| A
female
,
anonymous
writes: I'm a 16 year old girl who is dating the most wonderful guy on the face of the planet. He's 22, and we're both really, really shy... lol!Now, I haven't kissed a lot of people before, and he hasn't actually kissed ANYONE before me... but when we DID kiss, it was lacking something. It tasted wonderful (my GOD did he taste good...) but with so little experience, we don't really know what to do.I'm seeing him tomorrow, and I'd REALLY like some hints on what the heck we're supposed to do...Thanks for your time.
View related questions:
kissing, shy Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2006): start to tease him then plant a cheek kiss and if he kisses you back then go in 4 the lips but make sure you`re alone
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2006): Me and my boyfriend have only kissed on the lips as we are both very shy. Please help me i know what to do but i don't know how to make the first move..how do i know that it's what he wants but i know he wants to kiss me??please help all detail to kissing? x
...............................
A
male
reader, Ellis Mac +, writes (18 November 2005):
Kissing is wonderful!!! All you have to do is feel it, and enjoy it. Enjoy the sensation of your lips moments away from the touch, savour the moment. Feel your heart pound as they touch firmer, and just let your emotions do the rest.
...............................
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2005): One go in very slowly but go in deep. Try to make him shiver while you tongue is in... like running your nails up his sides.
Also play with his ears... we like that
...............................
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2005): you are 16,and heis 22??? he is not shy, he is a pedophyle
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2005): My first kisses weren't all that great either so don't worry, first of all. Just take it slow and see what you both like. Start with mouths closed but lips relaxed, no tongue, and just kiss on his mouth, then try kissing just his bottom lip or his top lip. Next, open your mouth slighlty between kisses and do the same, bending your head slightly (usually to the right but not necessarily) perhaps - just see how you go and how he responds too. listen to how you feel, and enjoy the sensations. then you can try to go further and use your tongues - lightly and not too deep to start with, just touching tongues at first and then withdrawing again. when you are comfortable with this much, the best thing until you get more experienced is to just do a swirling clockwise motion around his tongue while he does the same - but you can vary this if you wish, and really it's just what i found most helpful when i was starting out.
But don't worry too much, I think it is great that your boyfriend also has little experienced, as you can discover things together and you are under less pressure this way.
Have fun and good luck!
...............................
|
