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Archived questions from: November, 2005 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

He's engaged to another but says I am his soulmate...and I have strong feelings for him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - A guy I have worked with for the past year told me that he liked me and he thought i was his soulmate. The problem is that he is engaged to be married to another woman. I have very strong feelings for him.I want to tell him not to marry her! I am 33 ...

My ex-lover is back on the scene, now that I'm over 18... and she's angling to get me back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6961 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - I am now an 18 year old female and in my last year of sixth form. I had a relationship with my 33 year old female teacher which started in August 2004 till September 2005. My parents found out about it and put a stop to it. The police decided i...

My relationship with my teacher ended...now she's back in touch. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6953 days ago

28 November 2005 (F) - I am now an 18 year old female and in my last year of sixth form. I had a relationship with my 33 year old female teacher which started in August 2004 till September 2005. My parents found out about it and put a stop to it. The police decided i...

I'm a youth worker-she's a troubled teen girl. I'm falling in love with her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6934 days ago

27 November 2005 (M) - I am a 25 year old male youth worker and have been doing it for over a year now. I work with young adults aged between 14-18. Since I started I got on really well with one of the female members of the group who is now aged 16. She used to be into ...

My 35 year old boyfriend doesn't want sex with me, anymore..does this just happen to older men?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - Hi,my name is rebelgirl1801. I am 18 years old and I am currently in a relationship with a 35 year old man. He never wants to have sex anymore with me. What can i do to make him want me more? Is it me? Or ...

Need more advice! My teen son still insists on marrying his 52 year old girlfriend and the police can't do anything!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

26 November 2005 (M) - Thank you for all your help so far as regards my problem. Yet my 16-year-old son still wants to marry this 52-year-old woman. I contacted the police but they can't do anything about it apparently. My wife is worried about our son. What kinds o...

There are five years between us. Is this OK?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6967 days ago

24 November 2005 (F) - Is anything wrong with an 18 year old dating a 23 year old woman?...

How do I get Mum and Dad to come around to my dating an older guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6967 days ago

22 November 2005 (F) - Ok, so here's my problem. My friend wants to set me up with this guy, who is "just like me". We have talked on the phone for a few weeks now. I really am beginning to like him! Heres the thing: I am 18, he is 25. Now, I don't think it is a big deal, ...

Do I tell my mum's friend that I'm in love with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6969 days ago

22 November 2005 (F) - Im a 20yr old female and im in love with my mums best friend who is 38yrs old and married. we are very close and she thinks of me like her little sister, only im so in love with her. I realy want to tell her how i feel because i cant get her out of ...

In the last year, my guy has changed. Suddenly, he doesn't have time for me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6966 days ago

22 November 2005 (F) - Help needed very sad I have been dating this guy for 3 years and everything was great. We loved each other and showed it and always made time for each other. Then this past year everything just changed suddenly. He's busy all the time and hardly ...

I'm 14, he is 20! What if he finds out my age?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - i reali lyk dis lad called wayne. he is 20 and im 14 bt he finks im 15. i dnt fink age shud b a problem bt im scared incase he finds out and wants nothing to do with me. please help. i duno wot 2 do....

My son wants to marry a woman 36 years older than he is!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6906 days ago

21 November 2005 (M) - My 16 year old son has told me he wants to get married to his 52-year-old girlfriend now. what do I do? Please help me, I need your advice. Martyn in Watford, Hertfordshire...

My boyfriend lied in the past,. Can I trust what he says now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6946 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - Almost 3 months ago I found out that my boyfriend had lied to me about almost everything he told me about himself. I decided to stay with him despite his lies because I really like him. First he lied to me about his age. He told me he was 24 y...

I fancy my best friend's younger sister... Do I ask her out?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

20 November 2005 (M) - Dear Agony Aunt I am 22 and I have feelings for one of my best friend’s younger sister who is 16. She is very mature for her age and looks and acts nearer 20. We get on like a house on fire and have some great laughs together. I don’t have troub...

I want my fiance to get his vasectomy reversed, so he can have some children with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6972 days ago

19 November 2005 (F) - Me and my fiance are very happy, he is older than me and has two kids to a previous marriage, I'm still quite young and would love a family but when I bring the topic up he says to stop pestering him and that he is thinking about it. The problem is ...

She's married with kids and not in love with me, but I want more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6966 days ago

18 November 2005 (M) - Hi. I am a single 20 yr old Male. I am in love with a woman who is 40 yrs old. She is married with kids. But I am worried because we are best friends and have been for nearly 2 years now. I am certain she is not in love with me. But I want more. I ...

Is his attraction to teenage girls normal?

This question has 36 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

18 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend just told me he is attracted to teenage girls. He says he would never act on it, but its a pervertion of his. I dont know how to feel about this..he is 34 years old and so am I. I cannot compete with youth... Is this sick or am I being ...

I've been cheating on my boyfriend with his younger brother and now I'd rather have him than my boyfriend...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6536 days ago

12 November 2005 (F) - I'm 18 and have been dating this 25 year old for 3 years. He has a 15 year old younger brother. And we kissed. Then we had sex. While the older brother was away we had sex for a week. Now I want to go out with the younger one but not hurt the oldder ...

Need kissing tips...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6773 days ago

11 November 2005 (F) - I'm a 16 year old girl who is dating the most wonderful guy on the face of the planet. He's 22, and we're both really, really shy... lol! Now, I haven't kissed a lot of people before, and he hasn't actually kissed ANYONE before me... but when w...

My online boyfriend is older than me, but he hasn't mentioned sex. Should we?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6949 days ago

9 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together now for about 6 months. I met him online and everything has been perfect, except for one thing...he is 31 and I am 17. He is the nicest guy I could ever meet and he's very good looking and finds me very ...

My boyfriend is twice my age and it's a big sticking point with my dad!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5943 days ago

7 November 2005 (F) - I just need some advice because I am so stuck. I have a boyfriend who is twice my age. I recently told my Dad about it and he is not happy at all. I am very close with my family, but my boyfriend makes me so happy. He makes me feel confident and ...

There's an age gap and he's married and he has kids. But I can't help the fact that I love him!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6232 days ago

6 November 2005 (F) - I've known some family friends for a number of years and have always got on really well with the dad. Recently he told me he loved me, and I think I feel the same about him. We kissed and got quite physical. We get on so well, and always have done. ...

So many barriers between me and the girl I'm seeing... Should I just move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6984 days ago

5 November 2005 (M) - I'm 20 years old and recently got dumped by my girlfriend after 3 years. I was pretty cut up but got over it after about a week. I thought she was the only one for me and that I wouldn't find anyone else. However, 1 month later I met a another girl. ...

I'm trying not to drive my 13-year-old daughter's relationship with her 18-yo boyfriend underground!

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

4 November 2005 (M) - Dear Agony Aunt, My 13 year old daughter is dating an 18 year old, she's known him since her last year in middle school. He is in the sixform of her new high-school and will be going to university next year. I feel I cannot say anything becau...

When we meet, we can't keep our eyes off each other. It's just that we're both with other people...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6986 days ago

4 November 2005 (F) - Hi, I desperate for some advice because I'm so confused over this situation. Basically I met this bloke when I was 17 and he was 26. He's part of the regular town social scene and although he's not that amazing looking I'd always had a bit of a ...

I think the tutor fancies me as much as I do him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6986 days ago

4 November 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, There's a tutor at my university, who I really fancy, he doesn't teach me but I got chatting to him in a cafe when he sat down next to my flat mates who are his students. He's very nice, a great sense of humour, intelligent, an...

I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 22. Soon I can move in with him...

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

4 November 2005 (F) - I'm a 15 year old girl and my boyfriend is a 22 year old man. A lot of people give us problems because we are 7 years apart but the way I look it at, it doesn't matter how old you are, what really matters is the maturity level. We have been together ...

My older guy is concerned about our age gap, but I'm not...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6974 days ago

2 November 2005 (F) - HI Everyone! I'm 21 and the man I love is 42. We get along on soo many levels! HE has concerns that he will "steal" my childhood away. I feel that I'm 21 and what childhood would he really be stealing? I love him so much... Is it ok for me to love...

I don't know what to do. I just clicked with a girl 8 years younger than me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6962 days ago

1 November 2005 (M) - Im a 24 year old guy. I recently met a 16 year old girl. Never in my life have I ever been attracted to a younger girl (all previous girlfriends where either same age as me or older). We get along amazingly and to be honest just clicked. The thing ...

I cheated on my boyfriend with my friend's husband and I'm so ashamed...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6990 days ago

1 November 2005 (F) - I am nearly 17 and have been in a relationship with my partner, who is older than me, for about 8 months. Last week I went to my friend's party and ended up sleeping with her husband. He took me home in the morning and on the way he suggeste...

My bf's abusive, but the Other Guy is already taken. Why must life be so complicated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6991 days ago

1 November 2005 (F) - I'm a 23 woman. I live with my 31 year old boyfriend. We have a joint mortgage. We argue a lot! He keeps pointing out that i'm alot younger than him.... Which i don't believe. I mentally feel i am roughly a similar age to him. More often his temp...