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Archived questions from: September, 2010 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

I don't care about the age difference!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I don't know what to do. I've completely fallen for someone who is 7 years older than me. He means the world to me and im so lucky to have him in my life. The thing is is he is giving me all the right signs that he likes me, like letting me cuddl...

I am too scared to meet him because of age differences

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I've been overweight my whole life. I'm used to rejection and being told no guy would ever want me. Recently I've been talking to a guy who is about 17 years older than me. I am attracted to him and he is attracted to me, we've planned to meet a few ...

How can I get my mind off of my male teacher?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - I'm 13, and my band director is male, and is married to a woman. He looks to bein his 40's, and just had I child. I've had a crush on him for a few years, and I know I'll never get a shot, because it's illegal, and he isn't gay, but ... What can I ...

How do I get older women to notice me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - what is the best way for older females to notice me? im 19 i like females from 25 and up to 45. people help me out. im not ugly or anythin i look good . i mean alot of women my age want to go out with me. but ilike older women. any advice well be ...

I am not sure how to tell my parents about my 10 years older than me boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Okay this is going to sound odd at first but im 19 and my bf is 29. I will be 20 next month. He just turned 29. I am not one for age if its reasonable like this....but how am I suppose to tell my parents? I dont want them to judge me or him....

He is thinking of leaving his wife for me, but I'm worried he may only be leaving because he thinks the grass is greener on the other side....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Ok, it's best to start at the beginning. I work with a guy who is 15 years older than me, have always had a soft spot, and the room kinda lit up when I saw him. I hadn't realised that (2 years down the line) he had felt the same as me. He is ...

Embarrassed by my older boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I've been seeing a guy who is 16 years older than me for over a year, but I feel really ashamed. I dont want him to meet any of my family because I'm embarrassed of him, and the few people we have told are wondering why I am with him. It's making me ...

Would it be bad to date someone younger than you??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - im a freshman(bday:5/30/96) hes a seventh grader(bday:9/3/97) would it be bad to date him? i told him it might be smart to wait until hes a sophomore and im a senior or when hes an eighth grader and im a sophomore or when hes a freshman and im a ...

I'm in love with my sister-in-law's brother and everyone in my family is against it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - hey, i am 17 and i am HEAD OVER HEELS in love with this guy thats 24 and he tells me that he is MADLY in love with me but....my ENTIRE family is against him he is my brothers wifes brother and omg he is amazing...he has a gf that is a couple months ...

Is there a scandal here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Hi, I've used this site before and found it really helpful so here we go again. I have been with my partner for eight years now and he's great to me a really nice guy. Two weeks ago i met someone while i was out a friend of a friend ans he was real...

Are her parents holding us back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - I have fallen in love and started a relationship with a girl 12 years my junior. i'm 31 and she is 19. We get on so well, we can talk to each other about anything, we share similar interests, we enjoy each others company. we both feel the same about ...

Are they right??? Should we look for someone else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

26 September 2010 (M) - I am a guy of 23 years of age in a relationship with a girl of 23 as well but she is 3 days older than me. We both have been pressurized by friends, relatives and people generally that the relationship can't work, they say it will be better if I ...

I'm messing around with a 29 year old and he doesn't know that I"m only 17

This question has 36 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - basically a few months back i met this guy we kissed, then after i found out he was 29 years old and i was only 16 years old. i stopped texting him because i knew it was wrong. but now.... I need your help again!! I was out downtown with ...

I'm interested in a 13 year old girl who lives 2 hours away.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

26 September 2010 (M) - Ok i got a problem. Im 15 and ive been talking to this girl. She is only 13. We both have feeling for each other. i just dont know if that age difference at this time is right. She also lives 2 hours away so it would be a kinda long distance ...

I really like this guy, only I'm 28 and he's 23!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - I'm in a predicament, I really like this guy but I'm 28 and his 23! We have so much in common and get on really well together, but I'm scared to confront him, I know he likes me but maybe his holding back for the same reasons. I don't know what to ...

Could he have meant it when he said "I love you"?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - Ok so I'm with this gorgeous, intelligent, and delicious latino man and everything's been good for eight months. We have 14yrs between us but we get along well (if he doesn't play 80s music and I don't try to show him the loveliness of Il Divo ...

Can a relationship with a big age difference really work or its just impossible.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - I always liked older men atleast 3 to 8 yrs older than me. I never picture myself messing with someone 2x my age expecially someone around my mother age. In the beginning it didn't matter but to him it did because like he's was my first oldest man I ...

I am dating a man 37 yrs older than me

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

25 September 2010 (F) - i am dating a guy that is 37 yrs older than me. i love him like i never loved anyone else and he loves me the same way or even more. my question is: Is it okay that i am dating a guy 37 yrs older than me? we have plans on moving in together but idk ...

Is a 24 year age gap too much?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - Am I being unrealistic? Is a 24 year age gap to much? I am 26, he is 50. I've always said to people, age doesn't matter. But that's when I was offering advice to my friends. Now it is a situation that has arisen for me, and I have my doubts! ...

Will he ever make this official?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - Okay so I'm 18 and I met this 38 year old at my cousin's job. Age in relationships never bothers me to begin with and after we hung out for the first time I already started to see that I liked him. We've been "together" for about a month and a half. ...

She said she was 18, I developed feelings, but it turns out she's 16

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

24 September 2010 (M) - 11 months ago i met a girl. At the time she told me she was 18. Months later the truth came out that she was 16. i am 22 years old. It wasnt hard to believe that she was older than her real age. Her friends are all around my age. Her Ex bf is a mon...

Is it normal to be attracted to older men?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - I'm 18, and for as early as I could remember I've been attracted to older men (40-50). Maybe because of their masculinity and overall maturity. My dad recently told me if he found out I was seeing a man in that age group, he wouldn't approve of it. ...

Are older men better lovers?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - Is it true that older men make better lovers, due to experience?...

Should a 20 year age gap matter?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - I'm not sure what to do. I like this man who is 20 years older than me. I'm 26 and he is 46. He winks at me everytime he sees me, which, by the way, i haven't seen him do to anyone else, just me, and he always gives me a kiss. He has also said that ...

Confused about this man and unsure what to do next!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5171 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - I wrote last week about my friends brother stroking my hair behind my ear and asking if it was a flirting gesture, well this week, I don't know what has happened but all of a sudden he has been mean to me and then today he has been nice to me. ...

Much older man does he want to pursue a relationship with me??

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She's 16 but lied and told me she was 18 and now I have feelings for her!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

23 September 2010 (M) - 11 months ago i met a girl. At the time she told me she was 18. Months later the truth came out that she was 16. i am 22 years old. It wasnt hard to believe that she was older than her real age. Her friends are all around my age. Her Ex bf is a mon...

Is he attracted to me? or does he just want a friendship?

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22 September 2010 (F) - I'm not sure what to do. I like this man who is 20 years older than me. I'm 26 and he is 46. He winks at me everytime he sees me, which, by the way, i haven't seen him do to anyone else, just me, and he always gives me a kiss. He has also said that ...

I don't want to loose our friendship by mentioning us maybe going further into this relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5173 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - I am a 65 year old divorced female. I have found online "dating" awful. Recently a man I have known for a good length of time socially, and I have begun a friendship. We have attended movies and gone out to dinner, and he invited me on a walk to ...

How do I prove it to my boyfriend that I'm not having an affair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - im 15 years and my boyfrend is 20 years. i broke up with him some months before and we again joined. during that time i had another Bf . i didnt know how end the relationship with him .. When i wanted to break up with him my first Boyfrien...

Why I like older girls than me? am I normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

22 September 2010 (M) - hi, Would you plz help me that what the hell happen to me? I dont know why but i like be with old woman. when i have sex with same age or younger girls, i am not feeling satisfy. but when i have sex with old women i am feeling very very satisfac...

Troubled relationship and now she won't see you!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - You're a 34yr old guy and you've been seeing a soon-to-be 19yr old for 7 months. She's only met three of your friends (who were from out of town and spoke no english) and that was months ago, she understands when you tell them you're her tutor. You ...

Hard breakup

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5174 days ago

21 September 2010 (M) - So here's the situation. My girlfriend and I recently broke up, and it's hurting really bad. We were in a long distance relationship of 1 year and things started out fantastic. But towards the end of the relationship she started to pay less ...

Do you think I am his rebound girl or do you think he may really be interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - I need some advice PLEASE ! I met this guy Paul about 6 months ago at a party, we were both in a weddign together, him the best man be the maid of honor. Over the next few months we became friends, mainly just chatting and organizing things for the ...

Sharing my wife... playing with fire?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

20 September 2010 (M) - I want to know if anyone has ever played around with this – I am a 41 year old man… recently married a beautiful 27 year old woman. We are very much in love…trying to have a child together. We have a great sex life…but we are both on the adven...

Spicing things up for some birthday sex!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been with the same man for 20 years, and I am still horny for this man. I am 44 years old, and he is 52. I want to spice up the relationship because our sex life has gone down. I know that our age difference may play a big roll...

How do I handle this situation? I'm so confused about it all.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - I'm 33, my boyfriend 51. We were together for four years. He helped me get out of an abusive relationship, helped me financially and promised to marry me and start a family. He took me to look at rings four years ago but never proposed. Its been ...

Age...not just a number? Is he playing with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - Almost in love with my bf after almost seven months...16 hour dates, cooking together, long drives, pet names, always laughing together, sweet moments.we have a 15yr difference in age and that as well as other factors worry me. Our musical tastes ...

Is this age difference wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

20 September 2010 (M) - I'm a 23 year old guy in love with a 32 year old woman who loves me back, is that considered wrong or bad? ...

She's too young..do I lose contact with her or tell her my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

20 September 2010 (M) - Firstly let me say this is the hardest thing I've ever had to write. I'm 22 years old, and, though it kills me to admit it, I'm finding myself falling in love with a girl of 14. I've known the girl in question since she was 9, when I met her f...

Freshman wants to go out with middle schooler?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 September 2010 (F) - Would it be okay if a freshman maybe went out with an 8th grader? Cause I'm a freshman and I really kind of like this 8th grader I do community theatre with. Idk if I should, cause I'm not sure if it'll work out....

Is it age difference or what's going on here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

18 September 2010 (F) - Hello, i am having problems in my relationship right now! I am 21 and my boyfriend is 29 we started dating 4 months ago but we have been very good friends since i was 15, I moved to Chicago a year ago because i was offered a scholarship by The ...

Can we make this work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F) - I started seeing this guy over the summer while we were both working away on a cruise ship. I'm 22 from Canada and graduating from University in May 2011. I have always been an adventurous person who wanted to travel after graduation for a bit and ...

Should I put up a front???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

16 September 2010 (F) - Why in the World do i like older guys?! I mean, not much older, but the age difference could be from 4 to 11 years, which is not that much to me considering my relatives but my friends all think its so weird. They always think I'm hiding something ...

Any input from other same-sex "cougars"?

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16 September 2010 (F) - well for starts,my question involves the so called "cougar question".I have been involved with a woman 30 years my junior,who lives in another country(canada),we had met on line, and she was definitley into me,a lot.We have visited with each other ...

Am I just wasting my time? or do I wait and see what happens?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

15 September 2010 (F) - theres this guy i've met few weeks ago in a club i havent talked to him so when i saw that on facebook he has gave me a friend request and we talk everyday since. his cute really nice and it seems like he really likes me. he is 5years older then me ...

A bad time in the a relationship for the nice guy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

15 September 2010 (M) - hey all i want to ask a very diffacult question i am 18 and my gf is 15 turning 16 she is might be pregenet with anothers man kid hu doesnt belive her and since i love her i will take the kid as my own but everytime she gos to guys house to talk ...

I'm 18, he's 40. Can it work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

14 September 2010 (F) - hi! my agony is that i just met a man online, i am still 18 and he is 40 years old. now the problem is i have been searching for many years of my love and i think i found him. we respect our age differences, we feel compatible with each other now. ...

Why can't my family give him a chance and really get to know him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (F) - I have always had a great relationship with my parents until now. I am 20 yrs old and they are still treating me like a child. I work part time and go to school part time. I started dating my new bf a few months ago and they dont like him only ...

Do I have the obligation to look after him in this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 September 2010 (F) - I've married for twenty years. My husband is ten years older than me. Besides finanically supporting the family there isnt much make me feel like to continue this marriage. He never cares when I am not well. Finally I divorced him and found ...