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writes: Almost 3 months ago I found out that my boyfriend had lied to me about almost everything he told me about himself. I decided to stay with him despite his lies because I really like him. First he lied to me about his age. He told me he was 24 yrs old but he is actually 30 yrs old. This bothers me because I am 20 yrs old and he didn't allow me the chance to decide if I wanted to get involved with someone 10 yrs older than me. Secondly, he lied about having 2 kids with his ex-girlfriend. And to make matters worse, I found out that he slept with her in the first month we started dating. When I question if he has cheated on me recently he responds with "why would I need to, we have consistent sex." I question this because we were have consistent sex then, too. He later revealed to me that before he met me, they had just broken up. I have so many concerns, but 4 months later I am still with him. I am worried I am a rebound girl. I am also concerned about the amount of time he spends with her and his children. I want to trust him, but I can't. He tells me that he is so into me and that he isn't the type to have more than one girl at a time, but I also know the majority of his friends have girlfiends who they have children with and cheat on the side. Am I just ignoring the obvious facts, or can he be telling me the truth?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2005): I would like to suggest you that leave him.he's just playing around.it's exactly what it shows.I dpn't know how come you are still with this guy.I know it will be really hard for you to do so but you have to for your good future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2005): Knowing from experience talking to an older guy in his 30's and having children with another women. This man is definetley still sleeping with his baby mother and also he will end up leaving you in the long run. Trust me it has happenend to me and so many other people I know. Plus if you don't have trust in a relationship then you have nothing. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2005): he might hurt you sooner or later when he finds his next victim.
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reader, Dawnest +, writes (21 November 2005):
trust has to be the basis of any relationship and if you dont trust him now, you never will in the future. take back your self esteem and let him go and start being the new YOU. Have a make over, gather all your girl friends for a Girls Night In with some chick flick DVDs, vino collapso and box boxes of kleenex.This guy is using you for his own jollies and will never change so its best to focus on a new life and start now by saying NO when he calls you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2005): YOu are a rebound girl, and he doesn't tell you the truth. Leave him. The faster the better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2005): no you can not trust him forget about him and move on if he lied to you over and over then you don't need anybody like besisdes he 10 years older what do you want with him anyway.you can do better way better you know how many guys would probably want to date you and you stuck on this one guy if you ask me you are the R E B O U N D G I R L he just using move on with your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2005): no get out now it could turn bad
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