;). Also there is a sexual benefit if you 69. Think of the good things!
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